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     | Friday, March 23, 2001 - 01:00 pm My dear brothers and sisters; I am not here to brag about something that I don't have. I am in dilemma as I am in love with two women and I don't really know which one to choose. Each one has her positive elements and it hard to sometimes to distinguish the two of them as they have very close personal manners. Well, now you know why I am in love with both of them. This is the hard part; both girls live here in North America. My family approves one of them, but the not-approved one is kind closer to me in terms of distance. My family is pushing me to marry the one they like and I really want to take my time and see what future has in store for us. I would love time to roll because things may change and it may be easier for me to reach that ultimate decision. This is true story, folks. And again, I am not here to disrespect our sisters whom I give at most respect. Without them, I wonder what life would have been like. But I sometimes wish something like this never existed. Imagine this, I care both of them so much that talking to one of them is like talking to the other one. Both girls are educated, have similar looks and almost same age and both are semi-religious. So, drop me some brotherly advice for me, as that will be greatly appreciated. I know it would have been easier to offer more precise solutions had I given more information, but I am afraid that I can't give more than that as I respect the privacy of these two girls. Much respects to all of you.
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| | Friday, March 23, 2001 - 01:21 pm ini mini myni mo she is it... throw a dice... 1/6 is a good way to choose between number 1 and number 2... Or just piss them both off the same way and see which one deals best with it? You need to device a cunning plan to test their personality... a mental asult course... the winner will have earned her place...
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| | Friday, March 23, 2001 - 02:06 pm Guled hey brother i can imagine that your •••• is really tight.If the two girls are so alike why would your parents care which one you choose.I can not tell you leave this one and take that one cos they all the same.If i were you i will marry both of them.You dont have to let them know.Eventually they will find out.but hey its too late.This is the stage when you have to make your final decision. Stay with the one that stays with you.The one who resist let her go.Cos she dont love you as much as the one who stayed.You will never know if you happen to choose one them now.May be you will choose the wrong one. Think about it.I dont wish to be in your shoes.But when a man dips one leg in a mud,the only way out is to dip the other leg in.I can understand your plight.Iam in a closely related •••• too.I love one bitch and couple of other bitches love me.I can not get the one i love and the others cant get me.It is like a crazy merry-go-round.It is always like that in sex bussiness.A bussinessman has to be in a win win senerio.Keep that in mind as long as you wanna taste the fruit of this trade.The advice iam giving you is one i gave to myself,and iam gonna do just that.Why cauch one cow when you can take the whole herd. PS ladies no offense.Just helping a brother who got caught in a spider web.
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| | Friday, March 23, 2001 - 02:43 pm Guled: I surely would have hated being faced with such an ordeal. Being a living proof of heartache... I hate to disrespect u ...but u r an A$$HOLE...excuse my language... Put urself...in their shoes...Think of it as someone who has played ur heart...coz... if one wins...surely there must be a looser. U had no rite to play those sisters...they trusted u with their inner most treasured gift...which is their heart. U sound like a heartless creature to whom I feel no mercy....I know I am criticizing u...but bro..its the truth...would u like someone to say they loved u ...only to find out that they didn't when u have entrusted ur heart in their palms....My advice to u will be tell them..both of the situation...n let them come up with a solution...I know u mean well...at ur part...but its incredibaly inhuman..to toss around someone's heart. That is just my two cents....U sound like a respectable brother....so act like one...
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| | Friday, March 23, 2001 - 03:09 pm Guled bro, ican feel ur confusion, this is the biggest decision of ur life, it is really hard, my advice to u is to go for the woman who luvs you, as u have said u luv both, but u seem to be ready to give up one of them. And if u dont know who that person is, then u can pray to allah, to show you the person, by praying salaat stakharah, all u do is pray two rakaa's and say a duaa' at the end, and then u see ur answer by a dream or god will make ur decision to be very easy, if ur still not convinced then pray again, and u will see the same results. then uknow, she is the right woman for u. uhave to be committed with it's answer otherwise if u go against it, it's the biggest sin to comit in life. good luck with ur decision. EX file UR a player get ur act together, cus players are loosers, always never get the woman of thier life..
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| | Friday, March 23, 2001 - 03:16 pm dude choose the one who is like "muraya Curry" cuz both of them can't be same are they? if they are send their pic i'll choose one for you ight.....
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| | Friday, March 23, 2001 - 06:07 pm Aliya You are damn right about one thing.That Iam the biggest and the most lousiest looser on the planet.I think i need a prayer.And the one you mentioned comes handy in times of confussion.And there is no better time than now.Iam sure brother guled will agree with me, that,it is about time we need to pray.What i need is a devine solution.But i dont know how to pray the prayer you are talking about.can you please lay it down in such a way, a looser like me could read.And dont forget the final "duaa".I will apreciate if you do that.
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| | Saturday, March 24, 2001 - 01:31 am Guled, we can't control our heart, it is surely separated from our mind.... I don't know how old you are, but my advice to you is to give it time. Remember, you are lucky after all, your heart found love and it is space enough for 2 in there... It is your brain that has to do the dirty job... I wish you good luck! 
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| | Saturday, March 24, 2001 - 10:54 am After hearing Hibo's response...and other stuff she has been spreading all over the place... i am confinced that she like many other female sin this community have little... emotional maturity to restrain from total destruction... she is dumb chased a married man or one with a girl or who was gay... the dude sounded to fishy from the start... what does that tell you hibo... you girls are looking for pufy pesonalitites and fancy typing styles... well you deserve what you got... :-) excellent experience if i may say so... To this dude asking for the advice as to which he should choose... i promise you a result that you will never regret and you will thank me in the future... take some time out from them do not contact either for a week............ women have the shortes loyality span relative to that of men... it is true... that is the reason arabs don't allow them so much unaccompanied activities..... they have little or no loyalty... that is why women are not ever required to show loyalty to any nation.... they move about as they please............ anyway...... give them both sufficient rope.... and see which one hangs herself first...........:-) u know what we men actualy do play games with them then...... i sure love to chase them... chase em... and then when they stop to pay attension i turn right around and pretend i was not following them at all literaly..... ;-)... like i was thought by a master if you don't play em... they play you... and i hate being played ... cuz i got enuf games of my own... the moment i smell a player i...retreat..... anyhow... trust me give em space and see the result fall in your lap.... 
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| | Saturday, March 24, 2001 - 03:24 pm hibo , sis , you are very cold ,and a fanatic feminist.hold your horses sis, cuz the phenomina geedi is facing is not one that only confronts males ,but also females too sis. you don't need to attack the man, but give him an advice. if you don't have an advice ,then don't be harsh on the man. for geedi, i recommend you to choose the one that lives closest to you ,since both are good.for the rest peace ppl
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| | Saturday, March 24, 2001 - 03:33 pm See Hibo, I told you that there are no Romeos left, only game players... Look at edymo here... hehehe! I bet the guy has gotten his heart crushed more than you.... So now we know why men are game players... Well-well-well... how interesting...lol! edymo, why not try to give the man a GOOD advice? His heart might be different than yours...
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| | Saturday, March 24, 2001 - 11:10 pm gul having two woman at same time is common to all guys but the mistake u r doing is loving them u don't love woman. she has to love u and choose the one who loves u so much and tell the other one to go away
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| | Sunday, March 25, 2001 - 03:25 am Anon... man if only you knew... i was the kindest bro any somali girl could ever have... they drained my mind...heart...soul... and then they all walked...right out... ,@16 one girl did everything to get my attention and when i started paying attention to her she went out with my best friend... at ,@17 this girl that wanted me asked her friend to to ask me out for her sake!... the girl only made thing bad between the two of us and then laughed behind our backs... ,@18 i met this girl at a wedding and we were all over each other that whole night... we were the perfect match... i never saw her for a month and i found out she was engaged to a busdriver, i then dated a white girl 6months...... ,@19 i fell for my best friends sister and i had to choose between my mate...my girl... i told her... it would kill him...so i lost her.... ,@20 i fancied this queen sooo.sweeeeeet... she married a guy from Barbadoos.....aarrrrrhhhhhhh.......... ,@21 i wondered between parties life less....... ,@22 spent time smoking heavy......no time for girls.........@23 i met a white girl and i was happy till.....25.... now going to 26 and i am evaluating my choices..... there are girls who say they like me....brarrrrrrR... i don't believe them at all..... i ain't joking..... i only come here to fool around i know they all useless in here and out there... but i ain't running from having conversation with them..... people like HIBO are just loosers who cause a lot of pain... and then cry when it is their turn to fall face down..... Back to the movie! Yes i meant what i said.... test their loyalty!!!
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| | Sunday, March 25, 2001 - 05:49 am my.o.ed man you went through alot.A wise man once said never make a deal with a woman,a devil and a dog.There is this girl i made a deal with.she being beging me to make this deal for long.She even took the Holy Quran in her arms just to prove she was honest about it.And when i fulfilled my side of the bagain she bailed out.She got what she wanted.I was this close losing faith with humanity. Kingmaker I agree with you that the best woman is the one who loves you,not the one whom you love.
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| | Sunday, March 25, 2001 - 06:03 am How you guys have suffered!! LOL! So that gives you the right to be game players?? GROW UP!
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| | Sunday, March 25, 2001 - 11:00 pm I could adopt any nick name and twist and turn any female... that i am sure about... i have the language and the style to do it... i know what it takes... to get a somali girl spinning on her heels... i just don't get anything out of doing it to cybers... and any how i got 6sisters...  so i sure got enough to worry about... cos 4 of them use the bloody net but they promise me they don't use this forum... i think they lying to me... so i will never let myself.... oooooohhhhh.... never even botter thinking like that about anyone in here........ shyte...... i acn afford to cuss em and get away with that... but.... nothing else is acceptable....... 4real this place is hell in disguise.... so carefull... you don't fall for some goofy gal you used to tease at school............ it has happened..... nwo they got 2kids and a socail security cheque...
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| | Monday, March 26, 2001 - 02:53 pm Modey... i always thought your were a girl. i dunno why but i did. sorry. lol te goofy gal n social security cheque hahaha ...are You sure it didn't happen to U bro? Damn bro, U sound like ultra drained... God help U. To the bro with the problem. You can't be telling me that U love them equally, that is just emotionaly impossible. but if you insist choose the one your family want because they'll have some influence in your marrige.. trust me. Everyone is happy and you got nothing to lose. Just be honest with the girls aight. Peace and Love
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| | Monday, March 26, 2001 - 03:33 pm CHOOSE THE ONE THAT YOU THINK ABOUT THE MOST CHOOSE THE ONE THAT MAKES YOU LAUGH CHOOSE THE ONE THAT YOU THINK WILL ALWAYS BE THERE YOU SHOULDN'T EVEN PLAY GIRLS LIKE THAT BUT SEEN YOU DID IT ANYWAYS CHOOSE THE ONE YOUR HEART WANTS.
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| | Monday, March 26, 2001 - 04:28 pm Assalamu Alaikum Bro. you are a heartless creature. Think, how you would feel if you were in their shoes. Would you say she did not want to heart me and that was good enough for me or would you be very upset in being betrayed? Why did you choose to be in this position to start with? Things do not happen unless we chose to make them happen. I am advising to you to tell the truth to both sisters or at least tell one sister the truth. The sooner the better bro.
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