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SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Somali Women's Forum: Archive (Mar. 2000 - August 2000): I like this guy and I don't know what to do about
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Anonymous

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I have been like this guy for about a year now and we really got on well. He come to my house ever now and than. he is really sweet and kind and I am hope that one day we can become more just a friends. Please help I don't what to do and I really really like him.

thanx for your time.

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MN man

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One good advise ask Allah for help.
One more thing if u like thiz guy go get him right now or else u would regred thiz the rest of u life. U know what, u only die ones. if u know what i mean i hope u find him am praying for u sis.

Bye

Somali foreva!

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Sumaya

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Salaama Caleykum

Dear: Sister

you have been this guy almost one year and got on well? what you mean these words sister may be i can find advice for you, i need feedback ok.

General advice to all my sisters, First of all we are Muslim rite? Second we should learn manners to dealt with men ok, not open our heart every stranger and may be we will pay the price rite.

Your's Sumaya

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MAD MAC

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Tell him. Try the simple old fashioned no BS approach. Tell him you like him and would like to be more than friends. Put the cards on the table. If you've known him for a year he must have also at least considered this possibility. He should be able to answer. If he says no, don't be crest fallen. Accept it and move on. Don't play games with inuendo, etc. Just get to the point.

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amina

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Don't tell him ,cause if you do and he says he does'nt that is mortifying(embarrassing)

To:Sumaya

Learn how to spell baby!!!

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MAD MAC

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Amina
What do you mean that is mortifying? If he isn't interested at least you know where you stand. If he's a good guy he'll be nice about it. I was madly in love with a woman three years ago. I tried everything to get that woman. She wasn't interested. We're still best friends. I got over it. It's not as if we're in high school here.

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Anonymous

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This is 2000 girl!..go for it and u might find out he maybe feeling the same!...and if he doesn't well "MOVE ON" what do u have to lose be brave i say love.

I was in that state once and i went ahead and told him, and to my surpise his was feeling the same way about me and it felt good telling him, its been a year now and we are still together.

i lost nothing and gained everything!..get me???

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BABYGIRL

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MAD MAC U RIGHT! BRO U SHOULD SAY WHAT U FEELING

MAD MAC I REALLY LIKE U BRO HOW ABOUT IT BRO???U AND ME.

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MAD MAC

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Babygirl
Abai, you don't even know me. Check this out. I am 38. I'm gaal. I'm white. I'm a soldier (women hate soldiers). Your parents would kill you or me or both of us. Lastly, I'm in a committed relationship right now. Maybe I should have put that first - I don't cheat or dump one to get another. But thanks for the compliment. I don't get too many on Somalinet. It will be just my luck that you have a heart of gold, look like Waris Dirie, and are 30 years old and willing to date gaal. That's always the way my life is.

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leyla

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TO: Babygirl
first of all u shouldnt be here in this room, second there is no one want or interesting to get to know u as a kufaar and third stay with your community and keep serving and going your job.
you don't have any buseness for somalinet.
leyla

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MN man

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To:MAD MAC

Now tha i figure out what tha f@ck u is, Son of a bitch. How come u choose thiz forum to spread out ur deseas. One good advise Gaal futo ku xaarow u still have time and allah always forgives.

Nacalatulaah Calayk

And Nigger Baby(Babygirl)
If u wanna get to know Gaal futo ku xaarleh is ur F@#K business.

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MAD MAC

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MN Man
Always nice to see an open-minded, intellectual Somali here on the net. I'm glad that you had a lot of positive and intelligent observations to make. I recommend you become a Muslim, you have time and maybe Allah will forgive.

Leyla
Is this the Layla that I know and have been looking for????? Where have you been? Did you get my letter? Write me!!!! Let me know how you are doing? Are you still planning on going to Nairobi?

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MN man

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To MAD MAC

"Open minded" i take that as complaint from Gaal futo ku xaarleh. What a wasted.


Subxaanalaah

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BADGIRL

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MAD"MILLITARY"BOY.....
LOL...I love your sarcasm......And who says Women hate Soldiers.....? I 4 one would kill for a soldier.....Men in Uniform....yummmmmmyyyyy. Anyway find me a Muslim Soldier between 25-30 LOL......
PEACE

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BADGIRL

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Anyway back to da topic at hand.....

Anonymous....
My advice to U sis is do not show that U like him....coz MEN can detect a desperate woman miles away. Try to be mysterious, get out and find yourself another man....if that doesn't get his attention then Im afraid U R doomed coz if a man wants U he will come after U girl......What U don't have and can't get wasn't UR's in the first place

PEACE

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MAD MAC

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Bad Girl
The time for playing coy is over. If this guy is a good guy (and after a year she ought to be able to tell) then he will either respond or he won't. I was really not in the market for a girlfriend - complicates my life - when the girl I was casually seeing one day said she loved me. Suddenly I realized that I loved her too and that was all she wrote. A good guy won't take advantage of that.

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leyla

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hi MN MAC, this is leyla , but is not the one u knew, anyhow keep looking the one u knew,

thanks and take care.

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Anonymous

Wednesday, June 28, 2000 - 08:53 am
wait for the guy one night,push him on the wall and kiss him right on the lips,dont let go!If he lieks you he'll say thanx if he doesn't he'll tell you hes gay!...atleast thats my dream!

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Anonymous

Wednesday, June 28, 2000 - 03:24 pm
ya all people giving advise to a 15 yrs old girl. Shame on you. You should tell her, stop watching too many talk shows..and stay a kid

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Tai-Chi

Saturday, July 01, 2000 - 12:23 am
To Anonymous.
I have to agree with Mad Max's advise. Go for it. And I wish you luck from the bottom of my heart.

Mad Max
It's the first time I see you give a good advise. There is something I'm dying to know, and don't get me wrong....What are you doing in this place, I mean why in a Somali Forum???

Luv,
Tai-Chi