     ShamefulOne. | Thursday, March 15, 2001 - 07:34 am
I committed adultery:
I new it was wrong, but I was overcome by temptation. Tears of sorrow of pain and grief I weep when ever I recall the shameful act I did; will Allah ever for give me for the sin I commit it. The amount of hate I have for my weak and lame soul is growing daily for I feel scandalous. Will I ever be condoned by allah;for my great disappointment.
Faithful Brothers and Sister pray for me.
Aslaamu calykum w.w. |
| brother | Thursday, March 15, 2001 - 04:37 pm
Salamu aleykum
Don't lose hope of Allah mercy,
every human make mistake, the best of those who make mistake those who repent as state by the prophet peace be upon him.
Subhan Allah, Allah forgives all sins,
if you regert for your sin
feel sorry about it, and make promise that you will never do it Allah will forgive
Read these below verses:
Allah said (by meaning):
And those who invoke not any other ilâh (god) along with Allâh, nor kill such life as Allâh has forbidden, except for just cause, nor commit illegal sexual intercourse and whoever does this shall receive the punishment[].
69.
The torment will be doubled to him on the Day of Resurrection, and he will abide therein in disgrace;
70.
Except those who repent and believe (in Islâmic Monotheism), and do righteous deeds, for those, Allâh will change their sins into good deeds, and Allâh is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful[].
71.
And whosoever repents and does righteous good deeds, then verily, he repents towards Allâh with true repentance. [Surtul Furqan]
Also Allah subhan tala said(in english meaning):
Say: "O 'Ibâdî (My slaves) who have transgressed against themselves (by committing evil deeds and sins)! Despair not of the Mercy of Allâh, verily Allâh forgives all sins. Truly, He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful[].
54.
"And turn in repentance and in obedience with true Faith (Islâmic Monotheism) to your Lord and submit to Him, (in Islâm), before the torment comes upon you, then you will not be helped. [surtul zumur]
So glad tiding know Allah becomes Happy as befits his majesty, when his servants repents as stated in hadith
Stay away from bad company and anything that makes you fall to in zena
Stay away being alone with opposite gender.
look for good company who reminds of Allah
Make Duaa for me,
salamu aleykum
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| Galool | Friday, March 16, 2001 - 02:04 am
Shamefulone
Was the sex good? Stop your self-pitying nonsense. You are eaten alive by guilt, which is natural, but it is futile to run into hands of Islamists who would gladly stone you to death (that is the Law if you are married) in order to purge yourself of your feelings of guilt.
Live with it and don't tell beardos, unless you wish to be stoned after Friday prayers! |
| common | Friday, March 16, 2001 - 07:01 am
Brother inshallah i will pray for you, ask for forgiveness,thats all we can all do saxiib. Pray for Allah to distance you from your sins as he has distanced the east and the west.
Galool
crude, aren't you acting the real shameful one?, the same advice goes for you |
| AABIDEEN | Friday, March 16, 2001 - 09:07 am
salaam alaykum
Why not if you repent to him (the most high)
walaykum masalaam |
| Jamal | Friday, March 16, 2001 - 09:34 pm
Salaam
To shamefulOne, Allah's door is always open. Ask Allah for forgiveness, repent your sins and do not repeat it again. I will pray for you. Mashallah the brother already gave you a good advice. |
| Qoonsade | Monday, March 19, 2001 - 05:59 am
Assalamu Alikum.
You have done a grave mistake; however, since you repented to Allah sincerely(tawba al nasuha) you are not supposed to mention to anyone. The hadith in Bukhari and Muslim, the Prophet said, " kulu ummatii mu'aafuun, ilal mujaaharuun....". which is, all my ummah (who committed sins)will be forgiven, except those who declare what did in public, when Allah hided them. The sina is one of the enormities that lead people to hell fire so we must refrain from it.
The condition of the Tawba are: To ask Allah to forgive your sins, to hate that sin that sin the rest of your life and never to committ such mistake again. And I can see that you repented to Allah Almighty because the prophet said, " Annadaamu tawbah". which roughly is << to regret the mistakes you have done is Tawbah itself".(reported by Ibnu Maajah and authenticated by Imaam Albani In Sahih Ibnu Maajah and Sahih Jami'i sagheer wa siyadatihi). May Allah forgive your sins and admit you his Janah. |
| Galool | Monday, March 19, 2001 - 10:08 am
All
Leave the poor thing alone! Let him/her enjoy the little nookie, You bunch of killjoys.
Hey, no one will punish you in the afterlife as there is no afterlife!
Never give so much power about your personal affairs to anyone. They will just enjoy it. Do you think these little b'tards are all angels? |
| Faaisa | Monday, March 19, 2001 - 10:18 am
Shamefulone,
I pray for you. maashaa allaah you have the faith that a lot of poeple would be lucky to have it.
As the brothers and sisters reminded you Allah SWT is merceful.
May Allah forgive us for our inner and outer sinns.
Aamiin.
Your's sister in Islam,
Faaisa
Galool,
I read several times your postings and now I came to the conclusion that you are not a Muslim.
That is not my problem but let me ask you can anyone say there is no life after death??
Faaisa |
| TLG | Monday, March 19, 2001 - 10:56 am
Salaams all,
Shamefulone, you are in my prayers.
Galool, what is happening to you? You are sinking to the lowest levels of indecency these days. |
| ShamefulOne. | Monday, March 19, 2001 - 12:08 pm
Tears of joy in felt upon reading your statements, thank you all may allah reward with jana-tul fardowsa inshalallah.
Brother: You where the first and most beneficial I inshallah will do my best to Stay away being alone with opposite gender and look for good company so we would bethink of Allah always.
Galood
I rather be stoned to death in this life then in the hear after. For the life to come is eternal while life now is limited. Thank u for your time.
Common and aabbdin
Thank you and may allah accept our prayers.
Qoontade
Jazaka-allah for the moving advice. I have a queaions for you Concerning(tawba al nasuha).
quite apparent I have publicized my sin does this mean my repented to Allah is unacceptable?
May allah(swt) grant you great pleasure in this life and in akhirah.
Faasia and TLG
May allah permit you among the Mumineen in janaah.
This troublesome sin is unpleasant injury to our hearts(imaan) so restrain from it for the penalty one has to pay is far more severe so waiting is beneficial in addition safer with all the sexual transmitting diseases. To conclude may allah tacaala forgive us all and guide us to the right path for he is the one and only whom such power belongs. |
| Qoonsade | Monday, March 19, 2001 - 05:42 pm
Assalaamu calaykum brother/sister
What I wanted to say was, since you sincerely repented to Allah Subhana Wata'aalaa, it wasn't necessary to seek advice. As the matter of the fact, ALLAH accepts the Tawbah of the muslims, even if they commit sin that will fill between the earth and the sky, so never be discouraged. On top of that, I will recommend you to get married and to choose a religious woman. Then you secure a half of your Diin. The Messenger of Allah(saw), said, " Oh young men! whoever among you can marry, should do so, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty. Whoever is not capable to marry, should fast, as fasting suppress his sexual desires".(Bukhari,muslim, Ashabu sunnan arba'a, imam Ahmed and others)
The Rassul of Allah(saw) said, women is married for four things(human nature): her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her religion so try to choose one who is religious and prosper(bukhari, Muslim, Abu Daawood and others)
Allaah says in the Qoran, " And among his signs is this, that he created for you mates from among yourself that you find tranquility in them, and he has put between you affection and mercy. And verily in that are indeed signs for people who reflect." (Ar-Room ch. 30 v. 21)
Wa Bilaahi Tawfiq |
| brother | Tuesday, March 20, 2001 - 06:09 am
salamu aleykum...
I want to say comment to bro/sis Qoonsade
Do you think publizing or make the sin public holds in this case,
I mean this person came nick name...unknown, unless her/his nick some knows, or we know who is this person or you know shamfull
two: his idenity is unknown
three we don't know his/her locations
four we don't know whether they are male or female, or where is the locations?
I mean how could this be publizing or making your sin public?
is not the hadith holds when person commits sin Allah covered for him than next day he goes public
to the people and says I have done this and this...
the other thing shamefull came here asking if Allah will forgive sin?
I mean this is really important thing person should know or else he may fall to Qunoot(lose hope of mercy of Allah)
Also the hadith you mentioned to hide you sin,
scholars like(I think Imam Nawai in his Athkar) mentioned its ok, if you tell scholar, so he tells you the way out, you tell him you sin so you know the way out.
Or what is better is to say : there is person who had done this, what will he do?
maybe if person next time wants to ask question,
is better they say:
if person commits this sin(like Zena),
they feel regert for it
will Allah forgive him, whats your advice to such person?
in this way making it like another person..
no one knows you have done this sin.
maybe we should ask scholars if in Message board like this persons post seeking advice, is that making your sin public, and comes under hadith.
Because many lectures you hear question written in paper some one asking they done sin, what they will do? no one knows who written it,
Allah knows best |
| shamefulOne. | Tuesday, March 20, 2001 - 12:17 pm
Brother please keep us informed if you have the chance to ask an Imaan inshaallah; About the hadith dealing with publicizing sins. "upon reading it recently I think it's targeting those who feel rather fortunate, think it's appropriate and often show off which may draw others to committing sin.
Allahu aclam. |
| Qoonsade | Tuesday, March 20, 2001 - 04:28 pm
To BROTHER, Assalaamu calaykum.
first of all I am brother not sister.
Brother, I don't intend to know the person, but I am just here to command the good , therefore, the issue is general Nasteeha. And if you read what I posted, I did not discouraged anyone to repent to Allah, nor did I claimed to be scholar. I am just telling what we know. As you see, the person has confessed that he committed Sina, and sought advice;that is sufficient to be judged as confession. For that reason, I told the person and anyone else including myself to refrain from publizing their Sins. Also, there is another narration that Prophet(saw), told explicitly his Sahaba to hide thier sins, otherwise, they will penalized According to the sacred law.
On the other hand, if the person makes confession in the public, or through the mail, or via telephone or in the public forum it is confession. that is to say, the person has confessed to Allah that he/she did what he said. And will be recorded by the Malaika. If that is not true that is a lie; it leads the person to fire.
assalamu calaykum |
| confused | Monday, March 26, 2001 - 05:04 am
AsSalaamu aleykum brothers and sisters.
i know this may sound stupid but i want to know what the punishment for kissing your b/f g/f is? is it haraam to have a b/f g/f if you don't do anything?
young sis |
| rushka | Monday, March 26, 2001 - 08:42 am
Allah made our religion simple so just ask Allah forgiveness. And Qoonsaade don't scare the bro/sis... there is no harm done if he or she didn’t know about the hadith, so if one does something he or she has no knowledge of and repents after words Allah is most considerate of all. |
| QOONSADE | Friday, March 30, 2001 - 05:40 pm
Brothers, I am not here to debate on issues that has no intrinsic values. I am here to remind myself and others that we have to be accountable for our actions and to repent to Allah Almighty for our sins without delay, however, if some of us came here to play game with the Diin of Allah, then,is up to Allah. I only try to tell what I know. On the other hand, I will not hasitate to say I am not ALIM. |
| Anonymous | Sunday, April 01, 2001 - 09:27 am
Allah knows best. |
| I hate Galool | Sunday, April 01, 2001 - 11:25 am
Galool
Nacallaa kugu Yaal....wasakh ...is nacay baad tahay...ha duufsan Ilmahayaga....waxyahaw Isnacay...Illahay ka fogaatay......waar waxan Hala hadlina....waawax dulinimo diindiisi ku bedeshaye
ShamefullOne
May Allah guide us all...Amiin! |
| Anonymous | Thursday, April 05, 2001 - 09:06 am
To: I hate Galool
Nothing to get upset about, Galool is just the devil in disguise, doing on only too well what the devil promised to do- to try to mislead all practicing muslims. Not that I think he has any chance with his lame comments. |
| Galool | Sunday, April 08, 2001 - 03:58 am
I hate Galool
Anigu kuma necbani saa waxba iima geysanne! Alle hakaa cafiyo caynta iyo habaarka aad dusha iiga tuurtay! Admaa og ciddii gaal ah mase alle? Qalbigayga wax ku jira amaad og tahay?
Islaannimo badani kaama muuqato, waxaa kaa muuqata aqoon gaabni badan. Kor oo aqli yeelo. |
