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     | Thursday, November 02, 2000 - 06:16 am Any sisters looking to get married???? Cause Iam a brother in search of a wife...........
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| | Thursday, November 02, 2000 - 03:21 pm salaam alaykum kindheart, Brother, i don't think this is an effective way to search for a wife from the net. The old way is 100% more secure. You don't know what crazy world that we live in nowadays. May Allah guide you to a good muslim sister. peace...
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| | Thursday, November 02, 2000 - 03:59 pm Hakima. How old is old?.
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| | Friday, November 03, 2000 - 02:05 am I don't think it is good to get married like my grandma's time...but like my mother's time...ok. that's the "old" i m talking about :-)
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| | Friday, November 03, 2000 - 06:33 am LoooooL@Hakima Salaama ALL Sis, how do you expect us to get married as your MUM's genaretion? The time move on, and every gerration has to move on. Kindheart BR First, good luuck whit your search, but are you looking 4 aany SIS or a Special Person? Peace
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| | Friday, November 03, 2000 - 01:54 pm Anon (sis) Move on!!! to where???
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| | Friday, November 03, 2000 - 10:43 pm lol@Hakima Move on to the real world sis, E.g am not my MUM I have different Idea about Love and Live so how can you expect me, to fallow her foot stop? peace
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| | Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 02:20 am Anon (sis) I bet ur ideas about Love and Life...are exactly the same as our great grandma.... Eve!!!
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| | Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 03:14 am Ladies. The brother asked for marriage not love lessons and grandma bedside stories. Give the guy the green light or keep the to the red and call it a day sweeties. ehil xikaaya di?.
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| | Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 04:05 am Hakima My Idea of life and Love is not the same as my MUm forget my Grandma....Oki let me say this, in a way we my be the same such as, keeping our Islamic Traditions and searching for "Halal" Guur but sis I don,t want go back for generations way of life I want create my way of life....lol ..Girl lets go forward and look for the bright Future. Peace. Mark-my-Word. Married=Love. whitout Love why Marry?
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| | Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 04:06 am lol dee elhikyaa haa debtidi delwaati yaa akhouya. ana caayza asmac aad eeh al-azizza (anon) moutaharira...waa inta kaaman el-hiwaar maaftouh leek :-) Get me mark!!!
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| | Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 04:12 am lol @Anon I hope you find a man with the morals of a gentleman and the ethics of a knight. But believe me...men r men....women r women million years ago...or million years to come. We think we are making changes...maybe in some dimensions of life...but human experience is always the same :-) peace...
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| | Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 04:28 am Hakima Thanks you sis for wishing me that shining Knight, I wish u the same. But, Sis I did not mean I want change any one, I want live my life the way I like it...that does not mean I want make any changes, it is The world I am in,that doing all the changes for me......and I have to be whit it....lol do you get me? the Time is changing sis...so if you are not moving whit it, you may end up where? Peace
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| | Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 05:50 am anon (sis) I don't think Time as a concept changes rather we the human beings are the ones who change. I am not saying that we should stand still waiting for a miracle to happen but at the same time I don't think that we should do this & that because others are doing it. Do u get me? peace...
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| | Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 08:04 am Hakima Yes, I agree whit you that we don,t have to do this and that cuz others are doing, but remember when you said we better fallow for our MUM's anf Grany's, you were saying lets do what they did at That time! so I feel it is batter if you have to fallow any one ...then you have to fallow those front of you..lol...cuz atleast this is suits me better.. do you get me? peace
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| | Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 08:44 am Anon(sis) When i said that i was referring to the way they got married. I told the brother of this ad that i don't think that this is a secure way. I rather know who i gonna marry by the formal way. The way that my mother n grandmother used. I think it is perfect. My mum is still married to my father. And they were introduced through normal circumstances...not through the net. I've come to a conclusion that in the net...some people act completly different than they would in real life. Get me sis? peace...
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| | Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 10:19 am Thank you for that wonderful illustration. But I think Honor and RESPECT are more important than love. Love is an illusion and will allow u to see only those things that u wanna see and dismissing reality. But when u marry for the sake of Allah and build your marriage on the foundations of Islam, not only will u succeed in this life but also in the hereafter, which seem to have been forgotten. Hakima & Anonymous, are u Married?
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| | Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 11:02 am Hakima Ye I get you sis, I know the Net it may not be that Secure, to know any one as you do in real life.......but hey sis you never know technolegy is what makes the World move that fast.......lol and we have to be whit it... Kindheard. "But when u marry for the sake of Allah and build your marriage on the foundations of Islam, not only will u succeed in this life but also in the hereafter," I agree whit that all the way. But, altought I agree Honor and respect are so Importand... I don,t agree they are more Importand than Love.......cuz I believe Love as Importand..LOve is what makes to feel the Respect and caring in between any humanbeing......are u whit me? whit out Love there is no life.......lol get me? peace
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| | Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 02:06 pm lol @ Anon (sis) Okay...but becareful from moving to fast. I don't want you to get a ticket... Get me? lol peace...
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| | Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 02:41 pm Hakima. That was me MARK-MY-WORDS. I respect the brother's request and wanna call it a saturday night lol.
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| | Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 02:43 pm To All Can I put forward a humble request to the homo erectuses who use this forum? Please give yourself an identifiable username. Don't just use Anonymous. Now I know most of you have the intellectual capacity of two-year-old hedgehogs with learning difficulties, but surely even your limited imagination can stretch to coming up with a user name that at least gives an idea of your Gender. Too much to ask? anybody home?
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| | Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 03:05 pm GALOOL. "Can I put forward a humble request to the homo erectuses who use this forum? " What does that make you?. Bovine spongiform encephalopathy known as the MAD COW DESEASE?.
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| | Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 03:31 pm lol @ formerguest. Waryaaaaaa Galool...what are u doing here? the topic said looking for a wife...not looking for a husband..lol peace..
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| | Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 07:24 pm TO: Galool You must realize that everyone is free to do as he/she pleases meaning that there can be as many anonymous as you can count or not count. You dont have to come here and hit the ceilling sonny, coz people aint a baby in a diaper that you can change anytime! Pay respect to where itz due hon!
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| | Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 11:41 pm Hey my Mom got married recently...what's wrong with Mom's getting re-married ANONYMOUS...They humans I think.....Aren't they? HAKIMA I see U distributing great advice sis....LOL
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| | Sunday, November 05, 2000 - 06:00 am Lollllllll@Hakima Sis thanks for the Advice.....promise i will not get a ticket!! Galool Just get some life!!!! will you? peace
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| | Sunday, November 05, 2000 - 06:02 am Blackbeauty Sis i never said MUM's can,t re-married....what I was saying was I am not going to get married the Way they did......get me?
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| | Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 10:22 am NO I DIDN'Y WHATS UP WITH THAT
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| | Sunday, November 12, 2000 - 09:39 am Salama calekum. Hi every one what is go'an,maxaa mesha lagu hayaa Why u gays speaking english,i tod this somali chat line,or did I make mistake,any why how is loking for wife?, I have beautoful woman ho is tire about games and loking for nice onest gay,sow are you ther. BYEEEEEEEE
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| | Sunday, November 12, 2000 - 02:18 pm Addressed To:KINDHEART I'm blown away by your way of thinking, especially what you quoted on top about LOVE and how it can sometimes be an illusion and draw us from reality to fantasie. So my question to you is DO YOU BELIEVE IN LOVE???? You seem like a brother who's into his culture,beliefs, and has great love for Islam, which is imperative to see in a world as enrallment as this.
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| | Wednesday, November 15, 2000 - 01:25 am Kindheart: what do you offer? what are your requirements?...lol salaams, TLG.
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| | Wednesday, November 15, 2000 - 03:47 am HABLUHU WAY KA SII DAREEN MAXAA KU DHACAY,WAAR DEE INANKA GUURSADA AMA KA YAACA MEESHA WAA MAXAY WAXANI!!!!
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| | Wednesday, November 15, 2000 - 04:48 am To Amaal: Thank you for your kind words. Im sure the same can be said about you. "Do I believe in LOVE", absolutely, love is a wonderful thing when it's right. But do I think it should be a foundation for marriage? NO, it should be what keeps it going. Honor, respect and Islam should be the foundation of Marriage. I hope you understand what Im trying to say..... p.s. what's your definition?
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| | Wednesday, November 15, 2000 - 05:35 pm What's my definition? Hmmmmmmmmmm, on love? what's my definition on love? well as you know everyone has his/her own definition on that particular question, and when it comes to love there are no right or wrong answers, but what do I think love is???????? LOVE is knowing what your companion desires, their deepest fears, understanding, and working together to make a difference in each the other's life, being there for one-another through good and bad. Sharing life's glorious pleasures. That's how I look at LOVE, my own formula. okkkkkk something you said intrigued me once again. As you quoted on, " Love is a wonderful thing when it's right." please elaborate on that. What do you mean by when it's right? when love is right?? confused. Marriage? to me marriage should be based on love, without love there's no marriage. why spend the rest of my iribis life being married to a man that I don't love? but, the important part of it is the respect, honor, and most importantly the religion, as you said yourself, but Let me ask you some questions, CAN SOMEONE DIE FOR LOVE?? Would you marry for RELIGION and not LOVE? If someone you loved was a non-muslim would you go ahead and marry that person??????? (just curious:  ) thanks.
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| | Thursday, November 16, 2000 - 06:13 am That's an excellent definition, what u give is what u get back in return....What did I mean by when it's right? I meant once u pass the illusion state and u still love this person and u r finding more things to love about them then it can be a wonderful thing and u know what the other scenario would be.... We're both on the same page when it comes to love & Marriage...it's a vital part of marriage and without it there's no marriage. But would I marry for religion....absolutely, I have faith in god. Can someone die for love?? Only if they choose to. Just because u lost a loved one doesn't mean it's the end of the world. This is why Religion is very import....it teaches u to accept things. p.s. the non-muslim issue, it's only for MEN
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| | Thursday, November 16, 2000 - 03:17 pm Do you guys think that KINDHEART and AMAAL have something going on in here?????? there like the only two who are asking personal questions to one-another. AMAAl you need to back off, and let me do the talking,because some, actually all of your questions don't make since, and AS TO KINDHEART YOU SEEM DESPEARATE, maybe you and AMAAL can go and hit it off, since you too seem attached to one-another. AMAAL •••• slow it down some of us wanna piece of the pie too, you bitchass hoe. peace
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| | Thursday, November 16, 2000 - 03:43 pm XAKIIM WAXAA AH GABAR 25 SANO JIRTO OO RABTO WIIL MUSLIM AY IS GUURSADAAN WAXAA KAA RABAA IN AAD II SOOO DIRTO EMAIL OO AAD UGU SOO DIRTO FULL INFORMATION ABOUT YOUR SELF. MEESHA AAD DEGAN TAHAY IYO SAWIRKAAG WAA IGU BALAN INAA KUU SOO JAWAABI DOON ONEBOX@QALLIF.COM
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| | Thursday, November 16, 2000 - 03:46 pm CORECTING MY EMAIL ONEBOX@QALIIF.COM
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| | Thursday, November 16, 2000 - 03:46 pm Ayaan. You need to back off. You also need to learn that your manners are not islamic. What is the insult?. You need to respect people. This is not highschool freak show. Ammaal and Kind-hearted. Guys, exchange e-mails. Kind-heart give the sister assurance that you won't ask for marriage right away untill she gets to know you through the mail.
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| | Thursday, November 16, 2000 - 03:49 pm That is it!. KINDHEART, bro the first target is here. I hope this one works out for ya inshallah. CAASHA. May Allah help you out in your search of a good honest husband.
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| | Thursday, November 16, 2000 - 07:11 pm salaamu alikum caasha are you looking for " guur " or you joking let me know . thank's all abu dujaana
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| | Friday, November 17, 2000 - 06:13 am WOW...This is amazing...I guess 2 people can't exchange opinions...... Caasha: Thanks for the offer but I don't give that type of info to anyone who I haven't met before. If she wishes to talk to me then u know where to find me. Anony: Some people u just gotta ignore (AYAAN). It's a complete waste of time. About not rushing her...we're just exchanging opinion, we are not building a relationship
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| | Friday, November 17, 2000 - 12:40 pm lol @ kindheart (sorry to intervene) Somalis are pure dictators. Accept my apology for spoiling your topic earlier. But, I think you wouldn't mind to tell your sisters to pay attention to whom they talk to. Formerguest: Target!!! Man can you please attend my class of how to describe without putting urself under a gun machine. anyway, will quit be4 making ppl get angry. salaam alaykum.
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| | Friday, November 17, 2000 - 11:08 pm Kindheart. There is difference between in search of a wife and conversing with someone. This is public forum accessable to all. Your comments are subject to scrutiny.
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| | Monday, November 20, 2000 - 04:34 pm My goodness, I've been gone for only 2days and this is the kind of treatment I get welcomed to? AYAAN: A cruel word may kindle strife, a timely word may level stress, a careless word may wreck a life, a loving word may heal and bless. I guess you didn't know that saying, because if you did you would've never stated what you stated above. TO anony: Thanx for what you quoted above, maybe we need you to show her a few pointers or so. Kindheart: Never say good-bye when you still want to try, never give up when you still feel you can take it, never say you don't love that person anymore when you can't let go. Love comes to those who still hope, even though they've been disappointed, to those who still belive, even though they've been betrayed, need to love those who still love even though they've been hurt before. Don't go for looks, it can deceive, don't go for wealth even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because only a smile can make a dark day seem bright. Take-care: salam
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| | Tuesday, November 21, 2000 - 02:39 pm wow!! sis Amaal I personally for one loved your way of thinking(those were poems, if i'm not mistakened). I think your'e a very ambitious girl,keep up the lovely work.
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