Dont push a hadith in pples faces?....so we should't follow the sunnah miyaa....inanti sharaf leh guriga hooyadeed ba laga soo dooneya...sumcadeeda ba ka horeysa..she doesn't need to chase any man...he will be running after her.Again everything is written...wixi ilaahy ku qorey kuma dhaafeyan...so what if you get married in ur 30s...just stay fit and look like you're in 20s.It seems to me E-sista you're afraid to be old.Cimri dheer cibaado suuban ku duceeyso ya ukhti.Enlightened~Sista wrote:The Patriot,
those who go to clubs are not looking for marriage are they?
Helwaa..that hadith is not relevant to this discussion.I'm not saying we follow other ppl's dhaqan and cadaat..let's go BACK TO OUR OWN, back in Somalia a girl who is in her late twenties/thirties who is unmarried and without children is UNHEARD of. Attractive or Unattractive they all get married and have a couple of kids by that age. That is because they are not awkward when dealing with men..don't push ahadith in other ppl's faces, don't shut themselves off in their homes etc etc. They totally lack the ''haraam! haraam! fitnah! ' attitude which you and Patriot, Surrender, Nobleman display.
