     distressed | Sunday, October 22, 2000 - 06:45 am
I got myself in a mess ppl!!!. Here's the scoop: this guy has been telling me that he likes me a whole lot for about a year now. He told me so many times, and I turned him down so many times..everytime i think we're cool and he understands that i really don't want to hook up with someone..boom!..he tries again..and then last week I was so afraid to turn him down, that i gave him hope!!(i don't play games, but it might seem like i am to some ppl)..and now he wants to go out!!!..and i'm running around trying to avoid him..what have i done??????????..i don't want to go out with him, and i don't want to hurt him again..what am i to do???..i made such a big mistake????..how do i tell him??..do i tell him???...help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 |
| sista | Sunday, October 22, 2000 - 10:09 am
Dear distressed sista, the only best thing for you to do is to tell him how you feel...as bad as things may seem it will be better for you in the long run...you could give him a try i mean who knows you might even have fun...so i think go out with im once and if you don't like then tell him you do not want that kind of relationship from him.
well i said my two cents...
im out |
| distressed | Sunday, October 22, 2000 - 10:48 am
sista- thank you..that sounds fair, I mean he knows i don't like him in that way (i told him)..so now all i have to do is go out with him..how bad could that be?..i need to stop freaking out, i'm just afraid he'll get too serious if i go ahead and go out with him..and then i might end up either hurting him, or locking myself for good with someone i don't want!
but anyhow, thanx again sista!..i'll keep your advice in mind..even though i don't think i have a choice right now other than to go out with him. |
| sista | Monday, October 23, 2000 - 04:26 am
my pleasure sis...i hope everything works out for you and good luck. |
| londoner | Tuesday, October 24, 2000 - 04:43 am
To distresst sis
I can imagine how distress u r.In way i am your brother helping ur problem to be solved. Anyway stop playing with HIM, and get to point and tell him if u don'n want him, then he can get along with his life. If u continue i am sure u will get played by someon u love-ogoow (((((playerz get played)))) and ((((what goes around comez around))))) so please listen to me coz i have got so many bad memories. WISH U ALL Da BEST. |
| distressed | Tuesday, October 24, 2000 - 04:37 pm
Londoner, i've thought about that "player's get played" thing too..and i don't think i'm a player, so right now i'm gonna give the dude a chance to change my mind about him-he seems determined to!!..thanx though londoner! |
| Qadar | Thursday, November 02, 2000 - 09:47 am
ALL I CAN THINK OF THIS MOMENT IS TO GO OUT WITH HIM AND AFTER THE DINNER OR THE MOVIE OR WHATEVER HE TAKES OUT FOR......TELL HIM THE TRUTH AND HONEST AND SERIOUS WITH HIM......TELL HIM THAT YA IAN'T ATTRACTED TO HIM AND GOT NOTHING FOR HIM AM SURE HE'LL BE ABLE TO TAKE THAT..........AND ALSO TRY NOT TO BREAK A HURT THAT LOVES YOU ABAAYO.......U KNOW WHAT AM SAYING WHO KNOWS WHERE THE FUTURE IS GONNA LEAD YA..........GIVE THE BROTHA IS ATTRACTIVE AND NICE PERSONALITY GIVE HIM A SHOT.......BUT TELL HIM U GOT NO FEELING FOR HIM AND BUT U CAN SEE HOW THE THINGS GOES.........nnever ever break ahurt that loves ya sista cuz i did and i'll regret for the rest of my life even though i didn't to do so......
let us know how the things goes aight
and be sure to take the things step by step ..
meaning easy and simple and insha-allah things will come alone just the way u wanted it
always ur
qadar |
| Qadar | Thursday, November 02, 2000 - 09:49 am
ALL I CAN THINK OF THIS MOMENT IS TO GO OUT WITH HIM AND AFTER THE DINNER OR THE MOVIE OR WHATEVER HE TAKES OUT FOR......TELL HIM THE TRUTH AND be HONEST AND SERIOUS WITH HIM......TELL HIM THAT YA IAN'T ATTRACTED TO HIM AND GOT NOTHING FOR HIM AM SURE HE'LL BE ABLE TO TAKE THAT..........AND ALSO TRY NOT TO BREAK A HURT THAT LOVES YOU ABAAYO.......U KNOW WHAT AM SAYING WHO KNOWS WHERE THE FUTURE IS GONNA LEAD YA..........GIVE THE BROTHA IS ATTRACTIVE AND NICE PERSONALITY GIVE HIM A SHOT.......BUT TELL HIM U GOT NO FEELING FOR HIM AND BUT U CAN SEE HOW THE THINGS GOES.........nnever ever break ahurt that loves ya sista cuz i did and i'll regret for the rest of my life even though i didn't to do so......
let us know how the things goes aight
and be sure to take the things step by step ..
meaning easy and simple and insha-allah things will come alone just the way u wanted it
always ur
qadar |
| naadia | Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 04:58 pm
Abaayo waan ku salaamay
Saaxiib Iraelly understand how that feels,so please be hanest with your self and tell him whow
you feel abaut him !!!!!! and he will unerstand
if he is smart guy cuz who ever that tell you the
truth care abaut you.
take care abaayo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
