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BlackVelvet wrote:

Rapidwolverine wrote: Ok I will admit it I married a woman who doesn't wear hijab, and wears pants. Yes and I was attracted to her looks, appearence etc. But now we are married is it not common knowledge for her to change her wardrobe from that of a single woman..To that of a married woman. I believe that is something very obvious!!

Its not about changing her. Its something simple that needs to be adjusted too. Dress like a married woman wear jilbaab etc. Who wears jilbaab - married women. Thats is all.

Dude all women are supposed to wear hijaab and dress decent, not just married women. If you married a woman who doesn't wear hijaab or dress deccently and it wasn't an issue when you were dating, it's hypocritical and dishonest for you to make a big deal about it after the wedding.

Yes I know all women are meant to wear hijab and dress descently but they don't to attract men will she is married now. She got her man so now it is time to detract would be suitors or men who think they have a chance.
Instead she dresses exactly the same as if nothing as changed. No hijab, still wears pants at times, expensive jewelery and lots of perfume.

Yes I know I married a woman for looks I agree. But the difference is she looked that way before marriage that was her single attire. Well now she got her man and its time to have a marriage attire.Simple

It's not that simple walaal.Pple dont change over one night.It seems to me ur wife is still living her single life + you.She is still acting she is home with her mom and dad and wants you to take care of everything.That what happens when pple are not aware of the responsiblities ahead of them and what is expected of her as WIFE.All i can say to you is Allah macaak but if i were you i would set her free before she have any babies.

Thank you walal. However divorce is the last time on my mind. My parents for example used to fight everyday but never mentioned divorce once in their life. That word does not exist in my vocabulary. I learnt from a young age that divorce is a sign of weakness. If you divorce something it means you gave up on it, it’s not worth it and it’s finished. I have never given up in school, work, life and I will not give up on my marriage.
Two things I refuse to give up on marriage and religion.
So I am working on improving her faults. Inshaallah the marriage will be a success.

Rapidwolverine wrote:Thank you walal. However divorce is the last time on my mind. My parents for example used to fight everyday but never mentioned divorce once in their life. That word does not exist in my vocabulary. I learnt from a young age that divorce is a sign of weakness. If you divorce something it means you gave up on it, it’s not worth it and it’s finished. I have never given up in school, work, life and I will not give up on my marriage.
Two things I refuse to give up on marriage and religion.
So I am working on improving her faults. Inshaallah the marriage will be a success.

Funny you say that..yet you married a woman for her look who doesn't even wear hijaab.Well soomalida waxay tiraah ninkan waxa jooga garan waxa soo socda ma karto.Good luck i hope you succed with ur mission.

Yes well things will change, I have a plan to change things. From cooking, to clothes, to working, to her laptop. Its time for things to change yes it will be a mission but I will make a honest woman out of my wife.

I've never seen a man talk about his like this in my entire life, bitch ass farax (sorry for my arabicism) where them babes at sxb or has she refuses to have them too

yunis09 wrote:I've never seen a man talk about his like this in my entire life, bitch ass farax (sorry for my arabicism) where them babes at sxb or has she refuses to have them too

I'd never thought i'd live to see the day where you swear ! lmfao !

Every now and then you have to lie to yourself, who want to feel shallow

Ladyyonelove wrote:

yunis09 wrote:I've never seen a man talk about his like this in my entire life, bitch ass farax (sorry for my arabicism) where them babes at sxb or has she refuses to have them too

I'd never thought i'd live to see the day where you swear ! lmfao !

allah its you, where you been inabti, hows things up there

btw dont watch that and dont get used to it, its one of thing

yunis09 wrote:

Ladyyonelove wrote:

yunis09 wrote:I've never seen a man talk about his like this in my entire life, bitch ass farax (sorry for my arabicism) where them babes at sxb or has she refuses to have them too

I'd never thought i'd live to see the day where you swear ! lmfao !

allah its you, where you been inabti, hows things up there

btw dont watch that and dont get used to it, its one of thing

Lool ofcourse its me ahaha &&& yes am going to ignore that you haven't said that lol I've been hiding for a while but am back now how are you && are you back from your trip yet?

yunis09 wrote:I've never seen a man talk about his like this in my entire life, bitch ass farax (sorry for my arabicism) where them babes at sxb or has she refuses to have them too

The women complain about my methods yet the men say I am weak.

Ok I will be tougher from now on, I am in no way a "bitch ass farax" don't worry brother the wife will be put in her place.

Rapidwolverine wrote:

yunis09 wrote:I've never seen a man talk about his like this in my entire life, bitch ass farax (sorry for my arabicism) where them babes at sxb or has she refuses to have them too

The women complain about my methods yet the men say I am weak.

Ok I will be tougher from now on, I am in no way a "bitch ass farax" don't worry brother the wife will be put in her place.

I love your attitude rapid heres a for trying your best

Thanks I'll keep you updated darling wish me luck