Having yo mate over yo home for dinner

[KUUSH]

Kuush

Inagu gaalo ma nihin..dhaqan iyo diin bayno leenahy.You should check her background before you ask her hand, taana waxa ku shaqo leh ayeeyo caasho iyo eedo Siraad.Familiygaaga ayaa naagta warkeeda oo dhan ku keenaya...haday reer fiican ka dhalatay amba reer gaajo ah.Markaad inanta reerka waydiisatidna they ill check ur background as well..meshad ku dhuustay iyo halkaad ku noolan jirtay...hadaad reer wada sakhraan meeran ah ka dhalatay..hadu aabaha boqol naagood leeyahy....ur whole life story baa la soo qodaya.Waa sida Dhaqankeeno yaa akhi ee sheeada gaalada ka bax.

sis what yo talkin about is arranged marriage were yo family do most of search. why do i have to depend on other people when i am making the most importent dicision of my life. it does not make sense. besides, somalis are known lairs, when it comes something like that.

[Basra-]

Kush...that will be extremely awkward. I mean, if i were the parent of the girl-- my mind would always me on these crucial question. Did she sleep with this fool? Is my girl a virgin? Should i chop this nigga's head off???

[mahdi01]

I wonder how many parents would approve their daughters to have dates with guys at the park or the back seat of a tinted vehicle, because we all know in the west couples date at least few months before they get marry, and there is nothing can stop a girl creeping to the apartment of her love.

I am sure most of parents would preferred anyone who is interested their daughters to come to their home straight and have his dates right there in the living room, if you are up to good cause, there is no reason to afraid of the family you want to marry their daughter,

It is good thing also to investigate the girl’s parents as soon as you see her as a potential wife, to me I didn’t care it in the past, but I see now days many guys complaining about their inlaws especially those inlaws addicted to Khat, and it is something I am giving inquisitive look

[sadeboi]

Personally my mother has met or spoken to women I have dated in the past. And she informs me any women you think is good for you introduce her. I do not see anything wrong in meeting peoples parents.

[Gacalisa]

well traditioanally meeting parants is one of the best ways to actually get to know the guy!! i mean youre family is the ultimate judges!! friends will only tell you what you want to hear! A farax has to meet my parents if he wants any long term relationship with me, even if we're not talking marriage!

[Warsan_Star_Muslimah]

I Agree with helwa.

[Nabeela]

naag adan qabin odan going to ask her hand
mahad aqalkooda ka dooni?

wa wahad ko oran: inantiinan darbiyada kola shekeyta ye brasho wanaksan?

wahas daqan ma aha.

[KUUSH]

Most of halimos here showed that thier parents has not trust on thier judgement. it's not a crime or sin to bring some one whom yo dating to yo home for dinner, infact it's the most respect that a man can pay to a girl whom he dating with to go to her home and meet her parents. it reflects his seriousness of the relationship. somali parents need to learn how to truse thier children's judgement and be friends with them so they consult with them when they had an issue. otherwise, some one else will who may not give them the best advise.

[curious cat]

if he wants to get to know her ane the family and is not up to no good. Than is ok.