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When ppl get married, does the guy pay for the rent & bills

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In the West, even if the girl is working?


If this is the case I could save a lot more than I am projecting :notsure:
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Why separate the husband from the wife? They pay it together. :up:
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why pay rent when u can get pregnant and get a crizz 2 bedroom council house.???
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yes and even if you live with your bf he has to pay everything from bills to meals
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Casanova25 wrote:yes and even if you live with your bf he has to pay everything from bills to meals


Boyfriend? Nigger is you high? Walahi you're not caadi :mindblown:
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ZubeirAwal wrote:Why separate the husband from the wife? They pay it together. :up:

So you working wife pays the bills too. Can she also be equal partners with u in the marriage...or are u still wearing the pants?
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^ No.. you misunderstood what I said, the husband has to have the monetary responsibility in the household, i.e being capable to provide for the family, but in this case I was assuming Jas meant if both were working (dual-income marriages), which is something that I personally disagree with.

Women are rabbatal-manzil, just because we live in a age unparalleled in history in terms of entertainment, luxury and desires doesn't mean we shouldn't forget that.
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The husband should always cover the rent, insurances and utilities bills,while the wife should cover the basic things like the groceries, clothing,etc.
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Amira143 wrote:
Casanova25 wrote:yes and even if you live with your bf he has to pay everything from bills to meals


Boyfriend? Nigger is you high? Walahi you're not caadi :mindblown:
You live in the UK but in my area the Diasporas just move in together without nikah. ( I don't support this just so you don't mis quote) :lol:
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ZubeirAwal wrote:Why separate the husband from the wife? They pay it together. :up:
Astaqfurullah, akhi it is your responsibility as the man to be the head of the household and guide them including through paying the bills. I can see Zulaika's reasoning more clearly :MJ:

blizzard90 wrote:why pay rent when u can get pregnant and get a crizz 2 bedroom council house.???
Oh God the idea of that kind of life is depressing as hell

DANGIRL wrote:The husband should always cover the rent, insurances and utilities bills,while the wife should cover the basic things like the groceries, clothing,etc.
That's like the best thing to spend money on anyway

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Why not have non joined account and budget together?
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Of course! The husband is obliged to provide for his wife and children and pay for everything regardless of who earns between the two. That's why men have more responsibilities in Islam. He is the BREADWINNER!
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If u are cute and know how to shake it well ofcourse
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DeeqaDagan wrote:Of course! The husband is obliged to provide for his wife and children and pay for everything regardless of who earns between the two. That's why men have more responsibilities in Islam. He is the BREADWINNER!
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Perfect_Order wrote:Astaqfurullah, akhi it is your responsibility as the man to be the head of the household and guide them including through paying the bills.
Astaqfurullah, akhi it is your responsibility as the man to be the head of the household and guide them including through paying the bills.
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dangirl is so dumb looooool kulaha clothing :dead: hey baby I need a new shirt and a jacket
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