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     | Saturday, February 24, 2001 - 04:31 am I have seen alot of brother's complaning so i did some research to find out what sister are looking for today? 1. Guys who are driving 2. Guys who have potential( those that study) 3. Mens who don't dress hip hop 4. Older guys 5. Those who are somewhat westernnise 6. Money, money, Money 7. Someone they know his family 8. Someone from the same Clan (dont surprise) 9. Someone with no family problem 10. Someone they can control
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| | Saturday, February 24, 2001 - 07:12 am i think it is the ALCOHOL you drink talking bro. you need to go to AA,when you get cleaned up and have a mind of your own,come back with your list! I am sure it will be different. PS:nowadays somali women make more money than you men!
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| | Saturday, February 24, 2001 - 07:36 am oh he we go again now you insulting me ahahah If you don't like my opinion tell me why? Also can you tell me where those somalian girls are who are making money , i am just wondering.
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| | Saturday, February 24, 2001 - 08:47 am I am not insulting you,just saying what you yourself admitted in other forum(career-alcoholism) and since civil war we got only mothers and children everywhere.fathers r still in somalia and political hungered or oriented believing they should all be in somalia or near by. or busy destroying one another( who r the warlords and the mooryaans?? they r someone`s father or husband bro not aliens who landed in somalia). women work to support their kids and be mom and dad to them.rest of men over are busy of chewing qaad and gossiping in coffee shops! and you say where r women who r working and making me?? now i know why all somali men r doomed or cursed? it is because they never appreciated and thanked God for being blessed such a great mothers and wives.
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| | Saturday, February 24, 2001 - 10:21 am One of the reason i did this page was to hepl, this young guys who are confuse so they can found out what the sister's are looking for. i understand where you coming from and i feel your pain. I am sorry if i cause any harm.
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| | Saturday, February 24, 2001 - 10:24 am Check out the career/forum sista don't think i am alcoholic, all i said was some people who drink have a future and that is true it was just opinion
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| | Saturday, February 24, 2001 - 11:05 am the only thing i agree with you is #3,of coarse i think no sister will want to go for a guy who looks like a thug,got his pants somewhere between his tighs or knees with one leg folded up.pllz you said you started this page to help?? how?? by giving fake info and starting accusation?? 1)guy who drives(what a pathetic suggestion),may be you didnt see somali women driving. 2)guys with potential(study) what matters is personality first of all bro,they r men with degrees and got horrible personality.they r some with just high school diploma but great in everything else.no one is perfect,and i dont think women r looking for that.what they want is man who takes responsibility and be there with her(not for her only). 3)scroll up and see. 4)older guys?? you said in the wrong way but bro i think what matters is maturity or not age.we see older guy(mid-30s) still acting like teanagers and worse and then younger guys in late teans or mid 20s so mature and decent.it is the mind that matures but number of years one lived! 5)whats there for being westernised?? r you suggesting like men who act like drinking and going to clubs and dating and sleeping with other women??? or one who doesnt even know what religion he believes in?? one fathers children and never look back and move on??hell no i dont think so. 6)girls re looking for money,money,money. ??in what sense when they earn their own?? it is not 60s or 70s when men used to go to Saudia and were known janaale and women(majority some mothers r educated and worked too then) didnt know how to make a living!! 7)someone they know his family?? not all somalis know one another unless you saying they go for their cousins which is rare in somalia.family dont matter bro,one need to know the person well. 8)some one from same clan?? then how come we all get aunts and uncles and cousins who belong to other clans??yeah i am sure you get relatives in almost every clan.then you/your sis or bro might marry others one day. 9)one with no family problem??? plllz there isnt any family without any problem.esp in somalis we all have tons of problems and obstacles to overcome.we are in world bro not in JANNAH.we will keep on having till the day we die. 10)one they can control?? why you think if 2 ppl marry one should have upper hand??i guess you believe in that. or you saying somali guys who r married r dummy and under the control of their wives ??or typical Somali male mentality i give the orders and dont listen to my wife coz i am the man huh?there is something called 50/50 relationship.couple should respect,listen and work out together,not one dictating and other taking orders,may be thats the kinda examples you saw then i dont blame you. so probably you failed in your research,you should`ve known how to reject your null hypothesis and decrease your p value which should be < 0.05,so you shouldnt have published your paper without back up proof( thats how research work bro). by the way it is Somali not somalian you keep on using the wrong word! it is problem with you youngsters who dont know anything about somalia or being somali. oh you said i feel your pain??what pain??how?? or you thought ppl will agree with you??then think again.in DEBATE there r pros and cons.
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| | Saturday, February 24, 2001 - 11:18 am the last woman I met was asking me, wether I know how to make love or money? so I think, money making/love making men.other wise your mission will be impossible. I say Hello! they say Bye!
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| | Saturday, February 24, 2001 - 11:21 am bro you didnt do no harm and i like your ways without insults just expressing. thank you. i saw your other input in career now.allrite it isnt you who is alcoholic,thats good to hear bro. even though i dont agree with you that alcoholic can be successful.but then look up the meaning of alcoholic?? when you use that word it is someone who is hooked up on it(alcohol)! they r ppl who drink to the limit,yes thats right.but in Somali community,in fact most of the african and asians use in excess!! westerners have both,alcoholics and others. those alcoholics who realise their problems and get help are those who can succeed,not one who is still in it. there is something called down-drifting in which you`ll see ppl on drugs and alcoholics and of coarse ppl with mental disorders.they r in success and lead good life but then get drift into bottom line,loose their jobs and families and all other stuff they had. Most of ppl hook on alcohol when they got a problem,thinking it will make them feel better,but then.......it messes their lives.
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| | Saturday, February 24, 2001 - 11:22 am Funnyman, i guess you r fishing in the wrong side of river.
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| | Saturday, February 24, 2001 - 11:29 am guilty, i think you asked a very good question and i do not understand why they insulted you.if i try to answer your question most of the girls that i know are looking for a man with education in a reasonable age difference. so the education takes care about clothes,i mean if they are wise enough to go to school they will be wise enough no to imitate.
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| | Saturday, February 24, 2001 - 12:05 pm alxamdulilaah, i know a lot of educated somali men and women. am in a good company and i don't buy into western philosophy or thinking. am comfortable being sorrounded by somali and i enjoy being in somali circles. i even frequent those coffee places where old somali men gather t exchange information cos i wanna be close to my own people. i wa born and raised in here USA and i never abandonmed my culture, religion and above all my SOMALINESS. i will marry a practicing somali sister and i would cherish her eternally.
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| | Saturday, February 24, 2001 - 01:00 pm Yasmina, i dont think every somali girl is looking for educated man! if it is so thats very unfortunate!!i dont think education makes one a man.it is person`s wisdom.you stated 'Education takes care of clothes', are you saying uneducated man doesnt know how to take care of himself, forget about of taking take of a wife? you said "if they r wise enough to go to school,they will be wise enough not to intimidate" sis it is not every man has/had the chance to study!lots of ppl werent fortunate enough to get that opportunity and us being Somalis we all know whats the % of educated ppl in our society.lets not pretend everyones` parents r educated so are our uncles and aunts. but lots of ppl without education are wiser better and much maturer. i am not saying lets not study and increae our knowledge, i am saying dont judge a person and look down on him just coz he lacks education.education is surplus, but it doesnt make you a man. you said you put a good topic and ppl r insulting you?? sis how??in what way he is insulted??well i agree it s good debatable topic.but just coz you dont agree him doesnt make you r in sulting.but then if one uses filthy words it is fine,huh?? what a world we living?! or if you referring to alcoholism guilty understood(i hope) i did apologise as didnt see his other posting in that area. and you agreed with him in one point(#2) how about others sis?? he gave list of 10 dear. give your opinion.
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| | Saturday, February 24, 2001 - 01:07 pm Hassan, i liked your writing.it seems wise guy`s words. you r lucky to know lots of educated somalis bro. but i live they r only less than 10%.majority of somali youngsters r busy copying western life style.it is hard to see one is broad up(or born) here with such a good behaviour.my sincere wishes to you bro.May you find your right match one day Insha Allah. but bro you didnt say if you agree and disagree with guilty`s topic and in what points??
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| | Saturday, February 24, 2001 - 04:02 pm I think the list Guilty has probably reflects particular age-frame,and transient priorities. People learn from their expreinces, and expereince comes with age. Because of this changing environment people get confused, what was proirity yesterday may be seen irrelevent today which is consistent with changes in personality. Characters are not static. For instance I am college student and I understand the value of education. I would love to have educated women as the mother of my children, but the lessons I have gone through in life did make me think twice whether education or ultimately money is the most important thing when choosing mate. For instance I had this friend who married his hometown sweetheart agianst the advice of everyone,(You don't have money,she is not good for you) the usual crap. Shortly after a small wedding the civil war started they moved to Nairobi. No friends no family to help them, In short they were tested to the limit and they stuck together. Most of the times Abdihakim would miss two meals to cover for his son's milk. If I give him some shaxaad or tell him " lets go eat" he would say just give the money. I did not know what he was going through until one day I saw where he lived. They were normal smiling like you and me. This couple examplified what marriage is in the true sense of the word. I learned a lot. If your somali womem and smart, just reflect your mother and see if you can learn anything.
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| | Saturday, February 24, 2001 - 05:38 pm anon i'm not talking about all somali woman no one can do that. but i'm talking about the girls that i know. i do not think educated man will wear hip hop and education is not only going to college and getting degrees but it is beyond that.i think there are some people who never went to college but have a backbone, i have to admit i was wrong. the girls that i know are either in college or graduated. so do you think the marriage between college graduated woman and a man who did not can be successful?. most men do not like to earn less income than their wives.i did not have a time to analyze all his list. but i agree with you 1 is stupid.5, is unacceptable,6 lot of women make more money.8 is possible,many girls are not allowed to marry outside it is bad but it is the truth.9 everyone has family problems one way or another.10 i do not think anyone will marry for control
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| | Saturday, February 24, 2001 - 07:07 pm durgal, your friends story was very touching.they must be REALLY deeply in love with one another and have PATIENCE.it is hard to find that kinda person. i had the same kinda believe too.my future partner gotta have college degree.....blah blah(may be then i wasnt mature enough) then i met alot of ppl who had degrees or working on it but i didnt like them, and then i realised Love is nothing to do with degrees but honesty, sincerity, caring and understanding.......,. I know education is great and surplus but happiness and understanding lies with personality(thats my believe anyway,everybody got their own opions). Yasmina, i agree with you totally 100% educated man wouldnt dress like hip hop style.and they r men who feel threatened if their wives make more money or get better job, and thats why majority of women like to go for educated men but then somali sisters should give other good guys without degree the benefit of the doubt.by the sis did you realise we r running short of edacuted somali men?! and 8) you r right in a way,but i believe whether you happened to be man or woman,ur family will always prefer same clan esp after civil war.but not everyone follows their parents wishes!some of us still go ahead and marry( one of my family member who married one of the other clan against her whole family`s wish ,her husband(the unwanted) and she became "the night in shining armor" for the whole family thru civil war. what a irony??
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| | Sunday, February 25, 2001 - 01:08 pm Guilty let see..... Got numbers 1) 2)Definitely. 4) 9) Total 4/10 mark "F" Guilty I don't meet all the criterions. Will try again when I get (3), (5) and (6), maybe I will then get 7/10 which will be a good "B"...... LOL Peace
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| | Sunday, February 25, 2001 - 01:24 pm Joking aside, Guilty no one can know what girls want, I know for sure if I am 1000 years old I still wont claim to understand them. You see a girl can choose a guy on the bus over a guy driving jaguar (not sure of this one), a ballaz over a well educated guy, B.E.T breed child over a (GQ reading, Jazz listening, golf playing) guy, 19 year old over 27 year old...... get my drift. Nice topic, good points, very close approximation, but you must still refrain from claiming to know those creatures we call females. Did you not forget, they came from planet VENUS. Peace and have fun
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| | Sunday, February 25, 2001 - 01:53 pm Guilty: All I want is " Amaan" from their filth running mouths.... is that too much to ask??
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| | Sunday, February 25, 2001 - 04:50 pm Anon+ Guilty very nice and clean discussion though i agree with sirrus never claim u understand women, at least not 50% but amaan will dfinitly work as suggested by Hibo, by the way how was ur date with devils_love, i hope everything is fine. PEACE
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| | Monday, February 26, 2001 - 03:58 am Hold up bro! God has created us different and for that everyone has different minds to think with so maybe some womens are like what you have listed above but some ain't.....so you should open your eyes a little wider to gain more information .....bro's peace out
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| | Monday, February 26, 2001 - 05:40 am lol@hibo  I'll give you amaan but don't forget it is our nature to "Wo" or there would only have been one sex man!!! Women hate a man who is not sure about anything, it trigers their insecurity hence you all loose. As a man it has always worked to know what the project is all about from first meeting... To gate "A" sirrus treat the whole affair as an assignment!!! -Introduction: keep it clear and concise explain the field and set the scene -Backgroud: make sure to checkout her past or you might just be wasting your time know who has failed and who came lose to passing! or how do you intend to improve on the past efforsts! do you research!! -Set specification: what do you require at the end? girlfriend?, wife?, 1night fling? friend? enemy?.... deside on what you are willing to spend, the badget must be set early on so you don't over spend. Set the boundry to your lines, this will be based on your research and what you found out! select you style... will it be gent or a rufneck also based on your research?... will it be McDonald's or a restaraunt...? how will you dress? you best cut you nails and hair... all again depends on the aim of our effort! Chap1: Well bro's this is where you fillin in the missing material cos contain is dependent on your mental containment and noone can assist you when the ball gets rolling... unless you wanna hire me and you can wear a wireless ear piece and i'll transmite the instructions to you as you eat you Big mac... or what ever... Chap2: ....fill Chap3: ....fill You see life can be so easy and simple if you plan ahead. There will always be men who can't wipe their nose and they will expect the jewel of a family to say yes please get me about of here!!! Man should check the state of life a somali female is living in... i promise with no certainty(human errors occur) that an human being will consider a life style better then their current one!!! the rest is just down to how you men decorate what you are offering them!!! In the somali community the love of a somali female is not given volunteerily it is bought and manipulated out of the hearts of these young girls with the percision of a master criminal. There aren't many master's the art of getting this love sooooooooooooooooooooo stop bloody blaming the femalessssssssssssss for your failures..............men m 4 mighty e 4 egotestical n 4 ni99as The game is there whether you like it or not... play it or just stop complaining... thos that know how to work are the ones who got the dood marks..... so men start... today... you will start a log book on this project so you will know not to make the sam mistake again next time... and if it takes 100 females and 99 fails you will have a wife at the end of it.... wether it was worth it or not is another depate.... But don't come back to me as say modey it didn't work you lied to me... i'll only tell to go try it agian... this is about being able to get good marks... some can some will never.... fullstop so start today.... Personal log date 26/02/00 -project number one amiina from your classroom! Remember -intro -background -specification -aims and objectives -Main body of the project[main listening and making general conversation... eye contact]  -Conclution---> please come back and let the others know your results... optional -reference---> Modey the Love science teacher. ......Keep an eye out in the states for a book titled "The steps to manhood" soon to be released sometime in late 2003... Feel free to ask for further explaination... later
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| | Monday, February 26, 2001 - 06:00 am YOU KNOW EDUCATION ISNT THE MOST IMPORTANT THING NO MATTER WHAT PEOPLE THINK. I THINK THE MOST IMPORTANT TYPE OF EDUCATION IS ONE WHICH IS NATURALLY SEND TO YOU BY GOD AND THROUGH EXPERIENCE. I MEAN LIKE WHAT DUGAL WAS TALKING ABOUT. WE ALL MAY HAVE LISTS OF WHAT HE SHOULD HAVE BUT I DOUBT ANY OF US WILL STICK TO THAT. I THINK YOU WILL KNOW WHEN YOU MEET THAT PERSON, NO MATTER WHAT TEHIR BACKGROUND IS.
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| | Monday, February 26, 2001 - 07:17 am In defence of brothers with education. Please don't pick on education, is hard earned and well spent just like money. I agree with you all, personality is the key. When I open a book and read, hand in an assignment or work at the hospital, woman is the last thing on my mind..... Education is to better yourself, not for some girl. I study because I refuse to be born, grow up, eat, sleep, have a 9-5 job and die, then disappear in history. I am not a sheep, member of the masses a human animal. I study, because I want long after my death, my name to be spoken with delight and terror, all in one. So in conclusion, bro and sis, stop picking on educated guys, when it comes to girls, lets just say god created all man equal. Getting a girl depends on your wits, confidence, charm, and yes without denayal your overall assets, (money, education, physic, stamina, looks, blah blah blah) Peace
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| | Monday, February 26, 2001 - 08:08 am Rose, Well said .i couldnt put it in the better way. We all have our fantasy picture of my guy/girl but then when you meet the right person you will see you will have to let go of some,after all nobody is perfect!till then lets keep on daydreaming of the our perfect and unbelievable future mates and when the truth hits us.... Sirrus, you hitting the right spot bro.i dont remember or think any one of us going to school/college/uni to get a girl/guy in the future. you said no one can know what girl want?true esp as every girl is different from the other.girls r also having hard time to figure out guys want! after all they(guys) came from Mars remember? hibo, you said all you want is "amaan" from their filthy mouths. sis there`s a saying "dont judge the book by its cover", meaning just coz couple of guys are bad mouthing, doesnt mean all Somali guys rlike that.lets not generalise,and appreciate the good ones.lets not forget there r bad filthy mouthed girls too. By the way dont think you will need a soul mate one day??in my book,a man and a woman r like "the 2 beans in a pod". in other words we need in one another wether we admit or not!thats how God created us.i guess may be you have different belief,but then dont spoil your future just coz you saw couple of loosers. Modey, i couldnt understand what you wrote(i had the same problem with other articles you contributed).i will re-read it again and see if i will get anything. but then bro you r using "spoken english" not the "written one". know the diferrence?? guilty, where r you?? no comments and proof to support your points??
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| | Monday, February 26, 2001 - 09:25 am What kind of Women Somali Men Looking For Today: 1) A Woman who can Cook. 2) One that works. 3) She does not have a Mama Back home calling On Saturday Morning asking for $$$ 4) Does not disturb u during Monday Nite Football 5) Does not Nag every 20 minutes. 6) Is not on the Phone Gossiping or Cashin the Check to buy Gold 7) Believes in Birth Control. Yeah U know yourselves ETC: TO SUM IT 4 THE LADIES: A MAN ONLY WANTS 3 THINGS: 1) GOOD FOOD 2) SEX with no After Talk 3) Sports Supreme Y Chromose.
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| | Monday, February 26, 2001 - 10:16 am anon, i guess you r looking for a MAID not wife bro. i dont see why you have to go all the trouble to marry woman in that case!! your numbers contradict one another. if she works(2)i dont see why you worrying and complaining about her mama(3)?? or cashing checks to buy gold(6)?? birth control is something both partners agree. but then i guess you didnt hear there r men contraceptives?! if you watching monday nite football(4),i dont see why she shouldnt be on the phone with her friends(7)?! after all you failed to fulfil your role of keeping her company! r you crippled??you cant cook huh? the topic was what somali women r looking for?? not what men want! scroll up read.if you agree or disagree with what guilty, say so or else set up another topic for your self about what men want! PS:supreme Y chromosome?? how? in what sense? according to my knowledge X and Y carry same amount of chromosome(23 each)! if one carries extra it is X chromosome. what s that?? mitochondrial DNA which we ONLY inherit from our mothers!
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| | Monday, February 26, 2001 - 10:28 am Summerttime: I can bet my date with devil..went as planned.. I couldn't ask for a better time... Anon: Its true bro... not all SOmali brothers have filthy running mouths.. I wasn't generalizing bro.. u get me wrong...but what counts is the majority... MOst of the Somali men we meet today.. have nothing else on mind...but to destroy the reputation of a sister.. what do they gain from that?.. I don't know.. It is the fact lets face it. U bet there r plenty of wonder boys...around as well.. But yeah.. that is all I want from them is "Amaan"...lol..I will definitely pick my soulmate...that is for sure.. till then....I prefer to be left alone....
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| | Monday, February 26, 2001 - 11:14 am Hibo or Honesta You get what you ask for..............
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| | Monday, February 26, 2001 - 11:43 am Bad2thebone.......Hibo is not Honesita and Honesita is not Hibo....... Hibo.....sistah r u 4real.....u r asking for far toooooooooooo much if u want AMAAN...lol... I luv the way guilty and anonmous r discussin' this issue........ Anon u really sound like a very wise SISTAH.....lol.......and i say sistah cuz u r defendin' us so well.......lol@the x&y chromosomes....i didnt even know what that was.....i betta take better classes in school huh.... All i want from Somali men is to be HONEST.....stop lying.....about who and what u r....about how u feel about moi and what u're gonna do in the future for moi........and i know that is too much to ask for...!! About ur points Mista Guilty......i must say i agree with Anon with everything she said......not all women want the same thingz.......right.,.!! ciao
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| | Monday, February 26, 2001 - 06:06 pm honesista, thanx sis. you r right about Honesty.that is the pillar of any relationship but unfortunately Somalis esp men r far from it.Som men believe "gabar been baa lagu soo xero galiyaa runna waa lagu dhaqaa" ! i doubt if that will ever work. sis thats not too much to ask,thats basic things of life but then we r,i dont know how to say, weird ppl. i believe if a guy with a girl,he shouldnt even pretend what he is not or doesnt have(thats kinda putting yourself low), forget about lying!!i dont find that good.if he got a penny(1) only in his account i would love and respect him for that! anyway sis hang in there you will probably get your type soon.if i could in Somalis so could you!
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| | Monday, February 26, 2001 - 06:11 pm bad2thebone, i cant understand why you keep on insisting honesita and hiba r one and same person. any person with brain could easily decifer that they r 2 ppl. it doesnt take a sec to know those posting are from 2 different ppl. their ways and style of writing r different not to mention how they express!
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| | Monday, February 26, 2001 - 09:33 pm WHO IS THIS BITCH WHO HERSELF ANONYMOUS
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| | Tuesday, February 27, 2001 - 06:11 am Interesting people how you going to tel me what i want when i myself DOn't know all if only that was easy bothers and sister one think you don't understand is finding your mate , is not like a biznis deal. there are emotion involved there for all the rules are out the door.
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| | Tuesday, February 27, 2001 - 08:00 am Honestia: Lol....sis its true we r the same person....An aunt & her niece the same rite....lol...just like... The father, The son...& The holly ghost being the only One God.. Jesus...for gaalada....lol.. U said I was asking far too much.............come to think about it....u r rite....sis...to our ppl....that is way too much.....coz.. qofbaan qutulyoomkiisa ka hortaaganahay..u know....they get bought a cup of tea...or coffe...for the News they get...n stuff....so..yeah.. I am asking for toooooooo...muccccchhhh..!! Anon: SOrry sis... I thought u were a bro...but since Honestia... had corrrected my thinking.. I am sure u will forgive me...Good point sis...I like teh way u represent ur opinions...JOb Well done!!
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| | Tuesday, February 27, 2001 - 08:29 am Today, I am looking for my car keys and sun-glasses. Misplaced them again!
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| | Tuesday, February 27, 2001 - 08:46 am First i am very happy that everything is going well up in here. I didn't said all women's are looking at the samething. I was talking about the age 19 between 25 who bean here more than six year's aight. in my opinion this group demand too much, i am only talking about the one's i met aight don't start a gender war. To: Honestsista Lets be real here aight most somalian guys are honest aight, where do you go sista? if you talk to wanabe who think's is a playa you are in different world. It also depends on where you are?
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| | Tuesday, February 27, 2001 - 09:15 am lol@Guilty...i guess i do dear.....i've only came across the liers.....and that just pisses me off.... Anonmouse.....sistah pls come up with a name....i really like ur comments........and i hate that somali saying naagaha been lagu xero galiyo......every time i come across a guy and he says the things i wanna hear, i feel like been buu sheegayaa......but i'm still hangin' in there and lookin' for my 'somali' 'male' 'mate'...... What did ya mean Hibo and Honesita express differently......i took that as Honesita is a LAX...lol.... Hibo....sistah....my mom is not around....i didnt understand what u said in somali.....dont lol at me no aight.........sistah.....inta caaysha b-columbus mush kidah..!!? wonderin'...lol Nia.....lol.......keep lookin' sweety.....i take that as 'i aint lookin' for no man right now'...lol adios
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| | Tuesday, February 27, 2001 - 09:44 am Honesita! Lol.all i meant was in a good way.i am sure you and your own sister got different opinion let alone another person who is not related to you. for the record you r far from Lax. i like and respect your opinion esp the way they stick to the topic and the way you express sincerely.it is hard to find one like that esp on this forum. for the name,what can i say,you sisters already took all the cool names so for now i am stuck with this!! PS:i got my results for very important exam yesterday ,it is just GREAT!!!i am Euphoric!!!! or should i say on cloud 18?! Alhamdullilah. Hibo, than you sis.and there isnt anything to forgive sis,you didnt commit no crime against me or anyone else. guilty, welcome back.i dislike those who use or keeping on bringing up gender wars too. it is unfortunate you had to meet girls with those kinda demands.hopefully you might be lucky next time. But about the age 19-25 i dont agree with you. they say "Age aint nothing but a number" wisdom and maturity is nothing to do with age,far from it. Western world affected somali youth(majority) but i cant say it influenced girls more(if not the opposite).
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| | Tuesday, February 27, 2001 - 09:59 am soulsista, i know what i want!!i never heard anyone saying "dont know what i want" thats more like feelingless sis! but then even though i know what i want, doesnt mean i am gonna get all of it!!surely i will have to compromise and i do keep in mind no one in perfect! emotions r involved.true but that doesnt mean let your love/partner walk all over you!! yes there should be rules(it is not like you gotta write and sign rules),and if you see something you dont like you gotta confront him/her and clear the air out. relationship without rules,i believe, is just shallow,empty one.anyway thats my opinion.
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| | Tuesday, February 27, 2001 - 01:46 pm what a women wants??? Even these so-called females trying their best to imitate a woman could not help you boys. It is all so simple yet autocratic. Let me highlight this fact, most of the users of this forum are not really ready to even date let alone be aware of the needs of a woman. I am amazed however to encounter men in their late 20es still pondering over the simpler details of satisfying a woman. The temptation is there to donate a little advice to you all but why should I bother, suffer all you must till you develop the right qualities required to get you any woman you desire. The simple fact is most women (non-somali women) know what they want. They will tell a man when to get on his knees and for how long to stay there. Somebody forgot to educate this nation's feline on how to treat their males. Any man who gets what he wants from a woman will not stick around for there is no challenge left. A real woman would know just how to keep the males hungry forever. Even if she were the ugliest female in the world he would stay loyal and never stray. There those that behave like dogs, any female that wants one should learn to keep them on a leash. You should also get yourself a flea collar unless you want to be contaminated. It has been uttered here and there and I'll repeat it once again. A woman needs a handsom,kind,gentle,honest,caring,hardworking,loyal,proactive male. Most importantly he must be able to take care of the needs of a woman which ever way is possible. It is nice to have one that can last the distance but if he can't me must compensate for his quick responses by other means. Last but not least he definitely has to be able to getup and go at will or get out and go! I have not directly attacked any males so I don't think there was any damage done this time. Until I have to intervene and correct a few children take it easy on yourselfs guys surely you don't expect anyone else to. Hahahahahahahaha
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| | Tuesday, February 27, 2001 - 04:18 pm HOnestia: La'a yaa maama... mush ca'isha fil Columbus...bas fil..balad..saqiir.... ismu Durham....fil.. Walaaya... North Carolina... fahamtani...la??... As far the Somali thing goes... all I said was... I had but a barrier to someone else's daily bread... by... asking for 'amaan'... from ther mouth....as that is their day to day job!!.. I hope I am making sense now...lol Anon: lol...sis...thnx
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| | Wednesday, February 28, 2001 - 11:59 am Well Guilty.. I 100% agree with you...But personally I wouldn't want to control my husband and make him look like a wuss...Everything else is true especially the money and educated.But you forgot one thing, you have to love the person in order to want them so if yu think about none of those things are important until you love him for who he is...But on the other hand, I don't want no broke ass, uneducated, low-class, car less nigga coming after me...
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