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SomaliNet Forum (Archive): General Discusions: Archive (Before Sept. 29, 2000): THE EX
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Anonymous

Friday, September 15, 2000 - 06:01 pm
I Really need help so please hear me out am in love with a guy who was already married and has a kid.
we love each other a lot but the Ex is always there. I have tried to be cool and •••• but nothing is working so I decided to leave him we have been through a lot together as a couple and was about to marrie him but I couldn't because of the situation the Ex kept giving us like
1-ALWAYS PHONING HIM
2-NEVER LETTING HIM SEE HIS GIRL
3-ALWAYS AT HIS MOTHERS HOUSE
4-TELLING HIS FAMILY SHE WANTS HIM BACK
so I did what I thought was right and broke up with him.
Now am missing him like crazy he used to phone all the time asking me back but I always said no because I didn't want to be in the same situation and I wanted to save a lot of heart ace so I moved to anther state with out telling him now I cant get him out of my mind. (What IF) I am thinking now i wanna go back to him what you all think pls help me out because Friends and Family just don't understand.
PEACE 1LOVE A FRIEND IN NEED

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Anonymous

Friday, September 15, 2000 - 06:08 pm
call jerry springer show!!!We'd love to see some ass kicking!And tell old dirty jerry....Go Jerry! go jerry!...Go Jerry!

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AmiSTadgirl

Saturday, September 16, 2000 - 05:07 am
Asalaamu calaykum all

2nd.Annonymous if u can't say anything, then don't even bother. This doesn't apply to u, but I seen ppl do that alot.

1st. Annonymous girl, I wish I could give u advise but I would have suggest u move on. If not tell him how u feel. See if things could work it out. You know talk things over, that always resolve's the proplem. If u think he's the one for u, go for it. If not as U already know..Just don't look behind and focus on other things..Move on with ur life......

P.S even thought this might not be a good advise, thats all I could say it to u right now. PEace

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Anonymous

Saturday, September 16, 2000 - 06:07 am
this is definitely one of the jenny Jones shows.

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ab

Saturday, September 16, 2000 - 07:02 am
no point of you going back to that guy. period.
don't let yourself caught into moment. here are some tips.

1-Don't move back to his State(very important).
2-Decide on weekly basis and make sure that this week you don't call him. then to samething to next week. then the same.. it will be a month and you will be glad that you didn't hear from him a WHOLE MONTH. Good!
3-get involved into local guys in your new state. accept even some dates that you don't like--just to pass the time. the point is get busy. and never feel lonely.


if you do tips + others, you will find yourself feeling normal--no more love.

ab

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Anonymous

Saturday, September 16, 2000 - 02:27 pm
thanks a lot sisters I am going to try and move on
I just want to say if anyone gets in this kind of dilama pls trust me it ain't worth it.
I guess I learned the hard way
1love