
Here is how our brain works, notice where Romance is located.

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Nabeela wrote:I am just curious, how important do you think romance is to a relationship, marriage, and what is romance to you fellow Snetters?
I know, I know, usually Somalis and Romance don't mix, but there's always the exception lol. Anyhow my friend who got married two years ago is always telling me, Nabeela married life is marax abaayo, ha isku gursan, and goes on and on about how her husband doesn't have a romantic bone in his body and pretty much romance is non existent in her marriage, etc, etc. But I can't help but think it's more so her HUSBAND and not the marriage in general. Waxan ku iri nayaa maxad romance iyo waxas ku fali as long as he's good to you and loves you, and if romance is really important to you do something about it, and if your man is a little dense, give him a hint, wear a sexy, hot night gown once in a while or give him a massage when he comes home from fadhi ku dirir,or just bluntly tell him what you want and need, and if you are not comfortable doing any of those things, buy yourself a romance novel and call it a day, her reply was "Nabeela you simply don't understand abaayo"
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Married people enlighten me,![]()
is there a way to help my friend.