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Abdi

Monday, March 26, 2001 - 04:35 am
Dear Brothers,
I have seen more and more brothers who choose not to have Somali wives or girlfriends. Our society seems to malign us. We are subject to insults and name calling. Why does our personal choice of whom we want to share our lives have to be an issue for the Somali community to talk about ?
I am engaged to a Korean woman whom I have been dating for the past 4 years. She is a sweet woman whom I deeply love. She is love with Somali culture and its people. Apparently she does not know that Somali people don't like mixed relationships. I have kept that fact from her and only introduce her to family members and friends who are open minded.
I know that there are a lot of brothers like me out there. So please drop a line.

Abdi.

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USAMA BIN-JAMAC

Monday, March 26, 2001 - 04:45 am
BROTHER DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO PLAIN AND SIMPLE.
I'M ALSO IN LOVE WITH A BEAUTIFUL JAPANESS GIRL WHO LOVES TO DEATH, AND WILL DO ANYTHING FOR ME ANYTIME ANYWHERE LIKE:
1- GIVES ME MEASSAGE WHEN I COME BACK FROM WORK.
2- THE DINNER IS SERVED ASP.
3- NO ARGUING
4- SEX IS GREAT INCLUDING (BLOW JOB)(ANAL)(FULL FACIAL)
5- SOMETIMES SHE EVEN LET ME BEAT ON HER WITHOUT CALLING 911.

SO ALL I HAVE TO SAY IS GREAT CHOISE....

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salaan

Monday, March 26, 2001 - 05:30 am
Dear brothers Usama and Abdi

Thank god am not alone in this,I have recently begin to date a beautiful young white woman she adores me and our relationship is OK,I always wanted to date and marry a Somali sister it was my dream since childhood,but unfortunately dreams don't always come true,some of my friends are married to or dating ajnabi women and they seem pretty happier than the others who are married to somali ladies? they tend to be leading an unhappy marriage life due to the lack of communication in the house the wives harsh attitudes towards their husbands,Oneday I was in my friends house when his beloved wife decided to kick him out to the curb,I tried to mediate between them but it didnt work that woman used every possible insultive word you can think of,it was then when I had a good rethinking about marring a somali woman,Anyway I gave up and started to date ajnabi women and I must admit the results were quiet not what I have been expecting these women seemed to be easy going.I'm currently dating this wonderful girl who works as a state legislator she earns five figures,owns her own house,loves me for who I'm not what I have,she listens to me,I think its a misconception that we have about white women when we label them as feminists or anti-men its not true, this young lady is obedient,down to earth,am teaching her about Islam and she seems very interested she introduced me to her whole family,even though she is not Somali but I think I have just found the love of my life sweet "Amber'.

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BLACKRAP

Monday, March 26, 2001 - 07:25 am
Yo! Blackrap have the same problem, I love foreign,(somalian women) so if you don't want them Blackrap will take them son. Don't be a hater. And most of the somalian women I deal with say the same thing,they won't marry somalian men. That's cool with me. Your lost.

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JAMA

Monday, March 26, 2001 - 02:33 pm
WELL, I'M AMAZE WHAT WE FIND THE AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL. IF WE ARE NOT PATIENCE WITH EACH OTHER TO RESOLVE OUR PROBLEMS, WHO IS OUGHT TO BE? I TOO DISTANCE MYSELF FROM OUR BEAUTIFUL LADIES (QUEENS OF HORN OF AFRICA). BUT STILL I RE-EVALUATE THE CHOICE I MAKE WILL INDEED DICTATE THE AFFECT IT PRESENTS. I KNOW OUR LADIES MIGHT SOMETIMES BE TOO MUCH BUT OUR EXCUSE IS A LAME TO WONDER ON THEIR BACKS. ALREADY, I HAVE SEEN THE SOME OF MY FAMILY MEMBER MARRIAGE WITH FOREIGNERS AND THEIR RELATIONSHIP WITH THEIR SPOUSE IS GREAT. NOT TO SAY, IT IS A APPEALING AND ONE TO LOOK FORWARD TO.


FOR THE LADIES OUT THERE PRESENT YOUR CASE AGAINST THE BRO TO PROVE THEM WRONG. AND HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT THEIR CLAIM THAT QUOTE WE SHOULDN'T LOOK FORWARD TO SOMALI LADIES?

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Somali-sis

Monday, March 26, 2001 - 02:46 pm
Abdi,
you r right.we girls have same problems with somali brothers too.
i kept on dating somali bros but never found anyone who i really like.finally i decided to give a try to foriegner men.guess what,it was heaven even though i never thought ending with foriegner before but now i know how wrong i was.
my man is white,he is the best.he is everything i ever dreamed of.he is always there for me,understanding,loving and caring and never lies opposite of somali men.he is professional and encourages me always to persue my career which i never found any somali guy,they were discouraging.
i just cant imagine how lucky i am now.so brothers marry whoever your heart desires,so the girls.may be this is best solutions for somalis who dont get along.

PEACE

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saltyman

Monday, March 26, 2001 - 05:34 pm
somali sis cut the crap

we all know no one else but lazy jamaicans and black americans go for your mutilated •••••

say again white loooooooool you made me laugh I have never seen a somali sis with a white manlol

try again:)

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jaber

Tuesday, March 27, 2001 - 12:33 am
finally some somalimen with common sense

I salute you bunch

run away from mutilated pussies ..I made the same decision six years ago and I've never been happier in my life

I'm glad to see more and more somalimen waking up and smelling the stinking fish


run for your lives

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lady

Tuesday, March 27, 2001 - 02:03 am
hey jaber, Remember if you say bad words about somali women You are abusing your existence..

Thank about???? Your mother is also a somali woman.

So don't jugde because of your bad experience!
Think, use Your mind bro
:O

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chachnia 4 ever

Tuesday, March 27, 2001 - 03:03 pm
and i thought i was the only one who was
dating out side my race..

brother..go to chachnia...and find youself
18year old virgin muslim girl...
round trip ticket from new york is 749.12
that's all...hurry guys the stocks are limited
frist horney man frist serve.....

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The REAL nina

Tuesday, March 27, 2001 - 03:54 pm
To ALL

i really dont care how sweet foreign ppl are!!! they cant never be somali man or women!!! i'm happy that you guys find someone you love. but for me it will forever be somali man!!! :):):)

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ramla

Tuesday, March 27, 2001 - 04:26 pm
Brothers, please, please, please chose a beautiful women if you going with a foreigner. I have meet more than 9 somali men with foreign women and all these women have one thing in common: Ugliness across nationalities!!! Why?????????

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lisas husband

Wednesday, March 28, 2001 - 11:21 am
ramla,
well come see my beutifull wife/lisa
boy, she is soooo hot..she made me forget how
ugly somali woman are....

viva non-somali woaman

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Reality Check

Wednesday, March 28, 2001 - 01:59 pm
Lol@Ramla..........That is sooooo true.
Do not know why, but the Somalian men that I've seen, you cannot even look at their Foreign mate

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FATIMA

Thursday, March 29, 2001 - 05:25 pm
LISA'S HUSBAND

YOU CAN'T SAY ALL SOMALIA WOMEN ARE UGLY CAUSE I'M VERY BEAUTIFUL AND LOOK WAY BETTER THEN YOUR WIFE ONLY IF YOU SAW THE WAY I LOOKED.
ABDI YOUR RIGTH DATE WITH WHOM EVERY YOU CHOOSE AS LONG AS THEY ARE NOT NIGGERS. MY SISTER IN LAW IS GERMAN AND MY BROTHER IN LAW IS ITALIAN AND I GET ALONG WITH THEM JUST FINE.

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FATIMA

Thursday, March 29, 2001 - 05:27 pm
LISA'S HUSBAND

YOU CAN'T SAY ALL SOMALIA WOMEN ARE UGLY CAUSE I'M VERY BEAUTIFUL AND LOOK WAY BETTER THEN YOUR WIFE ONLY IF YOU SAW THE WAY I LOOK.
ABDI YOUR RIGHT DATE WITH WHOM EVER YOU CHOOSE AS LONG AS THEY ARE NOT NIGGERS. MY SISTER IN LAW IS GERMAN AND MY BROTHER IN LAW IS ITALIAN AND I GET ALONG WITH THEM JUST FINE.

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Anonymous

Friday, March 30, 2001 - 09:09 am
Fatima, looks are not everything. You Somalian girls seem to have a problem understanding that. You think that if you only say the word "beauty" you win everything.... Show your men that you have some brain instead....

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Somali_yankee

Wednesday, April 04, 2001 - 06:36 am
ok....this is very funny....well marrying non-somali will only work in the west where there is a diversity....so i guess yu ain't coming home
a bit of reality check...Humans are humans...if you really believe a non-somali would love, adore,and treat you any better than somali mate
you are damn wrong....i have seen somali marry non-somalis just to break up within few years...those who pay the prize would the kids that come out da relationship....any i ain't agianst inter-racial relationships...however i feel offended when one comes up here calling themselves somalis and dissing us....if you have no respect for your people...i dought you are worthy anybody's daughter or son.

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Asma

Wednesday, April 04, 2001 - 10:58 am
To the brother that said that he never seen a somali women with a white men, where have you been? I lived in Italy and a lot of the somali women date outside their race. Just because Somali women are concedered bi*tch for dating white men, and they keep it a secreat that doen't mean that Somali women don't date white men.

Peace out nigga, and stop disrespecting the Somali Queenz.

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Anonymous

Thursday, April 05, 2001 - 01:23 am
and I thought I was the only one lol welcome to the club folks,my favorites are blondes they wild in bed followed by brunettes .

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Anti

Thursday, April 05, 2001 - 03:07 am
I AM SO AGAINST MARRYING OUTSIDE YOUR RACE AND CULTURE!!!!!!!!!!!!
MY NUMBER ONE REASON IS,SOME DAY I AM GOING BACK
TO MY COUNTRY,WHAT IF THE HUSBAND/WIFE DOESN'T
WANT TO COME? WHAT IF SHE/HE COMES AND AFTER THAT
YOU GET DIVORCED? SHE/HE WOULD WANT TO GO BACK
WHAT ABOUT THE KIDS THEN???
AND WHAT ARE U GOING TO TELL YOUR CHILD WHEN HE ASKS
WHO AM I? PLUS ALOT OF MARRIAGES AND UP IN DIVORCE,ESPECIALLY THE MIXED ONE'S!!!!!!!
CHECK THE STATISTICS!!!!!!!!!!!


BUT IF IT'S WORKING FOR YOU,THAT IS FINE
IT IS JUST NOT MY THING!!!

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Anti

Thursday, April 05, 2001 - 03:11 am
AND ONE MORE THING,IF YOU DON'T LIKE
SOMALI WOMEN...WHY R U POSTING IN THE SOMALI
WOMEN FORUM?????
I THINK YOU GUYS JUST WANT SOME ATTENTION FROM
THE SOMALI WOMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!