     SUMAYA | Unrecorded Date
What's up everybody?
MY QUESTIONS IS WHAT DO A GIRL HAVE TO DO TO PLEASE YOU GUYS. THE REASON WHY I ASK THAT IS BECAUSE WHEN A GIRL DOES EVERYTHING SHE CAN TO MAKE YOU HAPPY IT SEEM IT'S ONLY DRIVING YOU AWAY. I MEAN WHEN SHE DO YOU RIGHT YOU GO, WHEN SHE DO YOU WRONGH YOU GO, SO WHAT SATISFIES YOU? |
| Alwatan | Unrecorded Date
We will never get satisfied because the majority of you somali girls are kintirless.In somalia we could not notice the difference because all are the same.Get the point we are sex starved. |
| Omer | Unrecorded Date
(Quote) "All you somalians guys..".
Babe, it sounds that you have dealt with a least 100 somalians guys who behaved exactly the same way, in which case u could say "all you somalians guys.." If not, ask that somalian guy and that guy only,whom you couldn't satisfy.
I have no answer to your question.
PS. by the way, ignore this "Alwatan" pervert comments. Apparently, he had his eyes closed when he was coming out of his own mother and (quote) "because all are the same" to him including that mother and his other sisters and aunties.
Omer |
| Saiid Ali | Unrecorded Date
Omer just deny the facts.What Alawatan said is the truth.Are you denying that somali women are mutilated?And the mutilation includes the removing of the kintir(clitoris).Are you living in Dreamland.If not face the facts regardless of who it concerns. |
| SUMAYA | Unrecorded Date
TO: OMAR
I KNOW YOU DID NOT ANSWER MY QUESTION,BUT YOU ANSWER YOUR COMMON, I DID NOT HAVE SO MANY SOMALIAN GUYS ALRIGHT. I WAS JUST SPEAKING FOR MAJORITY OF SOMALIAN WOMEN. I THINK A LOT OF GIRLS WOULD AGREE WITH ME.
P.S
NOBODY LEFT ME UNSATISFIED TRUST ME BROTHER!!!!! |
| omer | Unrecorded Date
To Saiid Ali: Not all somalian girls are mutilated
Even those who got it done can have some feelings.
To SUMAYA: If you haven't been unsatisfied, How did you reach such a generalistic conclusion?
By the way, "speaking for the majority" is a big responsability. It is a lil safer to speak for yourself.
Friendly Omer |
| Aisha Hassan | Unrecorded Date
Omer, my friend which somali women are you talking about?Everybody knows that 95% of somali women are mutilated.Omer how do you calculate feelings?Saying that even those mutilated have some feelings is absurd and a big lie.You know the truth but you are in denial.FGM is the biggest unjustice done to somali women including me so spare me that cheap reasoning and contribute in ways and ideas of stopping this cruel custom.I commend brother Saiid Ali for stating the facts and daring to tell the truth. |
| elmi | Unrecorded Date
sumaya, walaahi, wareeer waaye, "if she does right, we go, if wrong we go" my dear the answer to your question is complex but i might be wrong since i dont wanna write long topic here, i will have to agree with alwatan, we are hungry for sex probably, i found one somali lady with good charecteristic a woman should have but in bed was only i wasnt satisfied so had to look for another, i didnt leave her alone rather went to get prostitute whenever i feel like sexually i am not satisfied. bye. |
| omer | Unrecorded Date
To Aisha Hassan:
Apparently, you are very angry about the FGM, and it will take an even "cheaper" reasoning to state your anger is directly related to the fact you have been mutilated. I don't support FGM (i hate it) and my contribution "in ways and ideas of stopping this cruel custom" will take years of lengthy study to come to this conclusion:"please, stop doing that thing cuz it makes ppl like aisha hassan angry..very angry..The people has spoken"
Anywayz..to come back to the point,yes, some FGM'd girls can have feelings through many other parts of the body other than the clitoris.
Have you been kissed on the back of the neck? how about some caresses right under the toe? or a sublime kiss on the breasts? etc.. As a woman, you should know you got many receptors on your body.
But, i don't think Sumaya referred to this kind of satisfaction anywayz. I guess we need to go back to what she really meant
Peace
omer |
| Asmahan Isse | Unrecorded Date
Omer,if someone kisses a girl on the back or caresses under the toe, it sends signals to the clitoris which makes the girl sexually aroused.The important point here is the clitoris gone mutilated .How the hell will the woman be sexually aroused?Somali women are so dormant in bed because of the mutilation.To bring such suggestion as kissing the back of the neck is just a waste of time.The fundamental answer is to stop this barbaric custom and my suggestion to Omer is start with your family,your girls.If you are not married then you still have a long way to go. Good luck. |
| mo | Unrecorded Date
salaan dhamaan
walaashiis wax kasta ma aad sameen kartid ,wiilasha mararka qaarkiis waxay u baahan yihiin wax aan adigu dideesid,waa sida aniga ay ila tahay
caafimaad alaha niisiiyo |
| elmi | Unrecorded Date
omar,
u made one of the weakest conclusions in this case, when jumping to conclusions like this contact consultant or someone who knows better, its clear and i agree what asmahan said, cant u see, whatever signal is send it goes to.......then to nerve recking or so.........remember, no comand excution is passed to CPU directly always there is pre-processor. |
| angry Girl | Unrecorded Date
To Asha,
Sis I agree whit you 100% that we have been cheeted, by this barbaric custms and ignorent believes through our sexual setisfaction. And to the Guys...specially Omar thanks by being unsupported, what you mean some feeling...we need our all feeling..as Allah SWT, make us, Cuz you have all your nature.
believe me Guys I some times cray for the unfairns way we have been treated by this unfair planet.......so Gusy as Asha .saaid if you don,t want your children go through what we have been please do something about.......it is HARAM,in Islam and it have no place in the Civilise worl.
so Full Stop. |
| omer | Unrecorded Date
to elmi: Nice analogy with computers
I do know something about "clitorised" women though.I may not be an expert, but i have seen the difference. I hate FGM
to Asmahan Isse: I agree FGM is barbaric and i will never do or suggest that to anyone related to me.
(quote)"To bring such suggestion as kissing the back of the neck is just a waste of time". Are you sure you would wanna skip that part? i thought its the best, isn't it?
omer |
| omer | Unrecorded Date
Also, come to think of FGM, Question to you girls:
Isn't it possible to somehow "undo" what's been done? I mean, can you just go to a doctor and get something nicer done? Is that a good idea? What do you think?
omer |
| Asmahan Isse | Unrecorded Date
I agree Omer that it may be the best to someone who has feelings and is sexually aroused but not to someone like me and others who are mutilated.They may fake orgarms but i know through experience believe me.It may not help to "undo" what's done but it helps a lot to educate our society to put an end to this barbaric custom.So Omer stop giving us some false hope. |
| SUMAYA | Unrecorded Date
I JUST WANT KNOW WHY DID THE WHOLE SUBJECT TURN INTO SEX THINK? AND WHY DO SO MANY PPL THING THE ONLY WAY TO GET SATISFIED IS THROGHT SEX? PPL I THINK YOU GOT THE WHOLE IDEO ABOUT SEX TOTALLY WROGH. |
| Faarax | Unrecorded Date
Sumaya !
Yes, everything turned into sex because your broad question about one single reason which was probably based on "SEX" made everyone's thinking focus on that same issue.......But one good issue come out of your argument and a lot females will join this topic to discuss about the continues unjustice done by the Somali females.
My Somali sisters.....keep up the good work, your voice will one day be heard and will save the next generation of Somali girls;
I've never heard of known Somali group that advocates about this same issue except the united nations; So, don't you think it will be great idea if some of you get together and form web site dedicated by that same Issue. I think that will some how eliminate this primitive culture of gudniin. |
| sacad | Unrecorded Date
To all of you
Sorry guys i came late but i know the reason.
The reason that somali community married each other is to have kids in other way thier wives to cook for them.
I think a somali girl will never say to you I LOVE YOU if she is even love you, u know what i mean
I approched that somali girl on the other day and i said to her iska waran she ran away i don't know why
am i ugly no idea
so we have sane and we ar loveless man and women
all the best |
| calmgirl. | Unrecorded Date
To FArax.
Thanx br, for your support and clear thinking, I as individual believe if we don,t do something about it it will contenue for ever...so I guest your sugestion of opening a web page it seems to me .....a very good idea to educate the people....and support to the UN....the wonderful job they are doing .....so please if you have any more information I will be glad if you us know br....and thanx again.it is good to see some our brs ...feel the same.
And to Omar...I think br, whole this issue it is as a Joke to you....cuz ..the Doctors can,t do any think about it.the damage has been done..so plse think Omar...and safe your girls.
bye all....and plse keep supporting us guy.
Angrygirl=calmgirl. |
| Faarah | Unrecorded Date
AngryGirl/Calmgirl
I'm glad to finnaly see you calm and collected.
I guess you now have some idea how we as Somali men think and behave towards our Somali women after reading several different comments on this very issue...People are not the same as you've experianced here.
Midda kale; No, I don't know any group that's involved with what we've talked about earlier, but one thing I know is we(as my family) convinced my sister not to travel Africa past summer to perform that painful act on her little girl who is only 7yrs old. We're now looking for other means that doesn't contridict our religion and some how make our sis happy....still we're in process to decide what to do.
If it was my idea..I would say; leave her just alone. Any ideas?? |
| elmi | Unrecorded Date
sumaya, why did this turned to sex? the answer is simple, somali girls are the most beautiful, honest, sexiest..etc but, they cannot only give you the satisfaction other ladies can, so by any other parameter comparing somali girl to other, i prefer somali but when it comes to bed, hey i better go pay some money to get satisfied, that is why the question was narrowed down to sex. bye. |
| calmgirl | Unrecorded Date
To Farax.
tnx again br,.and I am happy to heard that you doing something about ...this barbaric act...to save your nice.And i am really proud of you br, I wish we have more brs like you.who can understand our feeling.about this issue....so Frax if your sisiter want go a head,you can explain to her,that it is Haram,in Islam.and she will be asked what she done to her doughter...so is she ready to give explaination in the judgement day? please Farax save that little girl....it is only if you can...br. i am happy to see that intellegin openminded brs stil around.lol...bye 4 now br
and keep up the good thinking.
To Elmi.
Tnx for bieng honest.but.....please br can you tel me if you know any think about Islam?if you do.....how can came up such an idea ..to pay sex on the streets....don,t you think there is more important things to live than sex?and Elme ..I guest you just talk about your point of view..I don,t believe all Somali brs do that. |
| calmgirl | Unrecorded Date
To sacad.
I guest br, is not fair to blame oney girls ...for our loveles married....even Somali brs don,t show there feeling to their sistrs ans I guest..the culture we grow up..don,t teach us how to be open to each other ..and communicate....so the problem, is all of us, as a community.peace br and good luck whit the next somalian sis.lol bye. |
| elmi | Unrecorded Date
calmgirl,
whatever i say is pure personal point of view. i cant advocate for the rest of the guys. i just stated what i think. about the islam,yes its not allowed but cannot control my sexual feelings,i am wild sex lover and only prostitutes can make me feel the sexual feelings that i want to feel in bed. |
| SUMAYA | Unrecorded Date
TO:FAARAX
THANK YOU BRO...I'M GLADE YOU UNDERSTAND. I JUST WISH WE HAD MORE BROTHERS LIKE YOU. I THINK IT'S A GREAT IDEA WHAT YOU SAID ABOUT OPENING A WEB SITE DEDICATED TO THESE ISSUES. I KNOW A LOT OF PPL NEEDS TO BE EDUCATED, ESPECIALLY THOSE WHO ARE LOST IN THE GAME. PPL NEED TO UNDERSTANT THAT SEX.. IS SOMETHING THAT'S BEAUTIFUL, FORFILLFULL,AND IT SHOULD ONLY HAPPEN FOR THE RIGHT REASON, WITH THE RIGHT PERSON,AND MOSTLY THE RIGHT WAY.
PPL KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK AND I HOPE DISCUSSING THIS TOPIC WELL HELP MANY PPL UNDERSTAN THE TRUE MEANING. |
| Wacan | Unrecorded Date
Sisters and brothers,
Let's not reinvent the wheel; there's already a very comprehensive web page out there, why don't you all visit it and then try to join and support the forces already out there, if you really want to do something about it. By the way, this is not a women's issue only, hope the brothers are aware of that. It's WWW.FGM.ORG
Sincerely,
WiseWoman |
| galmgirl | Unrecorded Date
to Wacan.
Thanks sister for lets us know there is some other people who, would like do some think about it..and as you said it is not only womens issue it is envolving our brs as well...so lets guys tray hard and make the others a ware...insha,allah.and I hope girls those who are not married yet.may allah make our partners....those who understand and support.so we may be able to safe our children.Amiin.bye 4 now..and don,t stop there, keep diccusing guys. |
| AnotherGUY | Unrecorded Date
Boy oh Boy.. I've never seen so much stereotyping on one page. First of all please stop using words such us "all" "majority" "somali guys".. that's a big generalzation and the fact of the matter is most people would not agree to what you say if that's the case..
To: SUMAYA
I've read most of the responses to your question but to answer your first post I'll have to speak from personal experence.. First of all I don't like being with a somali girl, not only because of FGM factor, but because of all the expectations you have... Now I'm a very busy person, so the only little spare time I have I like to get my love, my oral pleasures and my sex without having to marry anyone... That's why I only date black girls.. Stress free enviornment!! |
| elmi | Unrecorded Date
anotherguy,
a question was raised, not whether u like somali girls or not! by the way, to comapare adoon with somali girl, you must be out of your mind. u better ask those blacks who unfortunately date our girls. we love them upto yoomal qayaama! |
| Alwatan | Unrecorded Date
Another Guy dates black girls.What is the big deal?The guy gets his oral pleasures sucking black girls kintir.Most of somali girls miss that organ which our friend likes a lot. |
| cadaawe | Unrecorded Date
to : anotherguy
fool go hell what the hell u talking about here don tell us your personal matter whather u dated juws or black , and other thing don complain our beloves somali girls ,we love them no matter what. |
| WARTA | Unrecorded Date
Acuudkiyoow.....
Hi ya'll ...damn why we actin like 13 yrs who just baluuqay..first of all we all muslims n we cant do some stuff as u ya'll know..,,,,,,,,,
Sumaya sis..thnkx 4 talkin dis thing..cause somalian MEN?WOMEN doesnt know 1 think how u make u r dream come true...4ex...He/She likes some1, they cant go and ask whether dat person is free or not..da reason is da way we raised out parents didnt teach us how to communicate da other sexes.
U said if a grl satisfy her man...he walk away it ainnt true dat man need to go mental hospital....
When u r woman or u man satisfy giv him/her a compliment..even if u dont like dat moment
{{{{{{{{{{ Niyada U Dhis}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
One thing we need to learn is how we respect n luv eachother......................*
thnx ya'll
PS: all da guys who r actin they r somthin when they r datin other pple good 4 ya but dont said all da SomaliQueens r not sexually active or they r not gonna pleas ya in BED.......Guys we all know Our somalianQueen they r da most sensible women in da world.***** Luv ya'LL******* |
| Anonymous | Wednesday, June 28, 2000 - 07:09 am
this one is for all da somali men who think they can watch moves then act on without even an experence..... brothers plzzz as sisters know what romance is and am sure they'll agree with me when i say most and most somali men don't know how to treat woman... wheather in the bed room or on a date.... marriege.... or as a boyfriend.... then again a said some huh...
U have no right to judge all somalian girls from all back grounds becouse of what our momas did to us which part of our culture and relegion.... plzzz do me a favoure and pull up ur socks and stop going on about where you all came out from !!! whether its ugly or not, u will use it, come out of it and go back there again and again coz you are too horny!!
lets face it for a minute, you are scared for life too, you are too shallow minded!!
anyway all i've been trying to say is have respect for women and don't judge us just because you've had a bad experence with one girl either sex wise or whatever, the's plenty of good girls out there sooooo go fish!
and good luck, i'll cross my fingers for u , remember the's always hope for u out there.
bye |
| colonel | Wednesday, June 28, 2000 - 05:42 pm
colonel
To Sumaya
Dag! Sumaya sis ik begrijp niet wat je schrijft kunt u alsblft vertalen.
Alvast Bedankt.
colonel. |
| jamka | Saturday, July 22, 2000 - 07:56 am
hello fellow somali ladies,
i am ayoung somalian man who leaves in mpls but i am a sijui, and when ever i am with our somali ladies, they go like arr waa sijuiki, to me it hurts, how do you bro's and sis find this issue |
| Mohamed A.M. | Saturday, July 22, 2000 - 08:43 pm
Asalaamu caleykum W.W.
Salaan ka dib, waa arin loo baahnaa in laga wado
hadlo sida runta ah "FGM,Gudniinka fircooniga ah".
Waxaana taageersanahay in la sameeyo webpage looga ga, doodo oo lagu gaarsiiyo bulshada Soomaaliyeed
dhibaatada uu leeyahay iyo waliba waxyeelada uu la yimaado.
1)Hadaan sii tafatiro dhibaatooyinka uu leeyahay
FGMka waxaa ka mid ah iyada oo gabadha laga gooyo qeyb ka mid ah xubinteeda taranka, layskuna tolo jirkeeda iyada oo la isticmaalyo middi yar oo galoolan oo laga sameeyey baraamiil ama fuustooyin hadba sida aad u taqaan iyo waliba caygiriyo ama xarko oo aad ogtihiin asalka qalabkaas waxa uu ahaa,
2)Markii uu Ilaahey kasoo gudbiyo xanuunkaas oo ay ka samato-baxdo lana soo gaaro xiligii qaangaarkeeda oo ay caado hesho, waxaa u bilaabanto dhibaato kaga yimaado sidii dhiigaas u soo mari lahaa xubinta taranka. Taas oo keenta xanuun dhib badan marmarka qaarkood keenta in ay u galaan cisbitaalka ama uu dheeraado oo uu dhaafo xiligii ay iska daahirin laheyd caadada ama uusan joogsanba mudadii todobada ama sideeda maalmood.
3)Marka ay soo gaarto xiligii ay nolosheeda laqeybsan laheyd Seygeeda oo ay iyana dhibaato la kulanto. Sababtoo ah meesha ma`aha oo kaliya "Bikaarada ee waxa uu la goynayaa bikaarada jirkeeda!!!" Taasoo ay waliba heegan u tahay in ay seygeeda ku raali geliso gogoshiisa.
4)Haddii uu Allaha awooda leh siiyo "UUr oo Owlaad u calool gesho" lana soo gaaro xiligii ay dhali laheyd walaal maka fekertay dhibaatada iyo xanuunka ay la kulmayaan???????????????????
qaarkood waa "Umul raacdaan macnaha waa geeriyoodaan, ama caruurtiibaa naf baxda inta jirkeeda la goynayo ama laga soo jiidayo.!!!
intii ilaahey ka badbaadiyaase waa jiraa.
Isku soo wada duub miyeysan eheyn in aan ka badbaadino dhibaatooyinkaas haysta iyo in kaloo ka badan Dumarkeena Soomaaliyeed oo la fahamsiiyo kaan ogeyn dhibaatooyinkaas?
Markaan u soo laabto mowduuca taxana ah: Qof walbaa waa sidii uu garaadkiisa yahay sidii uu ula noolaan lahaa lamaanihiisa (OOridiisa\seygeeda) waxaan ka hadlayaa waa xalaasha Guurka.
waxaana idin xasuusinayaa in ay yihiin dumarkeena dadka sidaa dhibka u soo mara hadana diyaar idiinla ah raali gelintiina dhan walba. Qofkii yiraa sidaa si ka sii duwana runta ayuu ka dheeraaday. Jecloow ama ha jeclaan waxey naga mudan yihiin waaba leeyihin Amaan sharaf iyo karaameyn ee ma`ha in aad abaal dhac noqotiin.
Ogow in Nabigeena suuban (SCW)(NNKH)uu janada aduunkaan taal uu ku sheegay haddii uu ilaahey ku siiyo marwo saalix ah.
Marka walaalayaal halaga hadlo sida dhabta ah oo aan qayaaliga ku dhisnayn.
Waa walaalkiin.
Mohamed A.M. |
| magaclabe. | Sunday, July 23, 2000 - 03:31 am
to sumaya.
hadii aan ku turjubanao waxa oo soo qoray (colonel).waa siada oo u dhigay wana sidaan.
jaaw sumaya sis aniga mafahmin waxa aad soo qortay fadlan ma ii turjumikarta adiga oo rali ka ah waana ku mahadsantahay.
colonel. |
| Kalin | Monday, August 07, 2000 - 02:24 am
To Answer your question first i must say it is not Somali man's problem we are talking about, we are here talking about men in general problem. I may not have the total answer to that question but if i speak from my experience i would say the more you(women)try to please us the more you drive us away. Meaning if you want man to run after you do not make your self availble at all times, do not let him touch you much, and must of all do not let him have sex with you until you guys are married that is if you really love the man. I know alots of guys are getting angry by now but let me explain if man can get all of you meaning he can get u to bed when he wants and can hang with u when he wants what is left for him to stay he will explore for new adventure and that would lead him to leaving u and heart break.
My heart felt advise to my somali sisters: If a man really love u he would not make u do something u do not want,
* Be old fashion and do not fall for thin so call western fake romance.
*Remember this at all times you are Beautiful Muslim, Somali woman, you are the heart of nation call Somalia. |
| Anonymous | Thursday, August 24, 2000 - 09:40 pm
Hey ladies you are wrong in saying all women who
went under FGM do not feel, and are sexually deprived. Millions and millins of girls had the pharonic type of FGM. millions of Somali Women would go cracy or mentally ill if they are all
sexually deprived. There is clitoral orgasm and there is vaginal orgasm,
First learn how your body works before you blame
Omar. I am not condoning FGM i'm against it.
walaal soomaliyeed |
| kulmiye | Tuesday, August 29, 2000 - 01:54 pm
sumaya so far nobody have had answered u original question, abaayo macaan u donnot have 2 ask dis kinda questions 2 guys u can simply learn from u exeprience. let me put it dis way i have no problem wat so ever with somalian cuties infact i want notin ,but them u hear me boo, dadkana waykale duwanyihiin micnaheeda maaha there is somethang wrong with our girls, teeda kalle dis guys talking about our girls been mutalated they dead wrong i been and am with somaalian girl and i enjoy it every bit of her u know wat they r sick so keep u heard up sweetieskeep it up u r da finnest women in dis earth no doubt. |
| arta | Wednesday, September 06, 2000 - 04:43 am
walaala yaal dhamaantiinba waad mahadsantihiin waayo waxaa aad iyo aad ii farax galiyay sida wanaagsan eed tobigan uga doodeen, iyado intabadan si'asluuble dodahaasi udhaceen, iyadoy jirto badanaa somaali haddaan doodaha sidan oo kale ah aanan ku heshiin.
waxaan mahad gaar ah halkan ugasoo jeedinayaa gabadha tobigan soo bandhitay waa( sumaya). run ahaantii waa tobig lafdhabar u ah arimaha ijtimaaciga ee umadda somaaliyeed.
siday anyga iltahay gadaal ayaan kasoo sheegidoona. |
| Lama arkaan | Friday, September 15, 2000 - 07:34 am
Aisha ;
Are a woman or a guy posing as a woman?
will be back for your answer. |
| anonym | Thursday, October 05, 2000 - 08:37 pm
It's big question sumaya,
in my opinion don't try to satisfy all, just concentrate on the view somali guys that your interested to each other.
If you give respect and love to the person who cares you, I am sure he will want. but if you run after anyone, no one, even the one that used to care will dis you. good luck |
| DEALLA | Saturday, October 07, 2000 - 05:44 am
TO!SUMAYA
LISTEN G
HOW MANYE DICKZ DID U SUCK
I THINK U SLUT FOR LIFE
BITCH LIKE U
I LIKE IT
I THINK U SUCK 734 DICKS THIS YEAR
FU______________CKING BITCH
LICAMOR |
| •••• | Saturday, October 07, 2000 - 01:17 pm
JUST SAY U HORNY BITCH |
| Anonymous | Monday, December 11, 2000 - 01:24 am
Hello
Sumaya.
I think ur right anyways cause all what you said seemed to be true, myself I had a Gal-friend and I used to love her in all ma heart, but check this out I buy her a house here in Florida, buy her a car new model yr 2000, but she seemed not to focus and concentrate on me, I love her so much be her chemistry is different, so who to blame Iam straight her but she dont appreciate, how come if I treat bad, is that gonna work, Iam so confused about you somalian girls, what kind of men do you like, I guess these days maybe ur so
intrested with strangers you know what i mean. let
me know maybe we can start something me and you.answer back.. im very educated and independent profession, and just lookin for any somalian girl that is down to earth and enjoys veriety of things , sumaya I will treat you with dignity and respect. think about it and lets recount together here sunshine state
haha |
| A brother | Thursday, December 14, 2000 - 07:52 am
to: sumaya
Your question goes to the somali-man as it is to somali woman, cuz if you try to satisfy a somali-woman she will run away to a guy who don't have anything to offer to her. it seems unfair to just blame this problem to somali-man, this is a problem we have as a nation & we need to change our attitude toward each other.
To: Deally
I think you're in the wrong page, what kind of language are you using. please refrain from that kind of language & take it to some were else, we are here to exchange comments without being disrespectful or abusive. thanks
and god may help you, I will pray for you !!! |
| shushu | Monday, December 18, 2000 - 06:37 pm
Salam to all,
I totally agree with the sisters that said: Mutilating female organs is XARAM, AND A BARBARIC ACT, but what we all forgetting is that this barbaric act is also our culture. It is our custom, and our belief that cannot be changed or forgotten over a night. It takes steps to stop this cruel act to our little ones. One of the steps would be modernizing this act. In other words, there is something called Sunni circumcision, where a very little bit or the tip of the clitoris is cut. There is no harm in this procedure I believe, and has no effect on the girl's sexual feelings what so ever. Sunni circumcision is performed in parts like Saudi Arabia, Egypt,and Asia(like Philpino Muslims).
Another step is teaching our people about FGM. We have teach them, that it does no good, but harm. We have teach them that it is an abuse, it is xaram, and it is illegal.
To Faraah, Good job bro and God bless you. I hope you convince your sister not to perform that act on your niece. Don't let your niece be a victim of FGM. If your sister insists on doing that, tell her to try the SUNNI.
Bye shu shu |
| ladan | Monday, January 08, 2001 - 03:50 pm
To all the girls who are saying if U are FGM U have no feelings? U are wrong i mean alxamdulilaah iam married and i enjoy every menute in bed with my man and that doesn't mean FGM is okay with me i hate it believe me & iam not gonna to do that to my kids insha allah in the future but don't just stand there and say U don't feel anything...
i have to run but i will be back to finish my doood
love ya my somali ppl |
| caagane | Thursday, January 25, 2001 - 05:59 am
To sumaya:
Hi first of all,iam so delighted to hear great comments about somali guys'''''which u systematically observed and u may be having an experience with them''''''''''''so here my question comes'''''''''wat satisfies u personaly?
luv and cheers
ciao |
| QUMEYNI | Tuesday, February 13, 2001 - 08:07 pm
IAM SORRY GUYS I THINK I CAME IN LATE, TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH THIS SUPJECT WAS NEEDED, AND EVERY ONE HAS HIS/HER OPINION.... LET'S TALK PEOPLE, STILL NO BODY HAS AN ANSWER OF WHAT THAT GYRL ASKED , AND EVERY ONE IS TRYING TO SAY THE TRUTH, BUT NOT STILL THERE, NO ONE STILL HAVE A CONCLUSSION, IN MY OPINION WE ARE ONE PEOPLE, WE LOOK LIKE EACH OTHER, WE HAVE THE SAME LANGUAGE, WE ARE ALMOST THE SAME AS THE OTHER ONE IN ONE THOUSAND MILES AWAY, IN SOMALIA. WE HAVE A UNIQUE CUTLTURE, EVERN THUOGH IT HAS IT'S UGLY SIDES, AND BEUTIFULL SIDES. ARE YOU PEOPLE EVER THOUGHT OF THAT WE ARE SLAVES, YOU KNOW WHAT WE ARE WORSE THEN SLAVES, WE WERE BROUGHT TO THIS PLANET, NORTHAMERICA, EUROPE, ... IT'S DIFFERENT FROM THE CUTLTURE WE CAME FROM, WE HAVE ALOT TO DEAL WITH NOW "FROM BUSH TO TOWN" "FROM LESS EDUCATION, TO FULL EDUCATION" FROM RAGS, TO RICHS" WE ARE OBSERVING ALOT'S OF MENTAL PROBLEMS THAT WE AREN'T AWARE OF, WE WANT TO GET IT SO BAD BUT WE CAN'T.. 75%OF SOAMLIAN PEOPLE LOST SELF STEAM, THEY DON'T THINK THEY HAVE VALUES, THEY DON'T THINK THEY ARE ORIGINAL UNIQUE PEOPLE, WE JUST LOOK UP TO A WHITE MAN, AND CAN'T DARE "CADKIISA INUU KADHACSADO" THE SOMALI MAN EXPECTS HIM TO FIX HIM UP, IAM SO SORRY AND FEEL SO DISAPOINTED....WE TRY SO HARD, TO BE GOOD PEOPLE, WE ARE GOOD PEOPLE, BUT WE AREN'T ENOUGH STRONG " WALAAHI AYAAN KUDHAARTAY HADEEYDAAN IS SAXINA I HAVE A BAD FEELING" IS THERE ANY ONE OF YOU EVER THOUGHT OF YOUR MAM'S, DID SHE EVER GIVE YOU THE LOVE YOU NEEDED, REMEBER WHEN WE WERE LITTLE, AND WE CRY WERE LEFT THERE TO SHUT UP.. HAH HAH, WE HAVE NEVER CARED ABOUT OUR EMOTIONAL FEELINGS, DO YOU KNOW WHAT WE EVA CARED ABOUT HOW TO SATISFY SOME ONE ELSE'S.. EVEN THOUGH ILAAHEY FARAHA UUSAN JIMEYN BUT STILL MAJORITY.. WE ARE 4.5MILLION PEOPLE,,,LET'S SAY2.5 ARE IN SOMALIA, THE REST ARE FLED TO THIS HUGE AS PLANET. SOAMALIANS ARE STRUGLING TO FIT IN, TO CUT UP WITH THIS, WHO EVA ALLAH UU SIYAY, TALENT SEEMS SURVING, THE BRO ILAAHAY UUSAN SEEMS FALLIN, THE SISTERS WERE LEFT WITH OUT ATTENTION.. BECOUSE WE ARE RUNNING AFTER SOME THING WE DON'T EVEN KNOW OUR SELVES,.. I HAVE HAD ENOUGH EXPERIENCE TO COPE UP WITH THIS NATION, AND THE TRUTH IS GONNA BE THE TRUTH, WICH IS WE ARE SOMALIANS, GUDNIINKA AM NOT SAYING HALA HOOLO GABDHAHA SOMALIYED AM SAYING SUNNY, IS WERE WE BELONG. IAM A YOUN SOMALIAN GUY AM 22 YEARS OLD, I LIVE MY OWN, I AM STUDENT FULL TIME AND I HAVE A JOB FULL TIME.. AND I HELP MY FAMILY IN SOMLIA, I DON'T HAVE ALOTS OF LIFE, BUT IAM PROUD, IAM DAMN PROUD... AND IT FEELS GOOD, YOU SOMALIANS DON'T WANT FACE THE TRUTH, ONCE YOU DECIDE TO FACE THE TRUTH, TALK ABOUT SEX, TALK ABOUT DRAMA, TALK ABOUT GETTING EXCITED. IN MY EXPERIENCE I HAVE HAD HARAM SEX WITH SOMALIAN GIRLS," ALLAHA HA I CFIYO " WALAAHI SHE IS GOOD, BUT YOU ARE AFTER SOME THING ELSE YOU DON'T KNOW.. NO BODY DARES TO TALK ABOUT THE TRUTH, WE ARE RISTRICTED, WE HAVE BEUTIFULL RELIGION BUT WE HAVE TO ABIDE BY IT, LET 'S FACE THE REALITY, OUR SOMALIAN GIRLS, ARE GOING OUT WITH FOREIGNERS, AREN'T WE "WAX MATARE YAAL" YOU ARE WAX TARE BUT YOU AREN'T TREATING HER GOOD, YOU AREN'T GIVING HER ATTENTION, YOU FEEL SHY TO TAKE HER OUT TO THE RESTORANTS TO BUY HER A DINNER, BECOUSE YOU AREN'T PROUD, YOU DON'T KNOW YOUR SELF, FIND OUT WHO YOU ARE, THEN DEAL WITH IT...EVEN SISTERS DO, EVEN THOUGH SOMALIAN WOMAN ARE THE BEST, AM NOT TRYING TO BE SOMALIAN, THERE'S NOTHING MORE BEAUTIFUL THEN YOU ARE, THERE'S NOTHING MORE STRONGER THEN YOU ARE, BECOUSE OF ALL THE BOOL •••• YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH. BUT IAM SO SORRY, I JUST CAN SAY, BUT CAN'T ACT LIKE IT.. ABAAYO GADHIHIINA MOWDUUCAN FURAYOOW DIIN BAAN LEENAHAYE, GABDHAHA HALA GUDO SUNI, WAANA LAISKU RAACASAN YAHAY, ANAGII RAGA AHAA ANAGA BAA XUMAANAYE.. WASALAAM AQIYAARTA.. SIDAA NA HALISKU DHAAMO..
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