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Shirib wrote:

Crazy Cat Lady wrote: Its halaal but its preferable to marry outside of the family

The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) once told one of his Companions to choose a wife from a tribe different to his, and then to choose for his son a wife from a third tribe, and to seek for his second son a girl from yet another tribe.

http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/Sate ... 9503544772

I'd really like to see that hadith, like where it is from, no source given

Also would like to know why it is preferrable

Crazy Cat Lady wrote:Dead set on that cousin of yours are we?

The_Emperior5 wrote:looooooooooooooool abdikarim
my cousins are the same they are all reer gadiid reer gadiid dhalay hooyadood iyo abahood 6 iyo lix ba uu kala dhexeya

HutuKing01 wrote:Fear Allah swt and do not insult what our religion made xalaal. I respect those who marry with their first cousin,but myself i wouldnt do that.There are enough fish in the sea.

shitguy wrote:

HutuKing01 wrote:Fear Allah swt and do not insult what our religion made xalaal. I respect those who marry with their first cousin,but myself i wouldnt do that.There are enough fish in the sea.

A hutuking ought to marry a hutu queen from the family.

U s a fake king

HutuKing01 wrote:

shitguy wrote:

HutuKing01 wrote:Fear Allah swt and do not insult what our religion made xalaal. I respect those who marry with their first cousin,but myself i wouldnt do that.There are enough fish in the sea.

A hutuking ought to marry a hutu queen from the family.

U s a fake king

Go shit on yourself
The Hutu rules changed.

A recent review (Bennett et al, Journal of Genetic Counseling, 2002) says that, on average, offspring of first-cousin unions have a 2 to 3 percent greater risk of birth defects than the general population, and a little over 4 percent greater risk of early death. While those margins aren't trivial, genetic testing and counseling can minimize the danger. An argument can be made that marriages of first cousins descended from strong stock can produce exceptional children.

*Nobleman* wrote:Most of my first cousins are like sisters, so no. But had i met a first cousin for the first time, then why not.

*Nobleman* wrote:Most of my first cousins are like sisters, so no. But had i met a first cousin for the first time, then why not.

AbdiWahab252 wrote:

*Nobleman* wrote:Most of my first cousins are like sisters, so no. But had i met a first cousin for the first time, then why not.

Nobleman,

There is a daughter of my late cousin (3rd cousin) who is perhaps one of the hottest women I have seen. I met her at an aroos and I couldn't keep my eyes off her but restrained myself from doing anything silly.

After all, it would be odd to be married to a woman who calls you Adeer

AbdiWahab252 wrote:Abdikarim86,

Saxiib, walle I would have wifeyed this woman if I flirted with her. She fit the profile of what I like in a woman: good looks (fair skinned, in shape,long hair), seen but not heard, very traditional, and humble and most importantly, pure Hutu for 5 generations