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SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Somali Women's Forum: Archive (Mar. 2000 - August 2000): WHICH ONE IS BEST BEING SINGLE OR MARRIED?
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SWEETIE

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 11:48 am
IAM A LADY AND STILL SINGLE PPLE ALWAYS PRESSURE ME INTO MARRIAGE IAM A LITTLE BIT SCARED COZ MA FRIENDS TELL ME MARRIAGE, IS NOT A BED OF ROSES. WHAT DO U THINK?

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Anonymous

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 12:37 pm
marriage is how u make it....if u or ur husband treat each other bad than...ur definatly in for divorce....but if u treat each other with love,respect, and care etc.....than ur in heavan..

try ur best to live ur marriage according to the prophet saw...than insha allah u'd wish that u would have marrried earlier.....

never marry for money, looks cuz all this will soon fade away.....

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amina

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 02:15 pm
my advice to you.. sista stay with out problem what ever, stay single and free you only live once, why trouble,screaming husband punch of kidds running around.... welcome to the single life... take the lead and shape your life.

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Anonymous

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 03:14 pm
i say marry him and kill him,inherit the dow .and flee.They scums anyway

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Anonymous

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 03:35 pm
Don't listen to the last two negative girls, for some reason they are anti- men not just anti-marriage. There is nothing better than having someone to share your life with.

Even the negative girls will realise this in 1 or 2 years time I guarantee you. So take the bullet NOW and good luck.

P.S I'm under the same pressure as you and will succome when I've met a nice girl.

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Xoogsade

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 04:03 pm
From the Globe and Mail(Gulp and Flail?)

Thought du jour
"The most happy marriage I can picture or imagine to myself would be the union of a deaf man to a blind woman."
-- Samuel Taylor Coleridge.

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Mariah

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 05:25 pm
Stay single as long as you can.............Don't let anybody pressure you..................


Peace

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warsame

Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 06:09 am
sweetie

I got bright idea, how about me and you getting into short term marriage contract(say, about six months)
after the end of the six months, we do some appraisals, if on scale of 1 - 5, one of us scores less than four. we call it a day, else we renew it for another three years and do another appraisals after that.

that way you will find out yourself what marriage is all about without ever asking anyone else - or being trapped in long term marriage which difficult to break.


Just think about it. I'm ready to business with you.........

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Jeego

Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 07:51 am
Warsame

It seems I am bit late, if you change your mind
or get rejected let me know? or even after 6 months,3years she can have the trial with me,all over again!!
""adi waligaa fayl magashay,haddaad gashay waa i fahmee noo?!!

People say mariage is two-way street.

Example

Right-line- Man is looking Free Sex (all the time) and ready meals.

Left-line Woman is looking Money,Diomand ring(very important) Big wedding, Honeymoon and Romance or Koolkoolin, what ever you call?

Then the unwanted happens!!!Children,Mortage,Housework,Nagging!!

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MN man

Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 09:44 am
If ya think is time to get married then go for it.
yeah i have Q how old is u? if u don't mind.

Don't ever listen to Mariah, Cause no one want to marry someone like her. Shes pain in tha ass.

Good luck

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gabar xaasa.

Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 11:57 am
waa salaamantihiin dhamaan.
waxaan aad ugu qoslay sida jeego runta u sheegay
well done walaalkiis.

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Mariah

Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 05:27 pm
Mn.......are you sure about that,.........my sweet boy........oops man.


LOl

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MN man

Friday, July 21, 2000 - 09:58 am
MARIAH

No i was just kidding alot guys would die to have u.

Jamacian
AfroAmerican
White Trush
Chinesss
and last but not least Moryaan.

Good luck

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Mariah

Friday, July 21, 2000 - 04:47 pm
MN............so you are not a guy............Or man enough.......take you pick.......I am happy that you came out soon enough...........Don't be ashamed of what you are.............

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Back at'cha

Saturday, July 22, 2000 - 07:44 am
Mariah, what?? Are you leaving an convession with us about you coming out?!?

To late. Whe already know you a white whore who sleeps with men, when you yourself are a hybrid or something that looks like a man!!!!

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Jeego

Saturday, July 22, 2000 - 12:03 pm
Gabar xaas ah

Walaashiis Bankiile maad ika dhigatid?!!!
Meel walba waa ka cayaaraa!! Weerar,Dhexda,Difaac,
Boortayeeri,Durmo waa gamaa xabadka waa ku dajinaa,Goysmana anaa alifay,Tuuneerna ku dar!!!

Kasoo fikir hee walaashiis

Back at,cha ma down-under baa lagaa helaa?!

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sweetie

Monday, July 24, 2000 - 05:36 am
to mn man, maria &backatcha,for ur information this is not the right place for conversation ,so do it somewhere else, i need an advice not trash-talking.

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Freeeeman

Monday, July 24, 2000 - 08:45 pm
by;Freeman.
waxaan qabaa aniga figrad ahaan inaanan guursan mar labaad inta cimrigayga ka dhiman markaan gabadhii aan is guursanay kala tagnay, waxaan dareemay inaan maalintaas aan xuriyadayda qaatay.

Hadal iyo dhamaantiis guurka dadka isugu mid ma'aha laakiin iniga ahaan dhibaatada iiga soo gaartay ma'ah mid aan kasoo waaqsan doono dumar somali haddaan arko waanka baqaa afkayga uma furo

marka xaqiiqda laga hadlo rag badan oo soomaali ah aan la sheekaytay waxa ay guurka uga baqaan
ama ay u warwareegtaan in dumarka soomaaliyeed ee qurbaha ku nool ayna weli fahmin nolosha qurbaha iyo mustaqbalka .
freeman

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warsame

Tuesday, July 25, 2000 - 12:29 am
sweetie


I'm still waiting an answer for me prososal......what you say?

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Back at'cha

Tuesday, July 25, 2000 - 10:53 am
Warsame what you think?

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hebel

Tuesday, July 25, 2000 - 08:19 pm
He thinks U should shave yar other leg..back at'cha.