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     | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 02:19 am i am 22 female,i have a marketing degree and i am currently working.i have a wonderfull career and i am also a medical student which this is my 3rd year.i want to get married and have children but my mother says otherwise.she want me to finish medical school and i dont know if i can wait.everytime i bring up the marriage subject she starts about how she didnt have the chance i have to better myself.i think she want me to make her dreams happen but at my cost. of all the degrees i have and the school i would give it up to have a family and a wonder husband of my owen. am i selfish for this,am i selifish to want to love and be loved for eternity.i am afraid of loosing my mother but i am also afraid of been alone for the rest of my life. in about a year i will start my resident in africa and i will be gone for three years when i return i go back to school for 2 more years of tropical diseases spacialist.i dont want to wait 5 yrs to love someone. please give me ur advise i really need it. please dont get me wrong i love my mom dearly and i wouldnt be here if it wasnt for her courage. yours lonelyheart p.s.thx in advance
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| | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 02:46 am Hi Lonelyheart, First of all, let me tell you something, you are not the only one who has faced such a problem. I do know many many girls who have been subjected to such an ordeal. Secondly, you are just 22yrs old. The future lies infront of you to love and beloved one day insha-allah. Thirdly, i think you don't have to give up one thing to gain another. I think you can still go to your school and pursue your studies and get married and have your own family. But my question is DO YOU HAVE THAT PARTNER THAT WILL SHARE WITH YOU EVERYTHING ALL THE TIME...GOOD OR BAD? If you do, then, go ahead and marry him sister, in Islam early marriage is advised because it prevents people from doing sins. If you are still looking for mr right, then don't confuse yourself. Keep on working and pursuing your education.And i hope oneday, insha-allah, you will find your soulmate. My future Dr Lonelyheart, always try to diversify your portfolio! Don't stick just to ONE option. Best of Luck :-)
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| | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 03:13 am my dear idea, i must say u are the kindest person i have ever seen on this forum.thank u. to answer your question....no i dont have that person yet but i am still searching like most ppl here for my soulmate.the reason i want to marry early is i dont want later on someone to marry me for my success but instead for my kind heart and the person i am.regardless of whether i marry or not i will prusue with my education,i have come so far to leave it now.but why cant i do both,be in school,have a career,be the best mom,wife,daughter,sister and yet be happy.i thought women could be anything they wanted to be as long as they had the strenght to fight and to know what they desired the most. am i wrong? yours lonelyheart
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| | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 04:14 am Hi Lonelyheart, "i must say you are the kindest person i have ever seen in this forum.thank you" Thank you my dear. "no i dont have that person yet but i am still searching" Okay, good luck sister. But can i give you an advise. Please while doing your searching,remind yourself that your soulmate must be of the religious type. Sis, i believe that the man that fears Allah will fear Allah in you and live happily ever after, insha-allah. "the reason i want to marry early is i don't want later on someone to marry me for my success but instead for my kind heart and the person i am" Well, sister i pray from Allah that He guides you to what you deserve,amiin. As long as you are a good muslim person that fears Allah, Allah will insha-allah send you the man you deserve. And when that happens protect your gift(your husband) and be a good wife. "but why can't i do both be in school, have a career, be the best mom, wife, daughter, sister and yet be happy. i thought women could be anything they wanted to be as long as they had the strenght to fight and to know what they desired the most...am i wrong?" No, you are 100% right. You can do all that and more. But don't rush yourself, take your time and hope for the best. Don't you ever settle for less, good luck once more. your sister Idea.
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| | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 06:58 am Dear Lonelyheart, I thought it would be a good thing to hear from the opposite sex as well. I'm a male and I've read your article with great interest. First, I congratulate you on your educational achievements so far. I urge you to continue from there. Remember, once you stop learning you stop growing. Secondly, I'm sincerely touched by your sensitivity towards your mum's feelings. I'm sure she is very proud of you and she should be so. Having said that, I believe there's nothing wrong in getting married while you're going to school. However, there're other things that need to be considered as well. For instance, what will you do if you become pregnant and you'll have to choose between your education and your family? Are you prepared to pay that price? These're serious things that cannot be undone once they happen. As such, I believe your mum has a point regarding this. On the other hand, it seems she's blinded by her past. She wants you to achieve things she couldn't achieve. That's perfectly alright 'cause parents always wish their children to excel everyone else. However, that philosophy neglects the human inner feelings. Infact, it doesn't add into the equation other human needs that also matter. Indeed, we want to love and to be loved, we want to share our lives with a person of the opposite sex, and so forth. Life is not only about achievements but also about living life. I wish I could write something that would solve your problem right away. But not knowing all the facts about your situation prevents me from doing so. I would like to conclude by wishing you good luck in your pursuit of happiness and success. I hope your ties with your mum grows stronger and you'll work out some plan that is suitable to both of you. P.S., If you've further questions regarding this, you can either write here at this forum or you can e-mail me to bulsho30@hotmail.com.
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| | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 07:31 am LIAR LIAR LIAR LIAR BITCH HOW CAN YOU HAVE A MARKETING DEGREE AND A THREE YEAR MEDICAL CONTINUOS EDUCATION??? AND ONLY 22? BITCH...YOU KNOW HOW I AM SURE YOU ARE A LIAR? BECAUSE IF YOU HAD ANY TYPE OF DEGREE YOU WOULD NOT WASTE TIME WHINNING AND BITCHING ABOUT SOMEONE TO LOVE YOU OR TO BE KIND TO YOU.YOU KNOW WHAT? THE WORLD OUT THERE IS NOT BUILT LIKE DAT,BITCH I AM THE WORLD AND I AM TELLING YOU...GO KILL YOURSELF THATS AN OPTION.DuH?
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| | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 09:53 am Lonelyheart..i must agree partially with DUH..you can't have a marketing degree and be in a medical school. Last time i checked there weren't teaching BIOLOGY in marekting programs. Were they!? anwaazz...assuming that there is a lady in your situation, there is a simple solution. If you want a husband cuz you get horny a lot and you can't commit sinful act(according to some people's standards..which i don't agree), then, get married, have the wildest sex and continue being a student...but, my advise to you is use pills or other contraceptive methods so that you can delay having a baby and enjoy the husband and at the same go to your classes...and don't forget hitting the gym to keep yourself lean and sexy. Then, once, you and your lucky husband think you saved enough money, advanced your career and ready for a baby...have the baby. DAmnnn...did i have to bring up my genuis to give the simplest solution on earth. peace out. next time, i won't bother advising you unless you have a genuine situation that deserve my brain. SHAKAZULU
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| | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 01:10 pm shakazulu and duh (u asked for this)yes i have a marketing degree three years of medical and i am proud to be 22.i got out of hight school 1995 i graduated with honours at st.austin's academy.i got i scholarship and went to unversity of toronto where i did my undergraduate in business and my premed. then in 1997 i transfered to univerity of washington where i did my marketing and my medical.now if u give me a fax number or and adress and fax or mail the script.my whole life as far as i can remember i was either studying or playing soccer.so duh please go back to esl and learn how to speak kindly and stop calling me names as i far i know u are in my ignorant list so get out of my system. to the lady who said go to gym,sis i have enough apps to last me till i am 40 and i am very active,i swim for my school and play soccer on the weekends.i am not horny i just need someone to share my life with and i am hoping that is not wrong.ooo and duh i considered sucide once.....u know when that was? when i saw ur name.... ideal sis thank soo much for all the kind words and i promise i shall take my time,sis u nice. my dear ananymous......i know the prizes i have to pay when i am planning on been a student and a wife.i have 1 year b4 i start my resident and i was hoping the person i marry would hold the kids for that year.after that i can have children and there would be no interfering with my school. my whole life i hve been a student doing what made my mom and family happy.the reason i choose marketing was i love it the reason i went to medical was my mother.when i saw her eyes the day the acceptance came,i couldnt let her down.after everything she has done for me this was the list i could do.i admit it was hard at the starting with no majours at the same time.there many times i wanted to give up but she wouldnt let me.i love her too much to dissapoint her but i need a life walaalo. with the right man,a plan,and compromising i believe i can achieve anything but i am not strong enough yet to tell my mom that(she would kill me)her ideal perfect lady gets married at 29 to 30 years old.my worst fear is been 30 and alone. my sister wanted to get married she is 24,she met the right guy the both graduated college they were together for 3 yrs.one day my hard headed sis brought the guy home.....ooo my lord my mom almost had a heartattack.the guy was almost killed and my sis.....well u can guess. so i am afraid if i bring a guy home.....i will be dead next day and the last thing i would want to do is upset her. u asked me if i get pregnant while in school what i would do? well i would continue with my classes till i am 9 months pregnant then after a momth of delivering the child i would go back to school and in meanwhile study from home.they have those sort of programs at my school. well i would love to hear more. yours lonelyheart
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| | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 02:24 pm Hey Lonelyheart..what's your point now? are you looking Mr right?If yes, leave you E-mail here,we ll contact you,otherwise good luck with your study.Bye bye.
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| | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 07:55 pm anonymous here is my email address lonelyheart208@hotmail.com
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| | Monday, January 22, 2001 - 05:38 am HI LONELYHEART, CONGRATULATION FOR ALL YOUR STUDIES. BUT HAVE SOME QUESTIONS THAT DON'T MATCH. FIRST OF ALL I'M A SISTA 21 YEARS OLD, GRADUATED FROM HIGHSCHOOL AT AGE 17 WITH HONOURS, WENT TO COLLEGE FOR COMPUTER PRGRAMMING FOR 3 YEARS, NOW IN MY SECOND YEAR IN UNIVERSITY OF WATERLOO, PERSUING MY PHD IN COMPUTER SCIENCE. FIRST OF ALL EVERYONE WANTS A FAMILY, AND A PARTNER TO SHARE THEIR LIFE WITH. BUT RUSHING TO GET MARRIED FOR WHATEVER REASON YOU HAVE, IS YOUR CHOICE, YOUR MOTHER ONLY WANTS WHAT'S BEST FOR YOU IN LIFE. FOR ME MARRIAGE IS NOT AN EASY THING. IT'S A LIFETIME COMMITMENT, AND YOU GOT TO MAKE SURE THAT THE PERSON YOU ARE MARYING IS THE ONE YOU LOVE (TRUE LOVE). I'M NOT IN A RUSH TO GET MARRIED, I STILL HAVE MY FUTURE A HEAD OF ME. I DON'T KNOW WHAT THE FUTURE HAS INSTALL FOR ME. ALLAH MADE SOMEONE FOR EVERYONE IN LIFE, YOU WILL FIND THAT ONE WHEN IT WAS MENT TO, BUT TRY TO LOOK FOR IT, WILL GET YOU NO WHERE. JUST PLEASE DON'T DO IT, BECAUSE YOU WANT INTAMACY. I'M NOT SAYING TO GO OUT AND GET LAID, BUT DON'T GET MARRIED FOR THAT REASON (WHICH A LOT OF SISTA DO). TRY TO DATE PEOPLE, I MEAN DON'T HAVE TO GET PHYSICAL, BUT GO OUT FOR MOVIES, DINNER, ETC. IF YOUR MOTHER DOESN'T APPROVE OF THAT (WHICH MAYBE IS THE CAUSE) INTRODUCE THE GUY, AS JUST FRIEND. ALSO YOU ARE AN EDUCATED GIRL, DON'T PUT YOURSELF LOW, TRY TO HANG AROUND WITH PEOPLE WHO HAVE THE SAME BELIEFS AND EDUCATION LIKE YOU. (TRUST ME IF YOU HANG AROUND WITH PEOPLE, WHO ARE MARRIED,SINGLE MOTHERS ETC, THEY MAY TELL YOU WHY YOU ARE NOT MARRIED, YOU ARE NOT GETTING YOUNGER, AND ETC.) DON'T THINK THAT IF YOU HAVE TOO MUCH EDUCATION, NO SOMALI GUY WILL WANT YOU. THAT IS NOT TRUE, AND A LOT OF BROTHERS WILL AGREE WITH ME. THESE DAYS MEN ARE NOT LOOKING FOR A HOUSEWIFE, BUT A PARTNER, WHO IS SMART, HAS EDUCATION, WORKS, HAS MONEY, HER OWN CAR, HER OWN PLACE ETC. TRUST ME ON THIS GIRL. I'VE BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A GUY FOR 3 YEARS.(WE ARE NOT TOGETHER NOW, HE WANTED TO GET MARRIED, BUT I WASN'T READY AT THE MOMENT, BUT WE ARE STILL THE BEST OF FRIENDS  ) YOU MAY SAY WHAT WAS I WAITING FOR. WELL HE GOT HIS DEGREES, HIS EDUCATION, HAS HIS OWN BUSINESS ETC. BUT IF I WOULD HAVE MARRIED HIM WHEN I FIRST MET HIM. I WOULDN'T HAVE GONE TO COLLEGE, UNIVERSITY, WOULDN'T HAVE MY OWN PLACE, MY OWN CAR, WORK, ETC. I HAD TO DO IT MYSELF, HAD TO PROVE TO MYSELF THAT I DON'T HAVE TO DEPEND ON ANYONE IN LIFE, BUT MYSELF. TRUST ME GIRL, YOU WILL BE AMAZED HOW A MAN WILL RESPECT YOU MORE WHEN YOU ARE INDEPENDENT, THEN IF YOU'RE NOT. ALL I KNOW I BLABED TOO MUCH, BUT I DON'T WANT YOU TO REGRET LATER ON, I KNOW THAT YOU WANT TO GET MARRIED, IF THAT'S WHAT YOU TRULY WANT, THEN GO FOR IT, BUT PLEASE FINISH YOUR EDUCATION FIRST, I KNOW THAT YOU CAN STILL DO IT WHEN YOU ARE MARRIED, BUT IT WON'T BE EASY. AND YOU MUST HAVE A PARTNER WHO IS VERY UNDERSTANDING AND WILL HELP YOU THREW THIS (WHICH ARE NOT THAT MANY MEN OUTHERE THAT WOULD DO THAT, TRUST ME ON THIS). BESIDE THERE ARE SO MANY INTELLIGENT, EDUCATED, SMART BROTHERS OUT THERE THAT WOULDN'T MIND MEETING OR JUST TALKING TO YOU. WELL I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST IN LIFE. AND MAY ALLAH BE WITH YOU IN WHATEVER DECISION YOU WOULD MAKE. TAKE CARE IF YOU WANT TO CONTACT ME AT cleopetrasxy@yahoo.com
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| | Monday, January 22, 2001 - 03:25 pm sis, i would say listen to your mother, and get all your degrees. When U reach the age 26, which is the best time/year for searching soul mates start doing so. In my Opinion U are still young for marriage and kids. Wait till U are 28, and get married.
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| | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 05:25 am lonelyheart- hmmmmmmmmm! i have serious issues with all the claims you make. 1st: never heard of a pre-med and marketing majors taken simultaneously! With all the credit hours needed to take a pre-med degree, you don't have enough electives left over to have a double major. 2nd- The math is wrong- let us assume you took your degrees consecutively- that would make you 15 when you started college. 3rd- Let us assume, you are a genius- that has a double degreee and is about to start her internship. The "logic" in your writing does not support this assumption. Here is what I think you are: A not-so-smart MAN! Did you think we just fell off the banana truck?
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| | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 06:26 am Why can't you guys just beleive what the girl says? Why do you have to look for logical flaws in her writing? Just beleive her and help her if she is looking for help..... If she is lying that's her problem.Just do your duty which is to help her if she is asking for it...
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| | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 08:15 am We hate being taken for fools-
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| | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 10:45 am I like what cleopetrasxy wrote, Now there is a smart girl. No disrespect lonelyheart, but damn girl, you think were stupid?? Comon give us a credit, As AmazonXX said, damn right. Anyways, can I email you cleo pllzzzz
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| | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 11:29 am I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you I love you cleopetrasxy, where have you been all my life. I want to marry you pleasee
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| | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 11:42 am MY DEAR CLEO, FOR SOME REASON I KNOW MY DEAREST MOM IS RIGHT,SHE ALWAYS WANTS WHAT IS BEST FOR ME. I DO DATE SIS.I WAS IN REALATIONSHIP FOR 2 AND HALF YEARS.HE WAS NICE,EDUCATED,AND TRIED TO MAKE ME HAPPY.BUT WE HAD ISSUES ABOUT SPENDING TIME TOGETHER.WE ALWAYS FAUGHT.EVERY WORD WAS AN ARGUEMENT AND I HATED BEEN IN THAT POSTION. MOST OF MY FRIENDS ARE SUCCESSFULL,THOSE I MET HERE AND THE ONE'S FROM MY PAST ARE NOT.MOST OF THEM ARE MARRIED AND YOU ARE RIGHT IN THEM TELLING ME WHAT I AM WAITING FOR.I FEEL SAD WHEN I SEE THEIR CHILDREN RUNNING TO THEM AND CALLING THEM MOM.TO BE HONEST SOMETIMES I FEEL LIKE THEY ACCOMPLISHED MORETHAN ME AND FACTILY THEY DID. NO MATTER HOW FAR YOUR EDUCATION WISE GOES YOU ARE ALWAYS A MOTHER AND A WIFE.WE WERE CREATED FOR THAT IF WE LOOK AT OUR CULTURE AND OUR MOTHERS. I ALREADY BOUGHT THE CAR OF MY DREAMS HOWEVER I STILL LIVE WITH MY MOM AND WE OWEN OUR HOUSE.NO MATTER HOW OLD I GOT I DONT THINK SHE WOULD LET ME MOVE OUT.SHE IS VERY OVER PROTECTIVE OF ME.EVEN THOUGH I THOUGHT ABOUT MOVING TO ANOTHER STATE,I HAD NO CHANCE IN AGRUEING MY ALLIGATIONS AND I HAD TO DROP THE SUBJECT. SIS,I AM NOT SAYING I WANT TO GET MARRIED NOW,NOOO I AM WITING FOR THE RIGHT ONE TO ARRIVE AND TAKE TIME KNOWING HIM AND MAKING SURE HE IS THE ONE.WHEN I SHALL GET MARRIED IT WILL BE BECAUSE I CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT HIM BY MY SIDE,TO HOLD ME IN HIS ARMS AND TO LOVE ME FOR ETERNITY. IF U READ MY POEMS,YOU WILL NOTICE ALL I WRITE ABOUT IS LOVE AND SOULMATES,I WANT THE LOVE THAT I IMAGINE IN MY POEMS AND I KNOW THAT WILL TAKE AWHILE B4 I FIND IT BUT I HAVE ALL THE PATIENCE IN THE WORLD. I WILL EMAIL U SIS TO HAVE THIS DISCUSSION FURTHER.THANK YOU FOR YOUR WONDERFULL ADVISES. SULKHA.........IF I DIDNT KNOW BETTER I WOULD ASSUME YOU WERE MY MOM OR RELATED TO HER. I KNOW MY MOM IS ALWAYS RIGHT.IF SHE WASNT I WOULDNT BE HERE AT MOMENT.I LOVE HER TO DEATH AND ADMIRE HER STRENGHT. I WILL MARRY WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT SIS (INSHA ALLAH) AMAZON BRO/SIS I DIDNT ASK U TO JUDGE AND IF U ARE SOO SMART WHY DONT U TELL US HOW MANY YEARS MARKETING IS? DONT BLAST UR HEAD I WILL TELL U, 2 YEARS I TOOKE THE ASSOCIATE,I AM STILL CONSIDERING TO TAKE IT TO MASTERS WHEN I GET ENOUGH TIME BUT FOR NOW IT'S ENOUGH. PRE MEDICAL IS CLASSES YOU MUST TAKE B4 YOU START MEDICAL SCHOOL ESPCIALLY WHEN YOU GRADUATED FROM A OUTSIDE HIGH SCHOOL SUCH AS MY CASE. I AM NOT GOING TO EXPLAIN WHY OR HOW I GET TO WHERE I AM ,THANKS TO ALLAH.HOWEVER I WOULD APPERCIATE IF U DIDNT JUDGE IF U DONT BELIEVE IT DONT BOTHER COMMENTING ON IT JUST IGNORE IT. I DIDNT POST THIS FOR AN ARGUEMENT BUT INSTEAD I ASKED FOR AN ADVISE BRO WHICH CLEARLY U DONT KNOW THE DIFFERENCE. OOO AND BY THE WAY I TURN 23 IN 3 DAYS SO I HOPE U GUYS WILL BE KIND ENOUGH TO WISH ME A HAPPY BIRTHDAY. OO AND AMAZON I WOULD LOVE TO PROVE U WRONG IF U GIVE ME A FAX NUMBER I WILL HONESTLY FAX U ALL THAT U NEED.NOT THAT I FEEL I AM OBLIGATED TO PROVE U ANYTHING.BRO,WITH A DETERMINATION,A STRONG MOTHER,AND A SOLID BACKGROUND EDUCATION WISE ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE. DONT JUDGE BUT JUST BE SUPPORTIVE. YASIN THX BRO. OOO AND CLEAO SIS IF U GET A TIME B4 ME U CAN ALWAYS EMAIL ME AT LONELYHEART28@HOTMAIL.COM OR NABIHA87@HOTMAIL.COM YOUR SIS LONELYHEART
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| | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 12:41 pm Heey Cleopatra u put it soo beautifully sis, but did't leave anything for me.. Sis, lonely heart you know i felt exactly how you feel sis.... But follow cleo's advice and your sorted.. good luck hon.. P.S i am proud to see sisters doing for them selfs - you go girls. Peace , Love and Happiness.
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| | Wednesday, January 24, 2001 - 04:00 am lonelyheart- you are not a woman! no! no! no! No educated woman would write what you wrote- "we are only made for being a mother and a wife" What kind of crap is that! An associate degree? is that what you call a degree. You asked for us to judge you when you started writing that nonsense! And if you really were a medical student as you put it- you would know that I am a woman. Basic science: XX= girl XY= boy you are a liar. what do you really want?
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| | Wednesday, January 24, 2001 - 07:31 am U Know What I Think U Should Do L.H If Any1 Cares I Think That U Should RelaX StudY As Hell ...And Pray To AllaH That U get MarrieD To A Wonderfull Muslim Man That Iz Good Enough For U And( KlapKlap) For Your Great EducatIon .I'll Tell Ya Something... Your Mother Went to whereva You Live To Give U And Yo Sista's ,Bro''s(if ya have any)A Live Full Off Opertunaties(?howeva u write it)And Education....And U Should Be Damn Thankfull For That...Besides Lets Say You Get Married Drop Yo Education Have Wonderfull Kids etc...Don't Ya Think That U Would Want Them To have A Great Education And Marrie Later....But Your First Problem Iz...U need A Man (Unless Your Gay(joke)) Maybe You Will Find A Fine Brotha Who U Saw In Yo Classes Or Somethin Who Is Also Studying Medecin.(Zero Chance But Okay.(Joke).)Am KInda Laughing....Besides Every Girl Is Looking For A Wonderfull Husband Well Good Luck Girlz And Control Those Men.....So The Only Usefull Advice I gave Iz PRAY... Salut
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| | Wednesday, January 24, 2001 - 09:11 am Lonelyheart. Hi there !! I am not quite sure if the so-called name *Lonelyheart* should stand as an actual name on it's own, and also wonder if a person with such an academic achievement should choose such artificially interconnected words as an identity. Secondly in theory Ur age and the statement claiming that U are being academically active which i am very proud of U, but only if that is the case. If, however ppl finish high school at the age of 17-18, what is the age of a person obtaining his/her first undergraduate degree, assuming that an average university degree takes about 4yrs. Use simple X and Y equations. By the time u solve this problem U will be 22yrs. If U continue to solve the next problem, U will be 25yrs by the time U are third year in medical degree, and to make the equation look rather bizarre U will hit the 30 soon after. No further comments""" Hope the external examiner don't see this question.,
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| | Wednesday, January 24, 2001 - 09:39 am I wonder how in the world does she get the time,,,,,to be on line all the time,,,,,,,and study at the same time,,,,,,,I think u are just a pretender coz,,,,,,,a real student doesn't has a time to explore the computer and be on line,,,, God she is one of those computer aragis,,this is for the so called lonelyheart.
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| | Wednesday, January 24, 2001 - 10:01 am Why r u guys hatin' on the girl for god's sake......r u that jealous or somethin'.....if she said she has all those degrees there is no way u can prove her wrong so just deal with it and stop hatin'........the girl asked for advice not ur stupid comments abouther lying....... my goodness u pple r weird walaahi......instead of congradulatin' her, u accusin' her of lying......wake up pple......and stop hating!!! lonlyheart......girl i'm very proud of u.....keep up the good work.........and if u really r into gettin' married sis find the right guy that suits u best first....then talk to ur mother......tell her how u feel......i'm sure she's educated enough to understand where u comin' from....... i wish u nothin' but good luck sweety...... adios
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| | Thursday, January 25, 2001 - 08:54 am Hi Everyone First of my Name is Mr Law coz i what do i do for live ok.. i just finshe my law degrees it hard anlway just wnat to say if the sis say she get all them degrees so what i don't give sh*** . I would like say that i am Law and best law money can buy if u need law well just talk my bussing card and give ring ok i work £500 in hour why coz i am i have law agrees master agreen HND, more that make the best law so Lonelyheart, i see u need law for life coz u have mum that try run ur life and there stupid ppl try to put u down coz there want be like u sis . lololol guss we have idel u get money i am qualify Law sis are real coz will get ur rightiys ok sis..just call Mr Law ok if onther unqualify ppl need law get money then call me ok lolo on 0202m 454 787 ok ppl bye
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| | Thursday, January 25, 2001 - 10:48 am HI LONELYHEART; I SEE YOU'RE GETTING QUITE THE COMMENTS IT REALLY DOESN'T MATTER. AND AS I TOLD YOU BEFORE. JUST KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING. AS YOU SAID IT, WE DO NEED A MAN (FAMILY ETC) BUT THAT SHOULDN'T BE THE ONLY PRIORITY. SWEETY, YOU ARE INTELLIGENT, SMART, INDEPENDENT GIRL, AND I CAN FEEL YOU, SAYING YOUR MOM IS OVERPROTECTIVE. OBVIOUSLY SHE SAW A LOT OF GOOD QUALITIES IN YOU WHICH I BELIEVE IS TRUE I'M GLAD TO HEAR THAT, YOU WILL NOT RUSH INTO MARRIAGE (YOU ARE DEFINATELY IN GOOD PATH) I HOPE YOU ALL THE BEST IN LIFE. I ALSO WISH THAT YOUR MOM UNDERSTAND WHERE YOU COMMING FROM TOO. (SHOULD GIVE YOU YOUR SPACE ETC. YOU ARE A YOUNG WOMAN AFTER ALL) REMEBER THIS LONELYHEART--- THE MORE SUCCESSFUL YOU ARE, THE MORE PEOPLE THAT ARE JELOUS AND PLAIN HATERS YOU GET. TO EVERYONE ELSE I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST IN LIFE AND MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU ALL
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| | Thursday, January 25, 2001 - 11:04 am lol@Mr. Law..... u want her to TALK ur business card!!!!! waa isceebeeysay saaxiib!!!!
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| | Thursday, January 25, 2001 - 11:28 am Listen Sis, Your mother has the best advise for you - finish your education now while you are young. If you dont you will regret it later especially if your marriage doesnt work out. However it is better to get married now than to sin. So if you feel like you just got to do the do and have a man it is better not to sin.
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