     Mr Ordinary | Thursday, February 08, 2001 - 06:40 am
THE QUESTION IS WHY DO MOST/ALL OF U SISTAS SCARED TO COMMIT URSELF IN A RELATIONSHIP?
PERSONALLY I HAVE COME ACROSS MANY SISTAS LIKE THIS, WHETHER IT IS ME GOING WIT THEM OR GUYS I KNOW, WE GUYS ALL FACE DA SAME PROBLEM, WHICH IS U GIRLS GO ON AT US ABOUT HOW WE SHOULD TREAT DA LADIES GOOD N WIT RESPECT N EVERYTHINGS ELSE. BUT SEE THE MOMENT A BROTHA DECIDES TO DO THINGS DIFFERENTLY AND TREAT HIS LADY LIKE SHE SHOULD BE TREATED, SHE EITHER PLAYS HIM OR TAKES HIM FOR GRANTED. N WHEN I ASK A SISTA WHY THIS IS SO, I ALWAYS GET DA SAME ANSWER, THAT "BROTHAS R PLAYING BEHIND OUR BACKS ANYWAY N THAT HE WILL END UP BREAKING OUR HEART IF I TRUST HIM". AM SURE SOME BROTHAS BE DOING THAT BUT SO R SOME SISTAS, WE ALL R NOT DA SAME BUT INDIVIDUALS, SO ITS ALL ABOUT RESPECT/TRUST HERE. SO SISTAS FEEL FREE TO DROP ME UR POINT OF VIEW ON THIS MATTER, NICE ONE.
PEACE N LOVE
NUF RESPECT
BROTHAS & SISTAS |
| concern | Thursday, February 08, 2001 - 06:43 am
this is the joke and humour page not the dating one.
Wrong place to convey your concerns. |
| TALENTED_SISTER | Friday, February 09, 2001 - 05:01 am
WELL MY BROTHER ALL I CAN SAY IS THAT, YOUR ONE OF A KIND AND BROTHERS LIKE YOU ARE HARD TO FIND!
SO I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY THE GIRL YOUR WITH OR WAS WITH IS DOING THAT TO YOU!
SOME GIRLS WORK IN DIFFERENT WAYS!
MOST PEOPLE IN THIS CENTRY ARE WESTERNISED, GIRLS TEND TO NOT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT ANY MORE! REASON BEING IS THAT THEY COULD HAVE BEEN HURT IN THE PAST! AND DON'T WANT THE SAME TO HAPPEN TO THEM AGAIN!
I HOPE I HAVE HELPED YOU WITH YOUR QUESTION!
P.S I HOPE YOU FIND THE RIGHT GIRL! |
| JasminE | Friday, February 09, 2001 - 09:31 am
To Mr.Ordinary
Nice nickname............Anyways I would like to try to answer your question in a way that you would understand and appreciate it. Let me start off saying that it is not only sisters that are afraid of commitments now a days but also brothers. The only reason why they seem afraid is because they are terrified they'll be disappointed later on in life. Yes, we sisters want to be treated with respect, and if a sister plays you or takes that for granted than you don't need her. And also if some one is cheating on you ofcourse than that person is also not right for you, no matter what excuse she uses. In order for two people to have a relationship they need to have a matual trust and respect for one another and also not be afraid to say whats on their mind. And if a sister doesn't want that than don't get involved with her. Anyways I hope I answered your question in a way that you wanted. |
| Anonymous | Friday, February 09, 2001 - 06:34 pm
I AGREE WITH CONCERN,
GO TO SOME DATEING SERVICE OR SOMETHING,
THIS IS FOR JOKES......... |
| Mr Ordinary | Saturday, February 10, 2001 - 04:23 am
Sup peoples
First of all concern & anonymous if u aint intelligent enough to understand and make a comment about what I asked then there are plenty of other pages on this site for people like u, peace. And for the sistas thanx first for dropping ur comment, u r both right in more or less saying a lot of our people have developed many western habits. So therefore are forgetting all about the morals and principles that our culture and most important of all our parents have brought us upon. But surely if a brotha or a sista is scared to commit all their life, then they are not going far, as u need to meet good people as well as bad (hopefully not too bad) people in order to find whats right for u.
hollow back if u got more to say
nuf respect |
| Mr Ordinary | Saturday, February 10, 2001 - 04:26 am
By the way talented sister thnx for the comment, but as my name states am just an ordinary guy, nothing special, who knows to stay true to his game. Seems like u aight too,
peace
nuf respect to u |
| SWEETLADY | Saturday, February 10, 2001 - 08:37 am
To ordinary Guy.
Brother I agree with you and I also dissagree.
AGREE because"
Most girls are so afraid of our guys. This is do to their self esteem. We don't thing that a guy can devote their life to and they think that it is too much. We also believe that if you go through hell, then it is worth it at the end.It is like hard work pays later, so no matter how much couples go through a taugh time, if they are meant to be eath other, then they will
I DON"T AGRREE WITH That because:
It goes for the guys too. THis is a culture that we beleive in and we can't skip it through. No matter how much a man or a lady is sweet, iot is in our blood.
Some men and women like to play games and they think it is part of life. |
| Medina | Wednesday, February 14, 2001 - 05:18 pm
Brother don't stress yourself if you were treating her the way you were suppose to and being respectful of her and she still didn't want to commite or to be with you then she proabably wasn't the one for you and it probably wasn't meant to be so forget about it and hopefuuly you will find some good Somali sista who can appreciate you. Peace. |
| THE_PIMP | Wednesday, February 14, 2001 - 10:16 pm
hey ordinary guy if i can give you the best advise is that ITS ALL UNDERSTANDING IF YOUR GIRL
UNDERSTANDS YOU THATS ALL YOU NEEDbut sometimes
things go wrong so take it little by little and one more thing if you are in a relationship with
someone don't rush into it wait 'till both of you take it to diffrent level then comitment comes
ain't that right then take it from there
NO WOMAN LIKES A MAN WHO RUSH IN TO SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP if the mood isn't right.
but if its thats diffrent case.. latter nigga |
