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SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Somali Communities - Beelaha Qurbaha: Europe: UK: UK: What is the definition of love????
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omar

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I want to know what love means in the somali society?... how do you define love?.
is love theory only?

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to:omar

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please what do you know romantic and love...
i think you even know the meaning of these words.
e-mail m_guuleed@hotmail.com

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SmOoThY

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M_Guuleed whatz worng with U brotha ..he just askin' a qustion..he never asked for Ur e-mail??

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Anonymous

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shagging

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Anonymous

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I think definition of love is sex basically. the fundamental part of any relationship is based on sex.

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abdi

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the difinition of love is Respect + trust. so, the equation is r + t = h (h=happiness). love is a feeling which is from inside the heart.. love is a internal feeling. so it is important to understand human feelings and you can only understand it when you analysis your own feelings. it is bit difficult to understand the love feelings because love is blind, it is easy to analysis what is inside your brain but it is hard to analysis what is inside your heart. therefore, it is hard to guide your feelings, you cannot control who you love. Remember respect the human feelings because it is very painful.

show your affection towards your spouse and tell them how much you love him/her. the communication is important in any relationship; if you have good communication link then you can overcome any problem that you may face... remember your partner is your garment and your are his/her garment, so you need to cover each other like piece of clothes..

take care

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idhel

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well i think luv is some thing between two people that are madly and truly in luv. and respects her/him for what they are. and that there is nothing u would'nt do to make them happy, and that u but him/her first in every thing in your life. u can find luv in some weird places and any thing is possible, but i would say that there is a soulmate for every one and that they just have to find each other.

Abdi that was quite true and i like what u said
take
peace

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Anonymous

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LOVE=SEX

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idhel

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anonymous
its so typical of u........sex is that all u think about, there is more to lyuv then that mate.

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abdi

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To idhel!!!

thanks for ageeing with me because most people think about sex rather than love... the flavour of sex is romance. love is a tree, so you have to water the tree everyday, so you can eat the harvest of the tree after... you have to nurture and care of the tree otherwise it will die... you have to understand that your partnter is your garment and you are his/her garment.. therefore you have to cover each other... life is too short and is ver prestigious therfore it's importnat to learn how to socialise and communicate with your partner...you can only be happy when you are in loving relationship.. remember your partner is your baby, so you have to care for him/her like your own baby...

I agree with you, Idhen..

peace upon all

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MOMO

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SALAAN

JAWAABTU WAA GUUR GUUR GUUR

HAKUU MACAANAATO DHAMAAN

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M

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TO MOMO!!!

THANK YOU FOR THE VALUABLE POINT; BUT YOU CANNOT GET MARRIED WITHOUT LOVE; I MEAN YOU HAVE TO LOVER THE PERSON BEFORE YOU CONSIDER MARRIAGE.. MARRIAGE IS BIG RESPONSIBILITY SO YOU HAVE TO BE SURE...

I AGREE WITH YOU BRO!!!

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GACALISO

Thursday, June 22, 2000 - 01:56 am
LOVE=WAXAAD QOF UDAREENTO OO DHAMAAN JIRKAAGA KUSAABSAN

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Anonymous

Wednesday, August 16, 2000 - 01:24 pm
Love is touching ..love is peeling her cloths off...love is kissing ..love is watching the sky n most of all love is humping slow....with joe blasting in the background

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mona

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 07:40 am
no no no
love is caring and sharing love's respecting and understanding, love is giving and taking u know what all those things are then u can love some one then...........

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toof

Saturday, September 30, 2000 - 10:24 am
mona what you think you are some kind of super star? going every conversation.

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hitler

Friday, October 06, 2000 - 01:29 pm
the definition of love is your mama you •••• head

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BATRA

Sunday, October 08, 2000 - 03:17 am
LOVE IS ESPECCIAL FEELING, LOVE IS CARING,LOVE IS TOUCHING, LOVE IS BEING PARTNER WITH THE OTHER PERSON,LOVE IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN THE WORLD TO ME

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suad

Thursday, October 19, 2000 - 06:29 am
i think its the oppsite to hate

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idil

Sunday, October 22, 2000 - 06:57 am
Well everyone is different and so some of our definitions of love may not agree with each other...here is mine

love is when the first thing u think about in the morning is that person and they're the last thing u think about at night
love is respect and honesty between them
love is the butterflies they get when they see, hear or touch each other
love is when u want the best for the other person
love is an emotion and effection has no price
love is unconditional
true love is a once in a life time oppurtunity
love is a great thing cause to have loved is to truly have lived

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ali

Wednesday, October 25, 2000 - 03:08 am
To idil!!!!!!!!

before i go any further

let me ask you a simple
question.

"do you really believe love"

Reply as soon as posible.

BYE!!!!!!

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Ali

Wednesday, October 25, 2000 - 03:39 am
This is love

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In Your Name, The Most High, My Lord, The One

"Allah is the Light of the Heavens and the Earth." -Qur'an
__________________________________________________

All Praise due to You, The One, The Light.

All peace due to our Prophet, Muhammad, his family and wonderful companions and the martyrs of Islam, the ones who gave their
lives to keep
Your Name up high

My Lord...nothing higher than You
The eyes are amazed by Your Glory.
The tongue is frozen by Your Mercy.
The ears are shocked by Your Pure Names.
The hands are shaking in thanking Your Grace.
The feet are weak in standing in Your Light.
The heart is troubled by Your Love.

My Lord,
All Glory is Yours.
The eyes that shed tears for other than You, let it be blind.
The tongue that mentions other than You, let it be mute.
The ears that hear other than You, let it be deaf.
The hands that reach other than You, let it be short.
The feet that stand for other than You, let it be crippled.
The heart that loves other than You, let it be broken.

Without You, My Lord 
The gardens are gray.
The birds don't fly.
The sky is not high.
The heaven is an illusion.

Without You, My Lord 
The friends are enemies.
The sugar is bitter.
The honey is poison.
The food is hunger.

Without You, My Lord 
The sun is nothing but a dark spot in the sky.
The moon is nothing but an insult to the night.
The stars are nothing but little stains in the dark.

Without You, My Lord 
The water is not clear.
The life is full of fear.
The eyes have no tear.
The heart has no rainbow.

However, My Lord, The One, The Compassionate.

With You 
The poison is medicine.
The fire is cold and peaceful.
The ocean is open and dry.
The broken hearts are healed.
The crippled feet run towards You.
The short hands try to reach You.
The tears try to say: "Can I meet You?"

With You 
Life is full of meaning

My Lord!
Do not leave us to ourselves.
Do not leave us alone.
Do not leave us among these wolves.
In the darkness, in the jungle of desires and deception.
Hold our hands, or else we shall fall, and fall and fall and fall.

You, Glory be to You
Even though we do not deserve it
be with Who else other than You?

You are The One
Would You leave Your slaves who are calling upon You
day and nigh...restless?
No...Never.

Glory be to You
You keep your promises it is us who break them

Glory be to You
Do not leave us alone
"Hold on to forgiveness, command what is right,
and turn away from the ignorant." ---Qur'an 7:199

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idil

Wednesday, October 25, 2000 - 11:11 am
Well said Ali ( the last one)
and yes i do believe in love

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ali

Friday, October 27, 2000 - 04:53 am
To Idil !!!!

Now that you believe in love

" do you want someone who
can share with your love"

answer that question for me.

speak to you later "darling"

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idil

Friday, October 27, 2000 - 02:01 pm
LOL@ALI..."darling" i already have someone who i share my love with.

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STAR

Friday, November 03, 2000 - 07:06 am
I JUST WANNER GIVE THE UP MOST RESPECT TO ALI AND ABDI WHO BOTH GAVE THE DIFINTIONS /MEANINGS OF LOVE. THIS SHOWES THERE ARE STILL REAL MEN OUT THERE WHO REAL KNOW LOVE AND WHAT IT STANDS 4.
CAN U TELL THE DIFFERENCE BETWEN "I LOVE YOU " AND "I AM IN LOVE WITH YOU"

PEACE AND LOVE

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ali

Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 04:18 am
To star!!!!

i love you means you like somebody or something.

i am in love with you means i want to share
my life with someone who understand love like i do.

by the way, identify yourself
"star" is not a proper name.

speak to you later.

BYE!!!!!

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star

Wednesday, November 15, 2000 - 05:59 am
The name is barwaqo is dat a prpoer name.
speak 2 ya later

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ali

Tuesday, November 21, 2000 - 03:31 am
To STAR or BARWAQO!!!!

Listen baby, i love your second name

Do you have an email so we can talk
privatly.

speak to you later "baby"

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STAR

Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 02:36 am
y don't u give me ur
e-mail address first!
until den take care of
ya self

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ali

Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 03:27 am
HI STAR!!!

here is my email: ALD058@UNL.COM.UK

i think we can now talk privat and no one
will disturb us.

who knows, maybe we are made for each other.

but hurry before i get bored.

speak to you later "BABY".

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Nadira

Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 08:33 am
First of all i don't think most somali people now anythink about luv, i no alot of people who say they luv some one just by the way they look and by the way someone alse spoke about that person to me personaly that is lust not luv.I think u can only luv someone if you have known them for some time and you now what they realy like not what they like just when u having fun.When you have shared the ups and the downs.When someone is there for ya no matter what.When you now that you can always turn to that person.Alot of people confuse luv and liking someone you can like some one alot but it don't mean you in luv with them.

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STAR

Monday, December 04, 2000 - 03:24 am
HEY ALI, SORRY
TO LET U KNOW
BUT UR E-MAIL
ADRESS IS WRONG
ANYHOW U CAN E-MAIL ME FROM LIGHT_CHOCOLATE2K@HOTMAIL.COM

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ali

Monday, December 04, 2000 - 04:07 am
Hi STAR!!!

i try to send a message but your address is invalid too.

but i manage to set up a new one: alidage@hotmail.com.uk

next time please write to me on my new email address.

so now we can talk privat.

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Nas

Monday, December 04, 2000 - 04:35 am
Yo everyone

Whats the definition of love?? Well i can only present a personalized view on this. I've been hit by this lovebug and these are the effects it has on me:

- I miss HER terribly, even if she's away for a few hours.

- I want only the best for HER.

- SHE's perfection, her smile, her laugh produce a joy in me that is unsurpassable.

- Fun to be with, WE understand each other perfectly.

- SHE's the one for me; and i thank God that i found her.

What a gal u r DC. I love u Baby!
I 'd die for u; anything for u babe!
Ok i've embarassed u enough,
Ciao
Nas

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Nadiya

Monday, December 04, 2000 - 08:57 am
This goes out 4 ABDI, ALI & NAs big up 2 u, brothers at least us women know that there are men in this world!!!!!!!!
as 4 all u anonymouses grow up, get a life and find out what LOVE really means, then again u'll only know when it hits u in da face!!!!!! coz LOVE is blind and it will take over ur mind!!!!!!!!!
IDIL u go girl!!!


1 LOVE

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Nas

Monday, December 04, 2000 - 07:32 pm
Love is waking up at 0530 in the morning(a very
COLD morning, i must emphasize) to post this as
declaration of ur love.

DC, don't say i ain't a romantic nigga again!!

Peace all
Nas

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suad

Monday, December 04, 2000 - 11:43 pm
Don’t make me ~c~r~i~n~g~e~!
Girls don't like •••• like that,
well "sane-ones" don't!
:O

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foxy

Tuesday, December 05, 2000 - 01:14 am
suad sista your chatting s...
dont you think there r enough
playas around .r u realy asking 4 more

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Nas

Tuesday, December 05, 2000 - 01:38 am
Well said Foxy!

Suad, ain't ya sick of persecuting dmx? Are u looking for trouble here?

Search for a husband somewhere else; not interested, comprendez?

U ain't even ashamed of showing ur face here, ur lucky i'm fasting right now but u stick ur ugly face in my business again and i'm a get nasty.

U ain't worth the effort, waste of space. Do us all a favour and throw urself off a building (preferably a tall one).

To everyone else,
peace.
Nas

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DC

Tuesday, December 05, 2000 - 03:43 am
yo nas;
u know how i feel about u, I could fill up de entire page trying 2 explain how i feel about u!

simply i'm mad about u, and i love u more than n-e-thing in de world!

yo suad, grow up girl and become a woman its about time! obviously all u can get is players as real men r not interested in u 4 other things than 4 their pleasure!!!

hi foxy u rock da place girlfriend u tell da little immature ***** (uuups its ramadan, i can't say it even though i'd love 2!)

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STAR

Tuesday, December 05, 2000 - 03:44 am
i would like to big up
foxy & nas for pointing
out da truth 2 suad.

i believe that she is missing
DMX dissing her agian.

so tell me, suad what type
of guy r u after,
r ya after someone like DMX

i thought he made u sick at
one point.

dearest suad i feel 4 u cuz
i think dat u must be confused.

because it is ramadan that is
all i'm gonna say so please
go back to DMX AND DISS EACH OTHER

to every one else
happy Ramandan and
i hope u all have
a bless full ramadan.

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suad

Tuesday, December 05, 2000 - 05:51 am
You are all too serious!
You all need to calm down!
And lighten up
I ain't after players and even if I were…
I wouldn't be searching here, like some sad
Unmentionable individuals!
**Chough…DC**
:)

And Nas get back in your box!!
Sarcasm, is my game! :O
And for anyone else, who wants a to have a go,
You know where you can stick it!

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ExDane

Friday, December 08, 2000 - 04:42 am
U ROCK STAR WAZZUP SIS HOW YA DOIN"?

SUAD- PERHAPS UR LIGHT-HEARTED WAY OF THINKING IS WHAT MAKES U SEEM LIKE AN IDIOT!
U KNOW WHAT I THINK; EVEN DMX HAS GONE TIRED OF REPLYING BACK 2 U.

WALAAL I HATE 2 C 1 OF MY SOMALI SISTERS SO LIGHT-HEARTED DAT SHE DOESN'T KNOW RIGHT FROM WRONG AND SO AWAY FROM HUMAN REALITY.

BACK OFF DC AND NAS PLZ, U WISH U HAD SOMETHING WITH SOME1, I GUESS U AND DMX COULD HAVE WORKED ON SOMETHING BUT IT SEEMS AS THOUGH HE'S GROWN UP RIGHT IN FRONT OF UR EYES SAD BUT TRUE!

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suad

Friday, December 08, 2000 - 05:58 am
You really think this is life?, Somalinet!
I have a life outside this and hope you have too.
I don't care what you think of me but I know my true self and I’m just having a laugh and if you can't see that you don't know much!
The Internet to me is a way of messing about and
Researching or keeping in contact with REAL friends not a place where you become so wraped up you start to think its everything and I don’t think its a place to look for guys in!

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Loap

Friday, December 08, 2000 - 07:05 am
Well some Somali girls I know you are to shy to show
that you are open( girls you really need to
be more open to us guys) And also us guys should
treat you right. But where does love start???

I happen to know that I was inlove with Somalian
girls I would feel a bit more open because we
speak the same language and is from the same
country. But I have one simple question to
Somalian girls.
I was inlove with one of you would you be more
open and not shy towards me?

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Nas

Saturday, December 09, 2000 - 05:07 pm
'What is the definition of love'

If u keep taking sh*t from someone and keep coming
for more, surely u must be in love. I think this
applies to SUAD, she keeps coming back to
dmx. Girl this has gone beyond being a humorous
little sideshow. Ur in danger of becoming a
stalker.

I suggest u take ur 'sarcastic' pea-sized ass
somewhere else. Nobody likes u here; ur just a
second class snob!

Ur probably gonna have more luck in finding a
partner if u advertise urself in the FARMERS
WEEKLY. Alot of cows advertised there for free.

I'd like to say good luck but i cannot wish u upon
my worst enemy.

Big up to u Exdane and thanks for lookin' out for
a brother and for telling it like it is. (Go
girl!) Peace to y'all,

Nas

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Nas

Saturday, December 09, 2000 - 05:15 pm
PS

Suad, u could have fooled me. If the "internet
is not a place to look for guys," then tell me
why the hell u adveretised urself like a masseuse
here? Why not include your hourly charge and make
it simple for ur clients?

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real slim somali

Thursday, March 01, 2001 - 03:44 am
love is all about a feelin, there is no luv in this world somalis wat is luv. u learnet luv in england an wana be in love bros see the girl in the street if she nice she be wife. no luv no fuss just meher. don't let the white man fool he has fooled enough nigazz already sistas follw ur religion and not wat the magazine says or eastenders. its all about sex u all know there is no luv.

the real slim somali