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     | Saturday, March 24, 2001 - 01:01 am okay this might sound a bit naive but i am just wondering can girls an boys be just platonic friends? i really do not know , if you have any suggestions as long as they are helpful then please leave a message.
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| | Monday, March 26, 2001 - 12:18 pm what up yasmin yeah i think they can be friends but what kind of friends do you want i can be yourfriend if you live n. america byeee
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| | Tuesday, March 27, 2001 - 02:29 am To yasmin That is the point what I'm looking for, can boys and girls just be freind yeah? To me I think yes but somali guys think (si kale) you know If u do something nice for them the think your in love whit him or something like this.you know and that is why I think somali guys must be more (reer magaal). jaaw jaaw honey
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| | Tuesday, March 27, 2001 - 04:44 am hi! yasmin i think if the girl is beautiful they cant jus friends,but if they are religous to each other they can be friends if the girl wants
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| | Tuesday, March 27, 2001 - 05:03 am can boys and girls be just friends? I have been asking same question my self. but what I have seen is that same girls have problems of being friend with the boy,when a boy want to be just a friend of her,she thinks that his try to find ways to get to her,
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| | Tuesday, March 27, 2001 - 10:38 am Hi jamal I"ll be our friend ok,if u let me
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| | Tuesday, March 27, 2001 - 05:04 pm yasmin I presonaly they can be friend but is depends on the people if don't have any feeling for each other then that's cool
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| | Tuesday, March 27, 2001 - 10:50 pm To jey We have the same point u know, but the guys r like what u said not the girls.
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| | Wednesday, March 28, 2001 - 08:27 am Asalamu alaykum I don't really think a girl and boy could be just friends. WHy? Well is like this, lets say a boy and girl went to get couple of coffee because they're just friends. She laughs and he laught with her. Hey since they' are having great time they go out again. Next time coffee is replaced by lunch, lunch to dinner. My might even touch and hug. But that might not even seem a big deal to them. And so on, you probably know where i am heading. My main point is things will lead to something. If Second Glance at the Opposite Sex is Haram i don't think is even allowed to have friendship with the opposite sex in our religion. Except boys who are relatives of yours. This is just my opinion, hey i could be wrong, if i am please correct me. take care wasalam
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| | Wednesday, March 28, 2001 - 10:05 pm Yeah jasmine you got right there me and my man was only friends before our relationship. then he started shukansi whit me and i liked him before he said that he loves me. And now we are maried n got a beatiful little dotter. so boys and girls just be friends if you like it and se what thae destiny is searching fore GOD LUCK Your sista!!!
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| | Thursday, March 29, 2001 - 02:38 am To all No Jazmin I think to have a boyfreind and a freind is divrant you know couse what we meant is just freind not goingout or something like thit goingout is meant only for the ppl who r not moslim we r moslim we can't go out whit man together in some place a long you know we have to stay at home. if u have boyfreind he must visit u in your home If u r moslim goingout is when you and him marrid than mybe yes. I'm i right guys? if is not let me know? take care all. bye bye Hani
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| | Thursday, March 29, 2001 - 04:54 pm To : Hani salaamz sis, I believe you heard the phrase that "the best man you can get is the one that knows you very well", and that is of course your friend. Like sis Muna said, Her man and herself were friends at first and there friendship developed in to love and so on.masha allah they have a beautiful dauther.. So sis we all know there is difference between being friends, and having a boyfriend. I just wanted to point out that friendship can always lead to somewhere. wasalam
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| | Friday, March 30, 2001 - 10:32 am To yasmin.. Hell no they can't be friend what hell they could do together aint no funn unless they are doing hhhhhh you know wat mean....
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| | Friday, March 30, 2001 - 10:50 pm depand how sexy the girls looks. she can be my friend if she is only ugly.
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| | Saturday, March 31, 2001 - 09:02 am SUP GUYS/GIRLS WELL A GUY/GIRL CAN BE FRIEND AND THEY CAN EVEN BE TRUE FRIENDS AS LONG THE GUY HAS GIRLFRIEND AND AS LONG THE GIRL HAS BOYFRIEND BUT TO SOME PEOPLE IT DOESN'T MATTER BOY/GIRL FRINED IF YOU HAVE OR NOT. FOR ME I BELIEVE BOYS/GIRLS CAN BE MY FRIENDS OR BEST AND I'M A GIRL AND I HAVE MANY GUY THAT WE ARE FRIENDS AND SOME WE ARE BEST FRIENDS AND WE HELP EACH OTHER EVERY THING AND USA IS BIG PLACE AND NEW WORLD TO US SOMALIA. YES U CAN BE FRIENDS WITH BOYS/GIRLS AS LONG YOU DON'T HAVE FEELING FOR THEM AND YOU CAN MARRIED YOUR FRIEND IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN. PEACE TO BRO/SIS BYE BYE P.S IF YOU WANT TO E MAIL ME HERE IT IS IFRAH_IFRAH@HOTMAIL.COM
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| | Saturday, March 31, 2001 - 06:10 pm hey all!! i just wanna say that this topic is interestimg and really there is no straight answer u know yes or no, but i reaaly believe that it dependz on the 2 ppl, also i would like 2 point that some ppl were saying stuff about beuty and guyz can be freindz wit a girl if she is only ugly but ppl wake up and please learn the meaning of friendship,see i like my freindz 4 who they are ,their personality etc so by end of the day it's up 2 u 2 decide that. hope that answers ur q sis shukri
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| | Monday, April 02, 2001 - 03:54 am to musal mar waad iga qosolsiisey marna waa iga yaabisay walaalkiis only uly women he walaahi you'r funny guy hani bye
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| | Monday, April 02, 2001 - 03:56 am sexcangel you right sis or bro what every you'r. bye
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| | Tuesday, April 03, 2001 - 10:25 am to my opinion friendship has acomprehensive meaning but it all depends on where its intended in that present situation but to me anyone can be afriend to any human being regardless of the genda when iam saying this i don't include in my idealogy anyone who is oportunistic and who takes advantage of any situation that arises iam afriend to my friends girlfriend and many others i have never any devilish intention. i know anything is possible but i don't expect them to think iam only interested in any sexual interaction so it all depends to what capacity ur friendship can go without intimidating or having any hiden agenda as a friend but plain friendship is what i will recomend as per my judgement and findings as far as my experiences can teach me,many know more about me so its just an opinion.
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| | Saturday, April 07, 2001 - 10:14 am I think girls and guys can never bee freinds I am a guy and i know guys it all comes down to this all the guys really want is to get in to the girl's panties. that is it! Whether a guy plays a freinship card or not ultimately the guy is hoping to get some thing out of it Any guy's chance is when the girl is down and needs a shoulder to cry on. thats where the guy comes in as a freind of course!
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| | Saturday, April 07, 2001 - 02:17 pm yes .. a woman and a man can be just platonic friends, as from experience most of my friends are male they to me are easier to get along with....... and there is also the man who acts to be your friend until the day he gets into your pants but u will know that one so it is possible for a woman and man to be friends my best friend is a man and his more like a brother figure women to me are another case difficult, envious, and they just got too much drama take care bibi
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| | Sunday, April 08, 2001 - 03:25 am I wonder why some ppl sayin that there is no friendship can heppen among the 2 gender. To me and every body who thinks Well it can happen as it should be. i think some ppl don't realise how imporatnt is to have a female/ or male friend, AS we males we can't act natural when we are with females bcose most of guys think that being with a female and not to having a hot chocolate z is shame lol.. bros it is not shame m tellin u . 4 reall i don't wonder why most of our somali girls can' get on with us that's bcose we act weird even can't hold normal conversation bcose we got too many things wizzing in mind every time we look at them. i hope we improve how to click with our girls in a good friendly way since it is not all about relation ship/ marriage.
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