Unusual Meeting!
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Unusual Meeting!
If someone asks your hand in marriage, you hardly know the guy and maybe you saw him 3 or 5 times in your entire life and last time you saw him was almost a decade ago and out of the blue, the next time he sees you, asks to marry him. How could you react to that? Life is such a weird stage!
Re: Unusual Meeting!
Yes it's awkward, but why would one consider it? As long you know the person and have developed some bond with that person it's ok. It's like marrying a complete stranger, scary to even imagine it.
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- Mzbeautifull
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- Mzbeautifull
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Re: Unusual Meeting!
again
freak!

Re: Unusual Meeting!
there are two ways to react to it.
1. roll the dice and say yes.
2. tell him to back down lil bit.
1. roll the dice and say yes.
2. tell him to back down lil bit.
Re: Unusual Meeting!
Navy9 wrote:If someone asks your hand in marriage, you hardly know the guy and maybe you saw him 3 or 5 times in your entire life and last time you saw him was almost a decade ago and out of the blue, the next time he sees you, asks to marry him. How could you react to that? Life is such a weird stage!

I don't know how I would react....I guess it would depend on how I felt about the person.
How did you react?
- LaQaNyO
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Re: Unusual Meeting!
I've seen this happen twice now within a year.... and both girls have agreed to go ahead with it and they are Married now. However, ive also noticed a pattern in these two scenarios
but i shall leave that info undisclosed.
Laakiin all i can say is pray salatul istikhaar- if u are unsure about what to do... in the sense that you are sort of putting it into consideration..
Or on the other hand if you are baffled by their stupidity and artificial guts nd dnt no how to break the NO down to them.... its simple jst write NO down for them on a piece of paper.
Leysuma jilciyo nimanka nocaas ah..because two softies dnt get far, sheeko cantayn maanta oo dhan kama dhamaneysaan.
Best of luck

Laakiin all i can say is pray salatul istikhaar- if u are unsure about what to do... in the sense that you are sort of putting it into consideration..
Or on the other hand if you are baffled by their stupidity and artificial guts nd dnt no how to break the NO down to them.... its simple jst write NO down for them on a piece of paper.

Best of luck
- American-Suufi
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Re: Unusual Meeting!
u should thoroughly know the person u want 2 spend the rest of ur life with. i will hire a private detective to find out the gal i will marry.
- QansaGabeyle
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i always reject everything that is offered to me without soliciting it. Scary shit.
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Re: Unusual Meeting!
out of the blue should be treated as shockingly as it sounds. breath slowly and walk out slowly. they guy has burnt many bridges, and trust me when i say that 

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10yrs is awfully long time. Dude must be hiding something.
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Re: Unusual Meeting!
Sagaashan wrote:out of the blue should be treated as shockingly as it sounds. breath slowly and walk out slowly. they guy has burnt many bridges, and trust me when i say that

As 4 the topic -- Despite the few years u lot knew each other - He still remains a stranger, with completely unknown profile. I doubt whether u can sit comfortably next 2 him, and have a normal conversation, let alone tying the knot, Lol....
- suga_n_spice
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Re: Unusual Meeting!
awww, how cute. marriage proposals r flattering, but u should never take them serious
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Re: Unusual Meeting!
If it were me and a girl i havent seen for 10 years wanted to get married out of the blue, it would depend on several things...her face, her chest, her booty, etc.
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Lol@ Navy...Meen dah, 7ad na3rafu?Navy9 wrote:If someone asks your hand in marriage, you hardly know the guy and maybe you saw him 3 or 5 times in your entire life and last time you saw him was almost a decade ago and out of the blue, the next time he sees you, asks to marry him. How could you react to that? Life is such a weird stage!
If I hardly knew him and he asked me to marry him, I would say wtf? ...joking aside, those things are normal in our culture, I suppose it would entirely be up to you and your impressions of him.
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