    TD | Wednesday, October 18, 2000 - 09:35 am IS IT ME WHO HAS A PROBLEM OR IT IS THE OTHERS. IN THIS LIFE NO1 WILL TELL I HAVE A PROBLEM UNLESS U R BRAVE ENOUGH. BACK HOME I HAVE NEVER HEARD PPL COMPLAING OR FINDING HARD TO MEET IN ORDER TO GET MARRIED OR FRIENDSHIP.iN EUROPE IT IS ALMOST THE OPPPOSITE OR THE OTHER WAY ROUND. I ASK A LOT OF PPL WHAT THEY THINK? THE CAUSE? AND SO ON. I FOUND OUT THAT GIRL OR WOMAN AT LARGE HAVE CHANGED AND THE MEN ARE NOT FAR FROM WHERE THEY WAS. SOMALI WOMAN EMANCIPATED AT THE END OF THE 20 CENTURY BUT THE GUYS SHOULD NEVER HAVE LET THEM. IT IS A PITY TO SEE WHEREVER U GO NOW,SINGLE MOTHERS,SINGLE FATHERS, OLD WOMAN WITH THEIR KIDS. AND WORST OF ALL YOUNG PPL WORRY ABOUT WHO THEY GONNA MARRY. OF COURSE THE GIRLS ARE PLAYING HARD TO GET. SO THE GUYS HAS TWO OPTIONS: 1) GO STRAIGHT TO THE NEAREST JAD SHOP "MAFRESH" AND BECOME A "FARAH". WHEN IT CAMES TO TALK TO THE GIRL HE EITHER TEAS THEM OR STAY QUIET. BOTH WAYS GIVE GIRLS THE OPPORTUNITY TO RUN. 2) HE IS GOING TO WORK HARD FOR 5 YEARS AND GET MARRIED TO A YOUNG GIRL(18). THE YOUNG WILL GET MARRIED AT HILTON OR SOMEWHERE LIKE THAT AND A YEAR LATER SHE WILL SHOW HIM THE DOOR. RESPECT GOES BOTH WAYS I RESPECT OUR WOMAN AND THEY RESPECT ME. GUYS IT IS TIME TO HEAL OUR WOMAN 4 REEL.SO LADIES STOP BEING HARD ON THEM. LAST AND NOT LEAST LET'S COMMUNICATE TO MAKE THINGS RIGHT BLEES YA ALL |
    Anonymous | Friday, October 20, 2000 - 12:53 am To TD Hi, by the way how are doing. i just wanna say i agree with you. peace & love hibo |
    Anonymous | Friday, October 20, 2000 - 02:30 am Td i think u r a fool.reason being most somalias are barts, degrading, low mantalitly,and u all are so hostile towards each other just coz u are from a different clan .why is that........................explain ur self .bro peace i'm out |
    TD | Friday, October 20, 2000 - 04:32 am To Hibo hi hibo,i am fine also thanx for understanding sis. TO ANONYMOUS NO 2 What makes u say that I am amongst those u call degrading,low mantalitly?.... What I wrote is a reflexion of what's happening. I was not blaming any1 and at the same time, I was not supporting no 1. U r right when u state som ppl r hostile toward each other because of the clan.It is because of the civile war. Ppl 1 day will realise that it is not acceptable and will move ON. I honnestly think that progress is at the hand of the youth who r the future of the nation. What u think of somali ppl a large is not very important cause at the end of the day it is just ur opinion and opinion varies from one person to another. so my friend u need to face the reality and be cool . |
    Intrigued | Saturday, October 21, 2000 - 05:31 pm Hey TD I just had to comment on how you handled anonymous No. 2, I'm speaking on behalf of most woman when I say the brains is the sexiest part of a man's body and how you responded show that U are not by far any of the situation you brought up that's doing on in Europe.. |
    Doob | Sunday, October 22, 2000 - 12:15 pm Hi all, I agree with u 100% , this is th way it goes for most young somalis these days. We have a big problem.. we never enjoyed somalia we can't enjoy the West. In realtionship most nice girls are living with thier dad and moms. The chances u meet one and get a converation goen is nil at least where iam at now..canada. The one i see moslty at clubs are hopless cases, one night with this guy, one night with that guy. a circle. For girls is the same problem i asuumme they can't meet a nice guy and if they do they can't tell, they spend most of the time home coocking or helping thir mom.. and on the phone gossiping with their girl friends.. so it goes both ways.. Somali girls when they get furstarated they complain about us..and how they can't meet a nice guy..and this and that..and us complian about the bitches we see in clubs and call somali girls cheap and clean..cuase thats what we see in the middle of the night out in the street...its a dilemma!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! so at leasdt thats what i think..nice topic..though l like this..keep the feed back.. later all |