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SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Somali Women's Forum: Archive (Before Sept. 29, 2000): I MARRIED A LOOSER
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DEPRESSEDIN-IN TO

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 02:55 pm
THIS IS THE SADDEST DAY OF MY LIFE , AM NOT ASKING FOR SYMPATHY. I AM SO UNLUCKY IN THE LOVE DEPARTMENT, AND WHEN I THOUGHT I WAS IN LOVE FOR REAL I WAS SWEPT OFF MY FEET, AND MARRIED THE JERK, AND ONCE I MARRIED THIS IDIOT, I CAME TO MY SENSES AND REALISED HOW MUCH OF A LOSER HE REALLY IS.
I MEAN HE HAS BEEN LOOKING FOR A JOB FOR THE PAST 8 MONTHS , I WEAR THE PANTS IN THIS RELATIONSHIP, AM THE BREADWINNER IN THIS FAMILY, ALL HE DOES HIS HANG OUT WITH HIS HOMEBOYS AND CHEW QAAT, I SHOULD HAVE LISTENED TO MY MOTHERWHEN SHE SUGGESTED I SHOULDN'T MARRY HIM , THE SAD PART IS I AM 4 MONTHS PREGNANT AND HE IS STILL NOT MAKING AN EFFORT TO GET HIS LIFE ON TRACK, WE ALWAYS GET IN TO BIG ARGUMENT AND NASTY FIGHTS PPL PLS TELL ME HOW I SHOULD GO ABOUT THE MATTER, I DON'T BELIEVE IN DIVORCE BUT LIFE AIN'T EAST

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Anonymous

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 03:00 pm
THEN WHY DID U DO IT , MARRY HIM I MEAN

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Anonymous

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 03:05 pm
Dear Depressed

You are the one who was saying 'inlove with my best friend husband'.filthy,gabbage whore.is sorry ass hoe .people dont follow her she is fake.she is the one who say rubbish things in the the topic.dhiilo.

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Anonymous

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 03:38 pm
Are you Depressed, Please email me at bosman13@hotmail.com

I have the medicine for you .

Shalaay

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somalisister

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 04:29 pm
Dear Depressed- I'm really sorry you had to learn the hard way. I can see you are really sad, but you have to believe in yourself...Don't look back at what could have been, has been, or should be.
Focus on the present, regretting will only dig you deeper in self pity--and it'll waste time needed for you to come back on top.
My advice?: 1-Stop regretting marrying the guy
2-Think about all you have learned instead (from being with him)..think about what kind of person you are now;...you know more world wise, more prone to listen to your mother..etc
3- If all this guy brings is heart ache, and you don't beleive in divorce--think about other ways to deal with it, find something to pass time, so you won't just sit there and bury yourself in self pity
4- If he really does still love you, and you know for a fact..then talk to him. I mean don't go up to him and accuse him of how bad of a partner he is..instead talk soothingly, don't make it sound like your attacking him (cause that will only drive him away from you). Let him know how much he's hurting you ( in a way that won't make you look totally vulnerable..otherwise he might take advantage of that..)
5- Sister pray!!!...you don't know how much peace of mind that comes from praying..even if god doesn't solve your problem right away, you'll still have a shoulder to lean on, to cry on...and your heart will whisper to you all the right answers...when every1 has abandoned you, and you feel all alone, when you wish you had listened to your mother..and you know you have hurt her so..when she's afraid to say "I told you so", because she loves you so much----------pray.dear sister pray.....pray..pray..and pray some more..pray from the bottom of your heart, and god will hear the cries of your heart,and soothe it with the peace of mind only he can give!

I hope sister, that your worries help you grow and not cripple you!There is this proverb i love ..it goes something like this : IF YOU WEEP BECUASE THE SUN HAS SET, YOUR OWN TEARS WILL NEVER LET YOU SEE THE STARS!

Take care sister, and put your trust in god!

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Xoogsade

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 04:50 pm
Suck my cock whore shiit

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The Real Xoogsade

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 05:32 pm
Hey that is not me. I never agree with SS but I would never call her names.

To the dickhead who is abusing my name you better watch out. If I ever catch you I am gonna gouge your eyes out and piss into the empty, bleeding sockets. You are duly warned.

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T-GIRL

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 05:50 pm
SOMALI SISTAH.....
My God that was a great advice....I couldn't have said it better..

DEPRESSED SISTAH
Regret is a sign of weakness. Look at the positive that's has come out of this....U R getting a xalaal baby that will one day Insha Allah inherit all the love U have saved 4 UR husband and might turn out to out shine his/her father.....Make it a mission in your life to educate your child(islamic and academic).....and remember SABAR and U will get the Key to Janah.....A man who is unable to fulfill his duties is one thing and a woman who will take in charge and get on with her life is quite extraordinary......I wish U all the best....Bi'idnillahi Kariim
T

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Xoogsade

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 07:20 pm
lick my punani

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SACID

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 10:08 pm
TO; DEPRESSIDIN
HELLO SISTER AM SORRY ABOUT YOUR PROBLEM!
BUT I HAVE A QUESTION FOR YOU, ARE YOU SOMALIAN WOMEN OR OTHER RACE? YOU SAID " ALL HE DOES IS TO HANG OUT WITH HIS HOME BOYS TO CHEW A QAAT"

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GUY

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 10:10 pm
OHHH OHHHH OHHHHHHHH OUUUUH
IS THIS THE T-GIRL I KNOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!??????????????????????SINCE WHEN DID U TURN SHEEKHA>T-GIRL
BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOY
DON'T TELL ME U FOUND ALLAH
WERE U IN THE MOSQUE ALL THAT TIME U'VE BEEN AWAY-JUST THINKNIG????????????????????????????????

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somalisister

Thursday, September 28, 2000 - 04:13 am
Once again, the somali guys have proven themselves very immature and childish....( and I'm not talking about this lady's husband, mind you).

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MN man

Thursday, September 28, 2000 - 07:15 am
I don't belive it one bit.

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cade

Thursday, September 28, 2000 - 07:55 am
depressed

sorry to hear your sad situation.. try this

How about having an affair with a men who goes out to work... and while at it, suck his dick when he ejaculates put all his specimen in your husbands suugo and make sure he eats it all. if that don't do the trick repeat the same process for two weeks.........alright...........

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him

Thursday, September 28, 2000 - 08:30 am
somalisister(wannabe)
WHY
don't
U
find
yourself
a
non-somali
guy
and give
us
a
break.
.
smart ass

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T-GIRL

Thursday, September 28, 2000 - 03:03 pm
GUY

Hey just coz Im giving advice don't mean that I am a new born Moslem.....and furthermore I ain't always rude incase U think I am killing ppl in my spare time.......

"TROUBLE"

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somalisister

Thursday, September 28, 2000 - 03:20 pm
I must have done something to annoy all these guys...but I won't lose sleep over it..it was always said that guys didn't like and were intimidated by a smart women..and i guess it's true. Don't get me wrong here, I ain't bragging..but come on..look at the above comments these boys made, they sound like horomonal teenagers that just learned about sex in 7th grade health class..and are now obsessed with the subject.

T-girl--thanks, i just said what was in my heart.

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nightwatch

Thursday, September 28, 2000 - 07:21 pm
cade its disturbing to see you fantasize about 'guy's ejaculation specimen'why would you wanna feed a man sperms?did you feed yourself.iiiwww the thought of you teasting your own send me to cadiac arrest.!i hope we dont live in the same building,cuz if we do,i would rather be homeless than home alone with a freak.disturbing

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cade

Thursday, September 28, 2000 - 11:41 pm
nightwatch


oops, you must have done it overtime love...how else would you know the taste of that stuff would send you to cadiac arrest.....sorry love, i didn't mean to evoke your sad memories, i just didn't know we had a patient in the room.

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sisqow

Tuesday, October 03, 2000 - 01:54 am
hi somali siterr well i haven't read what the guys but i wish i could read it you know why i am saying that it is because i was impressed by your words that is very nice if that is what you would to a man who treats you that way what would you do to a amn who treats you well please i am waiting for your answer,well only if your not married yourself