     Anonymous | Unrecorded Date
ASALAMA CALEYKUM,HI WE ARE NEWLY MERRIED COUPLE IM JUST WONDERING IS'T HALAAL OR HARAM CAN YOU GO DOWN ON YOU WIFE?I MEANT ORAL SEX ON HER NOT ME ,,,JUST HER, PLEASE REPLY WISELY,,SHUKRAN |
| Sahra | Unrecorded Date
asalaamu calaykum.
maya madagi kartid kuumana banaana inaad dagtaa. |
| Amina | Unrecorded Date
Why can't u, sahra? U just can't say no u have to back it up with some hadith... I was under the impression that the only thing u can't do with your spouse is anal sex... |
| Neefoow-Sharoobo | Unrecorded Date
Waa maya walaal
Sababtu waxaa weeye haddii diinteenu xarimtey Anal Sex, ma waxaad u maleynaysaa in aay ogoshahay Madax-God-Lagal???
Adiguba arag! Haddii aad adigu saas damacdeyna walaaloow illoow, haddii macalimaddu kaa codsateyna ku dheh "Naa heedhe tan yeeli maayo e tu kale dalbo"!
Ogoowna cuduro ayaa laga qaadaa sida Unugyada sameeya dhadhanka ee afka ayaa dhinta oo markaa qofku haduu malab cabayo iyo haduu Xulbad cabayo waa isugu mid!. Markaa afkaaga la baq ninyahow!
Dadka badsado filimada xun-xun ee Porno ah ayaa si fantasiyo xunxun ah wax u raadsada!
Neefoow-Sharoobo |
| Alisomali | Unrecorded Date
neefow meesha nacnacda kal tag oo daliil keen
haat burhaanak.
amina well said . |
| Yaska | Unrecorded Date
Salaam 'Aleykum All of you,
To Hebal;
Waxaa laga yaabaa in aad fududeysanaysid waxyaabaha aad qoreysid.. Laakiin Waa ARIN WEYN OO ILAAHAEY AKTIISA KU WEYN:
FADLAN WAXAAN JECLAAN LAHAA IN AAD ARINKAN (Cayda Nabigga ) AANAN FUDUDEYSAN, Wax kale ka dhigo halqabsi ILAAHEY DIINTIISA IYO NABIGIISu HA KAA NABAD GALEEN.... IN halka aad fadhisid Naftu kaaga baxdo ILAAH wuu awoodaa.... Akhil Kariim Ilaahaada u toobad keen, ILAAHAY waa Dhaafaa danbiyadda Adoomihiise..
Waxaa suurtagal ah in aad iska qortey, ama wax kale uu maskaxdaada ku soo dhici waayey... Laakiin Bar Naftaada In aanan Xuduudaha Ilaahey agtooda ku ciyaarin, ALLENA WUU BALAN QAADAY IN UU KA AARGOOSAN DOONO Kuwa DILAACIYA XUDUUDIHIISA EE KU XADGUDBA. Wax walba oo aan qorno, ku hadalno, WAA QORAN YIHIIN ALLENA WAA OG YAHAY!
LAAKIIN ALLE NAXARIISTIISA AYAA KA HORMARTAY CADHADIISA, WAANA DANBI DHAAFE. WALAAL HA YAREYSAN ARINKAN WAA ADIGA & ALLE Arin dhexdiina Taal. ILAAHEY WUXUU BALAN QAADAY IN UU KU FILAN YAHAY IN UU KA AARGOOSTO CADOWGIISA, MAALINTA AAN MEEL LOO BAXSADAA, & CID WAX KAA CELISA TOONA AANAY JIRIN. |
| ABDINASIR ELMI | Unrecorded Date
NINKA NABIGA CAYNAYOOW HORTA
MEESHAAS WAXAA KACAD INAAD NACAS
TAHAY SABABTOO AH WAXAAS KAMA SUURTOOBEEN WAXAAD SAMAY NAYSO.
NABIGA HAADAAD CAYSO IYO HADAADAN
CAYNBA MARNABA WAXBA UDHIMI MAYSID
SABABTOO AH RABIBAA UMADIISA KA DOORTAY.
ANIGA WAXAAN KU ORANLAHAA RABIGAA KA BAQ HANOQON NACAS QURBAHA
BADALAY ,OGOOW TOWBADANA WAY KUU
FURANTAHAY. |
| Anon | Unrecorded Date
Amina iyo Yaska well said..
To anonymous.
I have read an answer from a shiekh who had been asked the same qousetion. and he answered,, that there is no a Quranic ayah or hadiith that talks about this issue therefore it had not been practiced at the Prophet Maxamed (peace be up on him) time.. for sister Amina said anal sex is haram and it mentioned in the Quran and hadiths.
so if oral sex is what u and your wife is disered I see no problem doing it so it is kind of forplay,,but in health matter I would advise you not to becouse there is a lot of deceases you and your wife could get especialy if your wife is doing it for you. see a doctor and ask the matter he will give you the health tips for how to do oral sex.. Injoy bro and make sure you please your wife as much as you can,, and let her do the same way.. may Allah make your marriage strong and health..
peace your sister in Islam. |
| enough intelligent | Unrecorded Date
Anon jazaakumullaahu khayran sidaad uga jawaabtay haddii aydaan xaaraannimada oral sexka aad wiydeen karti aad kagala soo baxdaan diinta, mawaxaad si indho la'aana u odhanaysaan waa xaaraan ama maahee caafimaadkuu u xun yahay?!
Yaab aad u ballaadhan ayaad leedihiin ee dhagaysta: allaah wuu xarrimay in naag aadan qabin aad laseexato ama aad jidhkeeda taabato adigoo u jeeda shahwo gudasho.
Haddaba aayadda qur'aanka ah ee allaah uu ku xarrimay in aan qofta dumarka ah ama ragaba aan looga tegi karin-illeen dumarkuba ragooda xaq ayey u leeyihiin inay weydiistaan sex markay u baahanyihiine- waa meesha loogu tala galay oo qudha walaa anal ayaa soconaya walaa oral ayaa soconaya. Aayaddu waxay ku jirtaa suuradda Al Baqara layidhaaho waana "FA'TUUHUNNA MIN XAYTHU AMARA KUMU ALLAAHU, INNALLAAHA YUXIBU TAWAABIINA WA YUXIBUL MUTADHAHIRIINA"
Aayad kale ayaa jirta oo dadku laga yaabo inay ku khaldaan aayaddan oo odhanaysa sidaad doontaan ugu kaalaya dumarkiinna, taasina macno kale ayey leedahaye halladigtoonaado oo yaan waxaan lagaranayn la iska dhex dabaalan.
Jazakumullaahu khyaran kathiiran. |
| QAMAR | Unrecorded Date
ASALAAMA CALAYKUM
Waa idin salaamay dhamaantiin salaan ka dib xaaskaaga oo kuu xalaal ah ma dagi kartid hadaad dagtana daganid adna.
WAXAAN WAX YAR KU DARSANAYAA DADKA QAAR AYAA WAXAY DOONAAN KU HADLAYA FADLAN YAAN LAGU DAGDAGIN DIINTA MUSLIMKA WAAYO AAD AYAY QAALI U TAHAY WAANA WADO TOOS AH OO HADII AAD KA LEEXATO ULA KAS AAD UGA LEEXATAY MAXAA YEELAY WANAAG MA'YEE XUMAAN KUMA FARAYSO QOFKII KU DHAQMANA ILAAHAY AGTIISA SHARAF AYUU KA LEEYAHAY FADLAN YAANAN LAGU XAD GUDBIN ILAAHAY IYO NABIYADIISA IYO DIINTA IYO BANI AADAMKA ISAGU ABUURAYBA.
ASALAAMA CALAYKUM WARAXMATULAAH WABARAKAATUHU |
| Ahmad | Unrecorded Date
Asalama Alaykum All!
Annonymous,
...there is no prohibition on the subject, no Qur`anic verse nor a hadith prohibits it. It
needs to be noted that God says in the Koran:
"2.223 Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will; but
do some good act for your souls beforehand; and fear Allah. And know that ye are to
meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give (these) good tidings to those who believe." The
Cow, Qur`an.
Imam Musa Al-Kazim, an early pious Muslim, was once asked the following: "Can a
person kiss his wife's vagina?" The Imam said, "No problem." (Wasa'il, vol. 14, p.
77;)---In the modern times, the "kissing" is reffered as "Oral"(NOTE: this book is not one
that is supported by all sects of Islam.)
WITH that said, I would like to give you advice. This subject is one that we're not 100%
sure that it is allowed...nor sure that it is not. As the Prophet Muhammad, peace and
blessings be upon him, said: "the lawful is known and the unlawful is known. And
between them, there are things which are not clear---and he that leaves that which is not
clear, is clear of unlawful...and he that falls into that which is not clear, falls into
unlawful."(NOTE: I translated this hadith, therefore is due to mistakes, and I apologize
for any mistakes that maybe within that!)
So, Annonymous, is it not better to refrain that which we have no proof to be lawful. Oral
sex is a weird and strange thing to MOST of the cultures. And, even though most cultures
are wicked themselves, there are things which the heart does not settle with,
completely---and, let me tell you, this one is one of those(for me!)
Follow your heart(it's not settled with mine, therefore, does not mean the same for
you)---ask the questions your soul, deeply---and within there, lies the Truth. Our Prophet
was most Wisdomful and Knowledged in humankind, he was called the Spirit of Truth, and he related to us that..."anything that
the heart does not settle with, that is which is not of God"---or something similar.
Best luck to you,
Blessed BE!
Peace, Ahmad! *>.<* |
| Tbone99 | Unrecorded Date
Aslamu Laykum All
Dear brothers and sisters
It is really a shame that Muslims have nothing better to talk about or think about than than can my wife suck my ****!
It is seems to me that the ruling regarding permissibility of oral sex, has been probably posted by mistake otherwise it would be absurd to allow a husband to have his wife suck his *****.
The guy who owns this website should provide someone to monitor the FORUM chat. It is really disgusting to find such information on Somalinet Forum (ISLAM). This act of sexual intercourse is practiced by wicked people and is immoral and ethically wrong to allow for one to put his private part into the mouth of his wife.
I also want to remind you that the saying of the prophet (peace and blessing of Allah be upon him): a man may approach his wife from front or the back, as long as intercourse takes place in the place from through which a child is born. Remember, this site is read by all kind of people at the different ages.
Some things Allah has Made HALAL for some things He as made HARAM. However, in regards to some-things he remained silent, --------- out of Mercy.
It is not proper to have long and public discussions and debates about such things that Allah the Almighty has remained silent regarding.
If that's not enough on the matter, then follow the Prophet Mohammad's example and if you are uncertain a thing then leave it alone.
It is wrong to have open, discussion and debate about such things.
Wasalamu laykum!
Your brother in Islam,
Abdinasir
Peace! |
| Abdishakur | Unrecorded Date
Praise be to Allah.
Your apology is accepted. Striving to understand the rulings of Sharee'ah in this and similar matters is not
haraam or shameful; it is necessary.
As regards your question, anal intercourse with one's wife is a major sin, whether it occurs at the time of
menstruation or not. The Prophet SAWS (Peace & Blessings of Allah be upon Him) cursed the one
who does this: "Cursed is the one who approaches his wife in her rectum" (Reported by Imaam Ahmad, 2/479;
see also Saheeh al-Jaami', 5865).
The Prophet SAWS (Peace & Blessings of Allah be upon Him) also said: "The one who has
intercourse with a menstruating woman, or with a woman in her rectum, or who goes to a fortune-teller,
has disbelieved in what was revealed to Muhammad." (Reported by al-Tirmidhi, no. 1/243; see also Saheeh al-Jaami',
5918).
In spite of the fact that many wives of sound nature refuse this, there are some husbands who threaten
their wives with divorce if they do not obey them (in this matter), and some even deceive their wives, who
are too shy to ask scholars about it, into thinking that it is permissible. The Prophet SAWS (Peace &
Blessings of Allah be upon Him) said that a man may approach his wife in any way he likes, from the front
or the back, so long as intercourse takes place in the place from through which a child is born. There is no
doubt that the rectum is the place from which waste matter is expelled, not the place from which a child is
born.
Another reason why some may commit this immoral act is that they enter upon what should be a clean
married life with some jaahili (ignorant) traditions and odd practices, or with memories of scenes from
indecent movies, for which they have not repented to Allaah.
It is known that this act is forbidden even if both partners agree to it. Mutual consent to a haraam deed
does not make it halaal.
I ask Allah to bestow upon us a proper understanding of His religion and to make us adhere to its limits, for
He is the All-Hearing, the One Who answers prayers. |
