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SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Ila Tali Walaal - Ask The Experts: Archive (Before Oct. 29, 2000): Should i Call HIM???
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London sis

Tuesday, October 24, 2000 - 05:32 am
I had this very good friend a while back who's been very good to me.

I knew that he liked me n he even told me himself sevral times how he felt about me, but he never asked me to be his girle or any thing.

I like as well but i was going through bad times n just wasn't ready for that sort of thing. he was ready to settle down n get married which freaked me out at the time.. (i didn't feel ready!)

Anyways we'v decided to keep in touch and he gave me his number i called a couple of times but after a while the calls stoped.

Now iam missing his friendship and i am thinking about him all the time. Maybe i am just confused but i am starting to think that i have made a mistake by letting him slip.

I haven't spoken to him 4 almost a year but stil have his number. Shall i call him or just get over it??

I am waiting 4 ur replies.

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mukhtar

Tuesday, October 24, 2000 - 07:22 am
TO LONDON SIS

Stop being stupid and give him bell. He may feels the same way but men are stroger than women are. If i were u ( although i'm a man) i would call him unexpectedlly and tell him that i was away from country. Tell him that u were away or u had a problem then i'm sure he will accept this ( coz i would accept this , being man). Try this if it works let me know by email muhktar82@hotmail.com
4 now bye.

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mukhtar

Tuesday, October 24, 2000 - 07:22 am
TO LONDON SIS

Stop being stupid and give him bell. He may feels the same way but men are stroger than women are. If i were u ( although i'm a man) i would call him unexpectedlly and tell him that i was away from country. Tell him that u were away or u had a problem then i'm sure he will accept this ( coz i would accept this , being man). Try this if it works let me know by email muhktar82@hotmail.com
4 now bye.

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qadar

Tuesday, October 24, 2000 - 08:48 am
definately london sis....go ahead and holla him up sweetie u don't know what happened and why he cut u off like that.....he probably had some other issues so go call him and see why what happened.....and try to understand his point of view,,,and remember never ever break a heart that loves u sista

yea why don't u let me know of what happens at
qadar36@hotmail.com i'll be very glad to hear yo getting together

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a brother

Saturday, November 18, 2000 - 10:53 pm
LONDON SIS, you sound like that you are hidding more from us (Guilty feeling) and only you and God know that; however if things happened as you said, you should call him right now.
He was good to you, liked you...and probably took care of you, so all you have to do was to tell him the truth. Thruth hurts like a surgery but it heels wounded cells quickly.
London sis call the brother and be straight with him this time.

I hope things work out for you.

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Ahmed

Tuesday, November 21, 2000 - 06:58 pm
SAP london sis
If you really knew what a good frienship is, you would of call him a long long looooooong time a go.

stop the ballshit and give the guy a call.
at least find out what is up with him.

............lov u sista......
.........wish u all the best.......

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Advisor

Tuesday, November 21, 2000 - 07:03 pm
london people are so ..... LOL

just e mail him ......daaaa
is that hard?

bye bye British girl

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london sis

Tuesday, December 05, 2000 - 03:41 am
Advisor,
tnx for the effort honey but i tried that and apparantly theres something up with his email.

Ahmed bro, well i guess i found out too late (what a good friend is but hey he had my number and he didn't call!!

A brother, walaalo no guilty feelings, on my part just a painfull regret. Like i said i did like him back then and i think my feelings have grown even stronger. He has moved to the other side of town and the only person that linked us 2 also disappeadred into the sunset. so i guess i have no option but get over him. But BOY i would give anything just to bumb into him!!

Peace

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NA

Saturday, December 09, 2000 - 02:25 pm
Well, London sis i really feel ur story 'couze it happen to me once and i know how painfull its. but my situation was different 'couze i told him that we can't never, ever be morethen a friends and i break his hurt. any how when i feel the pain i didn't call him 'couze i still remember my words. therefore if u think he is ok to contact to him go for it otherwise just keep ur self a side sister

I hope u the best result sister