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Being a mother is not a likely path for all women; society expect this but Allah chooses who to bless(or burden, depending on your views) children with.

Women should not hang social expectations over their heads when it comes to matters of Al-qaib. A healthy outlook for any young woman would be ...

Being a mother is not a likely path for all women; society expect this but Allah chooses who to bless(or burden, depending on your views) children with.

Women should not hang social expectations over their heads when it comes to matters of Al-qaib. A healthy outlook for any young woman would be ...

Children are a joy,
just being around them energizes me, makes my probelems go away.
who needs zoloft or xanax?
for you overmedicated Americans, next time you are feeling down, take your nieces or nephews or even your neighbors kids to the park.

I'm not sure such dependancy on children for one's ...

LightAtNight wrote:Since I was a kid, I've always imagined myself as becoming a father one day and having a lots of kids, but as time went by I changed my mind, am not sure I want to have kids anymore

What do you think changed your mind?

Children are a joy,
just being around them energizes me, makes my probelems go away.
who needs zoloft or xanax?
for you overmedicated Americans, next time you are feeling down, take your nieces or nephews or even your neighbors kids to the park.

I'm not sure such dependancy on children for one's ...

Sauron wrote:When someone wishes to have kids you make dua for them, do you also make dua for them not to have any if they don't want kids?

Wat do you think Mr sheikh Hyper!

Why not? We should always make dua for people regardless

Anything to keep you in their life permanently they will do. For that reason, the poster of this thread is another female who will change her mind as soon as she finds the right Farax whom she will be obsessed with to have his kids.

Not all woman are fickle minded

Soomaalidu waa dad cajiib ah! Someone says they don't wanna have children, or even wanna marry, and they'll try to come up with all kinds of examples, explanations, "personal experiences" and such of why you should have children/marry. Your experience in life must match theirs, regardless of ...

Thank you so much to everyone who has supported me, I really appreciate it.

Also, abortion under certain criteria is actually allowed Islamically. Of course, what those criteria are fall under the realm of scholarly discussion which we are not at liberty to engage in.

And those who think I'll ...

I met this 99years old man sometimes back.

I asked him, you have had a very long life. You are still going strong (he was healthy & fit for his age) what was it like?

His answer: it was a fantastic journey but he has only one regret, he never had kids nor grandkids. He said he wished he had some ...

I think someone said it best earlier: children are either a blessing or a fitnah. There are no guarantees in life and what kind of person they will become. And I'm not willing to gamble and find out, lol.

She has ayy and sometimes siday ula hadasho[she treats him like her baby] just makes me want to tear up!


Hyper there's no such thing as pet parents stahp! That's cringeworthy stuff.

i wouldn't treat my kids any better than my pet. kids wont stay kids. they grow and be human and annoying . no ...

She has ayy and sometimes siday ula hadasho[she treats him like her baby] just makes me want to tear up!


Hyper there's no such thing as pet parents stahp! That's cringeworthy stuff.

i wouldn't treat my kids any better than my pet. kids wont stay kids. they grow and be human and annoying . no ...

There is nothing wrong with your decision, mate. Don't let strangers dictate how you wanna live your life, especially on one of the most important responsibilities one can embark on life, bringing children into the world.

I am a guy in my thirties and not only am I not planning on having children ...

My sister used to openly say she wants no kids and no man for a long time. Shes happily married and got 4 now and she wasn't even pressured into marriage or anything. Its always the well educated ones who say these type of things from what ive heard, I don't know. Do you at the end of the day.

As ...