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SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Somali Women's Forum: Archive (Mar. 2000 - August 2000): TORN BETWEEN TWO BROTHERS - HELP
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LAYLA

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I HAVE BEING GOING OUT WITH GUY FOR 3 YEARS AND HE WAS MY FIRST LOVE AND I WAS HIS WE WHERE LIKE THE CUTEST COUPLE AROUND HE WAS MY SOUL-MATE, I JUST KNEW WE WERE MEANT TO BE!.

AND THE REASON WE DIDN'T TELL ANYONE WAS BECAUSE OUR FAMAILIES WERE VERY CLOSE.

MY NIGHTMARE BEGAIN WHEN MY FATHER DECIDE TO ARRANGE A MARRIAGE FOR ME AND TO MAKE IT WORST WAS IT ARRANGED AND MY WEDDING WAS THE WEEK AFTER, COS THEY KNEW I WOULDN'T ALLOW IT, (CAME ON THIS ISN'T SOMALIA AND THINGS LIKE THAT DON'T HAPPEN HERE IN ENGLAND I THOUGHT)

BUT THERE WAS ANOTHER SUPRISE IN STORE FOR ME THE GUY THAT ASKED MY HAND IN MARRIAGES WAS MY BOYFRIENDS BROTHER.

I KNOW THERE IS NO WAY I AM GETTING MARRIED TO HIM COS I AM IN LOVE WITH MY BOYFRIEND.

PLEASE HELP A CONFUSED SISTER

WHAT SHOULD I DO AND HOW DO I TELL THEM THAT I'M IN LOVE WITH HIS BOYFRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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T-GIRL

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LAYLA.......

Talk about keeping it in da FAMILIA........! What R U los crazy-os......coz one of these dayz....Los Boyfriend-os will find out about Tua Affare internalle...and make it populare...then yo parents will definately Tarxiil U to Casa Populare.....CAPISHE.......<Los Spanish style>...

PEACE
TROUBLE

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Mariah

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Oh that is bad. My advise is don't tell them. Let your boyfriend talk to his brother and explain everything. If he loves you that is...


Good luck..........

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Muriidi

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Layla,

Girl you are the luckiest, kicking two bro's left and right, this is a lifetime chance, leave the boyfriend baby and taste the bro, coz I'm telling ya it's the same.......kud ka guur qanje u guur..

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xamardaye

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LAYLA,
maadaama aad walaalkiis saaxib aheedeen,ma jirto dariiqad aad ku guursato walaakiis,ee runta waa lagama maarmaan oo runta u sheeg reerkaada,weliba hooyadaa haddii ay kula joogto iyada ka biloow oo u sheeg sida ay wax u jiraan,waxaan filaa in ay kula fahmi doonaan,adigana geedka aad ku dhegto hala gula gooyo,saaxibkaaneh hala hadlo reerkiisa haddii uu ku jecel yahay.

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Anonymous

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The girl is Mine,,,,

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Mariah

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Muriidi. god ka guur qanjo u guur....what kind of advise is that.

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MAD MAC

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Muriidi ain't always too stable Abai. You see back during the war there was this accident and Muriidi was.............

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Anonymous

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you know what i think forget about what your dad or anybody alse say to you just follow your heart, becuase love this guy than that is. because if you marreid you never going to be happy.

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Muriidi

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MAdMAc,

..........what? lololol@@@@@

You don't even know what Mariah was referring to, do you?. A piece of advise 4 ya MadBoy, If the conversation is in Somali or mixed with Somali, please refrain from it, lest you become the big joke of the topic OK.

Let me save your asss this time...Kud ka guur qanji u guur means ...from the frying pan to the fire. And this is your homework.

Quando voltaan ku arkay adoo parole keyga ah markatada kula riidareyhaaya, minaad i laashaareyn diidid waa ku amaasaareyhaa.

Pace

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T-GIRL

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LAYLA.....
Marry the one who kisses the best....Trust me U can establish a lotta things from a KISS....

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Ma Dawg

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lol talking fron X-perience T-Gaal?

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Michigan

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hey here is an idea.......Y not just light da candle on both sides.....huh...how about dat....

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T-GIRL

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Mos def bro...mos def...

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Anonymous

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T-GIRL DO YOU KNOW HIM?
MOSDEF THAT IS?

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T-GIRL

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Anonymous
I seen the Nigga on the Tele a couple of times.....He is ugly & his lyrics disgust me to the max....why?

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MOS DEF

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TELL YA DAD AND MUM
U LIKE HIS BROTHER
AND SEE WHAT THEY SAY

A QUESTION
WHY CANT YOU GET MARRIED TO UR BOYFRIEND,
IS HE TOOO YOUNG????????
A GOT NO MONEY????????????
WHY?????????????

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LUUL

Friday, August 18, 2000 - 09:48 pm
GIRL FORGET WHAT YOUR PARENTS SAY AND FOLLOW YOUR HEART,U KNOW ITS HARD TO FIND TRUE LOVE LATELY SO I WOULD ADVICE U TO KEEP THAT BROTHER'S ASS,U CAN ALSO USE YOUR UNCLES OR AUNTS TO TELL YOUR PARETNS ABOUT YOUR BOYFREIND. IF U LOSE THIS GUY U WILL REGRET FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE SPECAIL IF U REAL LOVE HIM,TRUST ME I KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT,BEEN THERE DONE THAT IF U HEAR THAT BEFORE

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MAHIIR

Saturday, August 19, 2000 - 01:04 am
RUN SISTER RUN WHILE U STILL CAN.RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN,AND DON'T LOOK BACK.

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hebel

Saturday, August 19, 2000 - 07:50 pm
Damn T-G yar Good!!!

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Sweetgirl

Sunday, August 27, 2000 - 06:21 pm
Just tell him you don't like him and you like his brother, besides a marriage isn't valid islamically if the girl doesn't want the guy or vice versa. You make it more complicated than it is.

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WARANKIILO

Monday, August 28, 2000 - 05:23 am
naa wiilasha haysku layn naasaha waraf kaaga dhac oo duluca alla kuu gooye. labadaba buri oo ka guur hadii kale way is dilayaan

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hebel

Monday, August 28, 2000 - 09:57 am
haddii duluca ka go'o yaa noo sheegaa inee kastuumo qabto?
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Xaraan waaye in canbarkaa lagaa arkee.

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Warta suuqa

Tuesday, August 29, 2000 - 05:14 am
Hebel,

Haka cabsan ineey taas dhacdo, maxaa yeelay quful oo abuu sideed la dhaho aa ku qataaran.. aaha.. iska jir hee..

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hebel

Tuesday, August 29, 2000 - 10:05 am
Filinkii Baadariga camal yaa? hakaa go'go mugoo
Geedkaan timaha badan ee jawaanka kuugu jiro.

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Warta suuqa

Wednesday, August 30, 2000 - 03:43 am
Ar xaasisanaa xaad jawaan huur badan iigu galee anoo Cali Falaax u jeedo. Bisinka.

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hebel

Wednesday, August 30, 2000 - 11:26 am
Warta yuunan kaa uskagin dee inaar Jawaanku Boodhkuu ka duwayaa miyaadan malcaamada ku dhigan markey farta ku gesheen?

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Warta suuqa

Friday, September 01, 2000 - 09:33 pm
lol,

Waraa aniga far mala igalin yaa.. Fur iyo daar hakugu go'o maku dhihi karee.

Teeda kale xaa malcamad iyo af kakeenkaan kugu wato, dugsi Quraan ah iskama tiraahdidoo iyo far barad. Xeey tahay waxaan aad ku hadleeysid..

Aryaa ma reer Alamseey aad la darsi rabtaa !!!

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NeefoowKaniini

Saturday, September 02, 2000 - 07:19 pm
,,,,Reer Alamseey Waa Kuwan ka warran hee!!!!!


,,,,,,Waagii malcamadda iigu horeysay baan aniga iyo reerka is baranay!!!!!!!

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TRUESIS

Wednesday, October 11, 2000 - 02:28 pm
EASY...I DON'T KNOW IF ANYONE SAID ANYTHING LIKE THIS B4 BUT WHAT AM TRYING TO SAY IS.......UR SATUATION IS THE EASIEST ONE .....CAZ U KNOW WHY ....CAZ UR BETWEEN BROTHERS RIGHT....THERE IS SOMETHING CALLED LOVE BETWEEN FAMILY....THE BROTHERS SHOULD LOVE EACH OTHER AND MOST NOT HURT ONE ANOTHER...SO LET THEM WORK OUT LET UR BOYFRIEND TELL UR HUSBAND TO BE...THAT U 2 ARE IN LOVE...AND IT WON'T DO ANY GOOD IF HE JUST COME IN BETWEEN THEM AND BREAK THE LOVE U 2 HAVE FOR EACH OTHERE....I GOT TO GO...AM SORRY BUT I'LL COME BACK AND TALK TO U MORE BYEE..TRUESIS