Having Children Doesn't Make You Happier

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that's life adeer, it comes with a package, you have to accept bad and good and wish for the best.

imisa dad wanagsan , have to deal with bad kids! even prophets' happened to them.

that shows you have limit control over things, all you have to do is to do your job best you can.

you're part of Allah's big plan, you're just fraction of the things havening around you.

yes kids distract you and once you have a child , your life changes and it's not yours any more.

you've to consider some one else. it's huge responsibility and not every one can handle it well.

there is no seperate manual comes with each child you're having. each child is different.

growing up as a child always wondered why ibn qiam and ibn taimia never married..lol

i was big fan of them and read for them in very early age.