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     | Unrecorded Date Love cannot be be analyzed in labs and Islam doesn't encourage contacts between opposite sexes before marriage. Since the mainstream love (before marriage) has no room in science and Islam, I believe that it is a temporary insanity in which the lover needs some mental treatment. Please share some practical evidence if you believe in love. Love is also about business, obsession, manipulation. And most crimes against women are committed by lovers/ex-lovers.
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| | Unrecorded Date Man, this is deep, I have to consult with the resident advisor....Hebel.
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| | Unrecorded Date love is something I have for walnut. thinker love is love bro/sis I let others to take a shot at.
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| | Unrecorded Date To whom it may concern : We don't accept that every one to discuss about the love, Love is something secure, and the one who has an idea can discribe it only ,not each and every one that is all : Thanx to all:
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| | Unrecorded Date SXB THINKER SAXIIB ANAA KUU SHEEGAAYO,WAA MAXAY SAYNIS-KA IYO ISLAM-KA KALA HOREEYA? SXB ISLAM-KU KAMA TAGIN WAXBA ,ISAGOO JACAYLKA KA HADLAYANA WUXUU YIDHI(INAA KHALAQNAAKUM MIN DAKARIN WA UNTHAA WA JACALNAA BAYNAKUM MA WADATAN WARAXMA....ILAA AAKHIRI AAYAH. SORRY I DON'T HAVE TIME TO TRANSULATE FOR YOU.
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| | Unrecorded Date then why tell us ya goof?
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| | Unrecorded Date LOL..HEBEL
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| | Unrecorded Date To thinker. Let me define love for you. Even thought love is some thing we desire and look forward to have in a relationship, love is a psychological weakness. That means, its a weakness that takes over the density of your soul, emotional, physical, and psychological state of being which is necessary to better function as a human being. Therefore, as a psychologist, as well as a medical student, I would in courage you not to believe something that is based on psychological existance and doest not exist in complete state of awareness. I would further define love as an obsession, which is a psychological sickess and need medical attention, and in later stages, person dies lack of nutrition and dehydration and not in fact the love they claimed to be. Take for example, Cilmi boodhare, which was my uncle, the firt thing he refused was to eat, and in fact ate only when Hodan was around him. Would't you say he died, becuase of lack of nutrition, and dehydration? I would say so. Ikhlaas.
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| | Unrecorded Date To thinker. Let me define love for you. Even thought love is some thing we desire and look forward to have in a relationship, love is a psychological weakness. That means, its a weakness that takes over the density of your soul, emotional, physical, and psychological state of being which is necessary to better function as a human being. Therefore, as a psychologist, as well as a medical student, I would in courage you not to believe something that is based on psychological existance and doest not exist in complete state of awareness. I would further define love as an obsession, which is a psychological sickess and need medical attention, and in later stages, person dies lack of nutrition and dehydration and not in fact the love they claimed to be. Take for example, Cilmi boodhare, which was my uncle, the firt thing he refused was to eat, and in fact ate only when Hodan was around him. Would't you say he died, becuase of lack of nutrition, and dehydration? I would say so. Ikhlaas.
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| | Unrecorded Date Iklaas, would you marry me? Only kidding! Way to go, I mean this is a first time I have known that their is a somali person who is also a psychologist, and a medical student. You encourage me to pursue my career to futher depths too. You see I am going to pursue a career in medicine, a peaditriatian to be precise. But to get to the more important question I don't believe in love, I believe in attraction because that's what you first feel when you see a person. If anyone was to be honest what is the first thing that you see when you meet someone? If they are good looking right! Exactly!! Then you look at their personality. When you get with someone it is not out of love that is just a pure idealism nature made up, it is out of attraction, which could lead to marriage and that's where you love him/her for being the mother/father of your child.Now for me that's the real love I'm talking about not this love at first sight nonsense, that is such a kuffar manner I may be cynical but hey that's just me. And if anyone say's the truth you do look at looks first, then personality.
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| | Unrecorded Date there is no such thing as love.. there is lust. that first feeling, attraction, the wanting to be with person all those are lust to put in a nutshell. People who dont eat because of love, or pple who dont sleep because of love is nonsense , they dont eat coz they lost their appetite, they dont sleep coz they have insomnia or something, so my point is pple exagerate about their feelings. WHat is luv when woman are beaten to death sometimes and she stays with him..why??.. i hear u ask..she says...BECAUSE I LOVE HIM.... i am sorry, but if luv is like that, u can have the damn thing!! What i beleive is caring, being kind, humanity, morality, respect for one another and all those are feeling su should have for each other, and when it turns out to be self-destructive thing, then get out of it, or at least hold something back so that u will have the strength to cary on with ur life , life after so-called love!! Only this morning i was told, a couple who thought that they were in luv and will always be together are getting divorce after 4 months?, They even put u off the idea of marriage alltogether!!
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| | Unrecorded Date Love has multiple meanings..... for some it might entail life as a whole, for others there is a strong association when a significant other is involved. that is pretty immature to make that association, that is feeling that love only exists when you are talking in terms of boyfriend and girlfriend!!!!! Love means being able to live a sane life. When someone has a caring/nurturing/loving environment then they can flourish and blossom like a tulip at the beginning of spring. So please don't assume or pigeon whole your thinking by making a strong association when it comes to LOVE and what it encompasses. Peace&Love to my Sombronsis'
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| | Unrecorded Date Sagal, you said "there is no such thing as love", but the only abnormality in life is the incapacity to love. Allah was said to sent 1% of the love people and animals have for each other to the earth and He kept the rest of 99% for his believing creatures in the day of judgment. Take away love from out life, we become a tomb. Love doesn’t make the world go around; love is what makes the ride worthwhile, but love is the word used to label the sexual excitement of the young, the habituation of the middle-aged, and the manual dependence of the old. No woman ever falls in love with a man unless she has a better opinion of him than he deserves and if a man is in love with a lady, he is no judge of her beauty.
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| | Unrecorded Date To:Cynicalgirl. Well, how would you expect me to marry you, if you "don't believe in love and only attraction." Anyhow, I am glad that you are seeking your career in medicine, its hard and time consumming but at th end its worthwhile. You know, it's good idea to have another degree in medical related areas before you go on, because it's very helpful to have practical experiances if you are premed. Many medical Schools are looking for someone, with experiences; Which is why i had a degree in psychology and work part time with this degree. please keep it up the good work as you will face many obstackles in life, just, work aroud them and surely you will have your way. Sorry I did not meant to give you long lucture,its just my psychology part of me. Ikhlaas.
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| | Unrecorded Date H TO ALL JACEEL WAA KII INACSIIYEY NINKII AAN JECLAA MARKA WAA SU"AALEE EE JAAN JECLAADAA SOMAALIYEEY BY LELA
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| | Unrecorded Date Leyla Jinni iyo habar Calseey jeclaaw iyagaa baryahaan dooqu ku dambeeyaye.
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| | Unrecorded Date Jacayl dartii baa gaadhi afar jeer ila daba gadoomey.
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| | Unrecorded Date CiiseRooti, hadaaba magacaaga aan uu roogno CiiseShiil, what do u say?
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| | Unrecorded Date LOVE,? oggi l'more non esiste piu, vogliam solo a scopare con una belle porco aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.
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| | Unrecorded Date love is a wonderful theing if you have someone to share with. some times love may not be so great but some girl they put there self down for the way a men had treated them. thats why they say that love can be blind. sincerely dj
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| | Unrecorded Date to dj hi mr dj i am sorry it is not as you said and there is no girl who put her self down for sake of men and this fucking word always use the men when they wants to tell lai i mean <LOVE IS BLIND> BY hana
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| | Unrecorded Date Asalam Alaikum hello Everyone i see everyone is export on the subject of love this day. i am not gona stand here and say i know love cause i don't know. the only love i know is the one that my parents showed me. but what is love can love be only between man and woman and if the answer is no. than why is everyone is saying there is no such think called love. i think we forget the true meaning of love. love is all round us. so i think we should father difene what love is. u can love u mom u r dad u r sister and brothers, u can also love u r friends no matter who they r. but better yet when we always look on love we look the attraction between man and woman. so is that true. i love my mom my dad my brothers and my friends to death and i wish i could have sister so can love her to death too but that is not the case, and that is love cause without love u can't have stable home. To bro and sis bro and sis u say u r medical student and u r phycologist and u saying u don't believe love if i understood well but how that happines. everytime i see and meet phycratict what it says we need to be love. we need to feel that there is someone up there loves us. cause as i understood love is the best medicine. i believe if u have love that u wont need anything else cause u have someone that cares u so much and loves u so much is that moment u feel alive cause u know there is person who is thinking about u as the minute tick. peace out feel free to comment. Asalam Alaikum
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| | Unrecorded Date LOVE......... LUV ............LOVING ........... LOVED......... BLAH.....BLAH.....BLAH Every forum, every page, everybody, every time, day in day out ......... love, love ......... What is love?? Believe in love?? can there be love?? where can love be found?? how I am supposed to love?? why dont u love?? I CANT TAKE IT ANY MORE!!!!!!!! I hate LOVE! I am disgusted by love! I dont care about love! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH....... (ok, I feel better!) Before, u waste your time and the space on the server, REMEMBER, I dont care about your responses! In fact, if u do respond, I will come over to wherever u r and whoop ur ass!! Hate out!
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| | Unrecorded Date To hebel no bro u can't be love u r one annoying dude and ladies don't dig that get it......LOL
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| | Unrecorded Date are U being loved?
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| | Unrecorded Date asalaamu alaykum walaalaheeyoo waxbaan idinka faa iideystay tahnnks all of u ?
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| | Unrecorded Date Hadduu beerku qaybsamo barbaan adi ku siin laa wadnahayga bidixdana waan kuu badali laa kaagana waan la bixi laa VAnpire
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| | Unrecorded Date To Hebel yeah indeed i been loved by so many people bro. love is what made me who i am bro so as u can see i been loved.
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| | Unrecorded Date in that case there is no love healer and from now on no one can love. ya hear me plle? no love.
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| | Unrecorded Date I can love whoever I want to love when ever I want to love. Do you hear me hebel! Do you!
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| | Unrecorded Date Love sucks!!!! If there's an emotion that is bound to betray you love is it.
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| | Unrecorded Date yeah mariah but just keep yar love away from my heart. ya can love a goat's feet for all I care ya know them karaaciin?
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| | Unrecorded Date ladies and gentelmen or those wose reading these " love" is everything love is not something that you can play with or choke with the word meaning "love" is to respect. ahmed.
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| | Unrecorded Date AND I'M TELLING YOU THE TRUTH AHMED HUSEIN
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| | Unrecorded Date IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A LOVE A REALL LOVE RESPECT LOVE AND TO BE CARED WHY DONT YOU EMAIL @AHMED_HUSEIN@HT.COM ,YOU WILL GET WHAT YOU WANT.
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| | Unrecorded Date I thought I was alone but thanx to you my ppl. I started this discussion coz my real life friends insist that I am crazy when I tell them how I feel about love. My career is in engineering and they say too much science and math is what made me a a human robot. But I just realized that I am not alone! But there are so many people who see things the way I do. The worst moment of my life is when a woman says I love you and I try to explain how I see love. Thanx to all of you for this wonderful feedback. I am going to print the whole thread and keep it as a reference of how some people define love. Thinker.
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| | Unrecorded Date I DON'T BELEIVE IN LOVE BUT MOST OF THE PEOPLE I KNOW SAY LOVE IS EVERYTHING,SO I REALLY CAN'T TELL YOU ANY THING ABOUT IT, WHAT YOU KNOW I AM 21 YAERS OLD AND NEVER BEEN IN DATE, I THINK THAT TELL YOU WHY, PEACE TO ALL
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| | Unrecorded Date Love is a sickness, i don't belive in love, i belive by get to use to another person.
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| | Unrecorded Date I do belive in love, it is the best and worst thing can happen to human being. it is beyone anyone capablity to understand and control when are in deep love. Some one who love means spycologically and mentally is a healthy person. i been there, i am still there but u don't have to be obssesed. if u become obsesses that means u r sick. well that is what i think.
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| | Unrecorded Date i love all of you...... you are all unique, special and different...being humans, we tend to act out how we have been treated, nurtured in our childhood..... yet that does not limit one's emotional phases,,,,,,whether bad, normal or great experiences we have been through at early age shape our opinions and choices...still, we can explore and open our hearts....and love
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| | Unrecorded Date YES I DO BELIVE IN LOVE . YES ISLAM ENCOURAGE TRUE LOVE. IM NOT TALKING A BOUT WEASTREN LOVE WHERE THY CALL SEX LOVE. NO NO NO IM TALKING A BOUT UNDERSTANDING SOME 1 RESPECTING SOME 1 . THE WOMAN THAT I LOVE . SHE IS NOT IMEAN NOT THE MOST BEUTIFUL WOMAN IN THE WORLD. BUT SHE GET A BIG HEART THAT CAN LOVE EVERY BODY IN THE WORLD. AND A MAIND THAT IS GRREATE. THIS IS THE REASON THAT IM IN LOVE TO ME THIS IS TRUE LOVE AND THAT IS NOT HARAM
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| | Unrecorded Date hell yeah, LOVE is the greatest thing of all*** you haven't lived yet if you never loved somebody, or never been loved by somebody...
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| | Unrecorded Date loverchick U know about love alright, but U have a case of sexual confusion. U always seem to be falling in love with the wrong sex. . . . . even animals can figure that one out. so what's the point of yar love when yar firing at the wrong direction?
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| | Unrecorded Date Hebel, you seem to know alot about animal 6ex and how they choose the right 6ex, but let me ask you this have u tried to have 6ex with one of the animals and they refuse to do so with u 'cause u were the wrong kind??? I believe that is the case and that is how u became an expert on animal 6ex***hey at least I've fallen in love with somebody and that ain't the wrong way***so HUSH UP and don't talk about something u haven't experience before LIKE LOVE OKAAAAAAAY!!! LATER Y'ALL
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| | Unrecorded Date I never had sex with an animal damn it.
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| | Unrecorded Date ,,,,,,Do u sure dat u never had!!!!? Girgin iga dheh!!!!!!!damn
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| | Unrecorded Date LOVE IS A MYTH...Stupid People fall in Love coz men are DOGS....Some of them atleast....
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| | Unrecorded Date T-girl so you do have sex with animals.
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| | Friday, August 11, 2000 - 08:12 am Love is Grand!Love is beautiful!Love is spoteneous!Love is Passion!Love is Lust!Love is eyes locking and lips sinking!LOve is joyful chemical stimulator.Love is deep.Love is fashionable.Love is woe!Love is madness!Love is ingenious!Love is moonlight.Love is stars! I totally support the concept of love and its affects.Its not a myth,its a part of humanbeing self discovery,a part where the heart seeks refuge in other heart.
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| | Friday, August 11, 2000 - 07:56 pm IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII SHUT UUUUUUP! . . . B4 I give u five accross the lips.
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