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     | Unrecorded Date l as a somali born in kenya but was raise with all the culture that is posess in somaliland find it difficult to communicating with other somali women, that when they find out my difficultness in not speaking the somali lauguage fluently that they find that as a reason not to associate, but l am wrong in saying that its not the difficultness that u look rather that who he is inside khadar M
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| | Unrecorded Date Khadar You are a confused and confusing man. First you say marriage between Sujuwi and Somali is getting popular and then you say that you are having difficulty snagging a Somali woman. Well, if the whole Sujuwi-Somali thing is so damn popular, how come you are having so much difficulty. If you ask me it is only because you are a bwana pumbavu...lol
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| | Unrecorded Date First of all: Seems to me that the somali language is not the only handicap that you have,,,you can hardly express yourself even in english. Second: marriages between somalis who grew up in somalia and those who grew up in the diapora are not inter-racial,,,,so dont make it sound like somalis who grew up outside somalia be it Saudi Arabia, Europe, or north America are not somalis. just cut the bullshit your problem is more than just a language barrier,,,look in the mirror
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| | Unrecorded Date Man, you guys are cold-blooded even with each other. OK, so maybe his mother tongue is Kiswahili or something. It's obviously not English or Somali. Doesn't mean the guy is an idiot. I'll admit his title doesn't match his theme, but cut the guy some slack. Khadar I recommend you ask some Somali friends to hook you up. Start slow and be nice to the women you do meet. Make sure you keep steady employment (no decent woman wants to hook up with a bumb). If you have any woman friends you might ask them what they think the problem could be. Or if you have sisters, they can offer valuable advice. Tough to tell over the net what's up. I have a friend who's a really good guy and he has the same problem meeting the right woman because he's a shy guy. Good luck Abowe. The right woman is out there. Also recommend you pray to Allah on the subject. Nabad Gelyo.
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| | Unrecorded Date to khadar man oh man first you said sijuwi marrieges are getting popular and then u said that u have a trouble meeting some real somali girls,man do you know what u talking about?if you did ask us how we propably told you but after you don't make sense you better make another title
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| | Unrecorded Date brother is having somekind of disconect with reality Heeeey! maybe that IS his problem. Oooh :(
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| | Unrecorded Date I think what she is trying to say is that marraiges between sujuus and somalis are getting popular and whats to know why she has not find someone yet.
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| | Unrecorded Date First all l would like to take this chance to expressing how suprise l was when l read each one of your messages. People its not that l am having difficult in getting a somalia girl or dating one. The promblem is the way they act around as, in trying to express my self l believe that to find love you have to look beyond the barries. p.s l am man khadar m
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| | Unrecorded Date Salaam ya'll... man this subject was funnnnnny.......the title grapped my attention cuz sometimes pple call me suju too.......but i dont think i am........ Khadar.....brotha dont call ur self suju.....after all.......the somaliis that call u one r the sujus..... I neva heard something like the title of the message but even if it did.....so what brotha....they r all somalis....and muslims......so who cares what da hell comes after that......... And why do girlz act all weird around u......i think cuz they got nothing better to do.....ignore them brotha.....and try to find some betta girlz.....mature enough to act like a female with u......not like a 'doug' na' mean........and i was born and raised in a country otha than somalia.....i have never seen somalia and i dont have difficulty findin' the right man......except that they r mostly idiots..lol.... The other thing is.....i have a friend who is somali but raised in Kenya........i am not lying to u brotha when i sa i loveeeeeeeeeeee the way he speaks in somali........its so sweet and broken like mine.....lol......mine is not that bad though.... To Gorgor Kacay La Mood.....lol@ur name.....u cracked me up dude..... To Mad Mac.........what an advice!!! Now thats what i think u should say.....or just SHUT UP!!! lol peace out
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| | Unrecorded Date HonestGirl: Why are you bothering sis? What the $%#@@^&&%% is wrong with my name? this is harassment, Iamona call the cops.
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| | Unrecorded Date l think l have created a monster around this website and its out of control. Let me make some thing clear for everybody who is interested in the topic that we all are talking about and interested in, When l said that "why is the marriage between somalis and sijuwe are getting popular" that didn't neccesary mean that l was looking for a girl.rather than present the topic to my somalias people and see what there view was, but instead of interesting reply, l was bashed and insulted say that l was the despereate kind who can't find him self a woman and on the other hand some of u were very encouraging. So for all my somalis people please if u don't have a matured understand and behaviour toward the topic that we are discussing then this site is not for u and if we as somali people see our self building our country in the near future ,then only then our understanding has to improve and not be upfront with insult. Then and only then may be somali has a chance to be reborn again. khadar m
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| | Unrecorded Date "Let me make some thing clear for everybody" When l said that "why is the marriage between somalis and sijuwe are getting popular" Yeah, you made clear all right, its as clear as Mud.
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| | Unrecorded Date Guys, I think he means marriages between Somalis who were born outside somalia, e.g, Kenya, Saudi-Arabia, Egypt, America,,(diaspora) and those who were born and raised in Somalia. Personally I think somalis who were born in Somalia tend to think they are "more Somalian" than others, thats is just ignorance on their part. I was born in Saudi-Arabia and spent most of my childhood outside the motherland. But that does not make me less Somali,,,,,get it.
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| | Unrecorded Date Dalmar: Lemme just say that: You are hectoring and presume to know everything, you are fiercely argumentative, you have a chip on your shoulder, you are abrasive and you are nodamic and have been all over the world. Sshit man you are more Somali than any of us who grew up there. You are the jenuwine article bro, no dhawd abawd id.
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| | Unrecorded Date My name is Muriidi, I was born in Shangani and when it comes to Somaliness-I mean pure Somali-the people from Xamar Daye do not include me, they treat me as a foreigner, calling me names, so what do you guys born outside Somalia expect from them. I believe that I am as Somali as the Jack-ass from Bari, Galkacyo or Burhakaba is, and I don't give a damn of what they say. Therefore being Somali doesn't need an approval from anyone, if you are born to Somali parents whether you are born in Mongolia, Japan or Uagadagou, you are a SOMALI>
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| | Unrecorded Date Gal' I do not presume,neither front, I leave those assumptions and labels to self-centred people who cant think beyond the tip of their nose.
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| | Unrecorded Date SAM, take your ignorance out of this site and try to educate your self for change. insult wouldn't take you any where. Khadar m
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| | Unrecorded Date LOL@Muriidi. Man you hit the nail on the head... Somalis are Somalis and they will always be remind as Somalians. Don't give a damn what they say about you(born and raised in somalia(shangani)) or them(born and raised outside somalia). Howereve, dont lose your self-confidence towards your Somaliness.
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| | Unrecorded Date Hi. First of all you'r topic is really confusing, cause you said the marriage between somali sujuwii and somali are getting popular so what is the proplem. second somali sujuwii are somali too bro, is just the same as somali person who born in North America, and that person still is SOMALI.unless you believe somalilands culture of marriage since you said u raised with somaliland culture.Bro relationship is based on honesty, trust, respect, loving and caring . So bro are you?.
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| | Unrecorded Date I am not the only one who cant get the logic of your question !!!!!!
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| | Unrecorded Date Hi everybody. This topic is very inereting first of all, people,,, somalis are somalis no matter where they grow up or born, if you ae somali you r somali, as my self I have some friends who born, Soudi Arabi, Kenya and etc, most of them think they are Saudis, Sewahile etc, But still they are somali. My advice to you Somali's people who are none bron in Somalia, pls Learn your Language and if you have children teach them their mother tonge it is very important. Ilham ........ Somaliallndd Culturee or somaliculture it is a same ••••.....Somalis aare Somalis,,,,,,,,,,,, Bye people
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| | Unrecorded Date deeeee.... I nkow somaliland r somli bro. But they say they different then other somalis, so since KHADAR Topic was very confusing and he said he is somali kenyan who grew up with somaliland culture then I asked him If he believe the somaliland culture of marriege which is: GETTING MARRIED WITH SOMALILAND WOMAN ONLY" And we nkow that is the truth , And I guess I solved Khadars problem, because he did not get back to me. So good luck khadar be who u r and be happy with it. Remember to be honest with u'r gal so their will be NO PROBLEM. ILHAM
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| | Unrecorded Date To Ilham. Hello. i laughted when i read your message, and how stupid you are,because khader's letter is very clear about SOMALILAND culture, which he meant all SOMALIA culture since he's grown up in KENYA so to him SOMALILAND is all SOMALIA which makes sense. you talking nonesence some thing like , trust,respect and caring WHY , even if he's talking the newly found SOMALILAND, other SOMALIA doesn't have that. to deeeee. Ilham mis-understood the matter.
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| | Unrecorded Date TO anonymous First of all I am not stupid may be you are! . We are here to share ideas not disrespect or insult eachother. Khadar's letter was very confusing but one thing he said that was clear is that he grew up with Somaliland culture which we all know he meant NORTHERN PART OF SOMALIA. Second of all I was just telling him that all it takes in realationship is based on trust, honest etc but not cultural diversion or things like that since he was having a hard time with other somali women. So it is you who is not making any sense so get a life or make ur self clear!. Ilham
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| | Unrecorded Date To ilham; i think you are still not getting the point, to me and what he meant any way is very very clear let me ask you what is the SOMALILAND culture can you explain, and even if there is something call SOMALILAND culture, how they could have a culture when the nation (SOMALILAND) is barely 5-6 year's old. sorry no hard feeling i didn't mean to offend you.
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| | Unrecorded Date To anonymous Aboowe! 5-6 years?? give me a break! the Northernpart of Somalia will always be part of Somalia.No matter what . Incase you don't know every part of somalia get their own culture even though we all have the same ways of living.So Dig it down or learn it somali cultures on your own. seems like you are another sujuwi! peace man Ilham
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| | Unrecorded Date To ilham. GIVE ME ONE EXAMPLE OF THAT DIFFERENT CULTURE PLEASE>
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| | Unrecorded Date To:Anonymous Hey, Like I told you LEARN IT YOUR SELF, If you that intersting. Ilham
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| | Unrecorded Date To ILHAM. BECAUSE,SIMPLY THERE ISN"T......
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| | Unrecorded Date To:anonymous Believe me there's alot, and if I start we will never be able to finshe it , thats why I suggested you to learn it your self, you can read books about somalia or you can ask people who know better then both of us ok. and pls donn't say it again there isn't. ilham
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| | Unrecorded Date I would be very glad if you give me the names of the books, any one or if you could just give me a clue or you just tell me one example. for my part i don't really want to finish, until atleast there's a light in the tunnel. if you that UPSET i won't say THERE IS'T. NAME..... not the books about Somalia, but the DIFFERENT cultures, as you urge.
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| | Unrecorded Date Two morons arguing.It is case of two blind people trying to lead one another.Good luck.
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| | Unrecorded Date ahahahaha lol observer
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| | Unrecorded Date To observer: it is a BIG offensive.
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| | Unrecorded Date To;Anonymous Man you dont give up do! Anyways Let me make it easy for you what to ask people since you don't want to read the books. ask the different ways of getting married in a culturel, but Not the religion part becouse ALHAMDULILAH We all have One ,and the Languages too because we think we have one but we dont. By the way why don't u use u'r nick name so we would know if u'r female or male, even females and males are different(joke) Good luck ilham TO: OBSERVER Man share what u know or shut up.....
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| | Unrecorded Date And what do you know fool?I agree with Observer that you are a moron trying to give advice to another moron.
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| | Unrecorded Date Yo Aisha Abdi, Are you by any chance related to Bashir Abdi.
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| | Unrecorded Date To Aisha who r u calling fool? If u don't know how to communicate with people shut u'r dirty mouth UP! for u'r information I know more then u can know.So "it takes one to know one" If u know what I mean .but then again u'r qaxooti u wouldn't know. Ilham
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| | Thursday, June 15, 2000 - 07:02 pm to iHLAN thank u for the warm support that u gave me, as l stated we as somali people must first learn how to listen to each other ,then only then may be we can have a good understanding of life in general
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| | Thursday, June 15, 2000 - 08:51 pm Khadar m You well come bro, I hope u get what you were looking for out of this site**********. "Hey man what happen a cat got your tongue" anyways WELL COME BACK!!!!!!!!!! ILHAM
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| | Sunday, July 02, 2000 - 03:31 am To Khader M.. so what happen to your case.. I mean are u managing to get along with them... i am interest what went right and what went wrong.. as I am as matter of fact indulged my self to sujuwe.. To Ilham.. Hello. I am still trying to study the culture.. by the way as you ask i am a bro...... peace.
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| | Saturday, November 18, 2000 - 05:11 pm Any one intrested in getting to know a descent,kind and honest to top up religous sujuwi brother who is seeking for a woman with the above qualities, im 29 yrs old and is intrested in a woman about the same age or less. to get to know me better pls contact me on mganda29@hotmail.com for a private and confidential dialogue.only interested need write to me inshaallah. wassalaamallaykum
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