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thehappyone wrote:people cant be different on certain things, every man has the urge to eat food, drink water, destroy a girl, its part of our anatomy, we didnt choose to have sex we were born with the need, there is something horribly wrong with you, im not gonna let it slide as easy as other people, i demand to know what the hell is wrong with u
About time someone put sheikh hyper on the spotlight
grandpakhalif wrote:hyper nothing wrong with you sh. ibn taymiyah was same like you and didnt marry!!
He had concubines.
thehappyone is right, a man's desire to release is as natural as him wanting to eat and sleep. Even a gay man is releasing, he just does it in the wrong place with the wrong type of person, but being asexual, how the hell is a person suppose to repress that all his life damn
People have their reasons of not wanting kids or marrying. We have to respect that.
I want to have maybe 5-7 kids but once I'm in my mid 30s if still alive. I will be mentally ready. I want my home at least 75%-100% paid off before I have any children in case I were to die.
I know a guy who married and hes unemployed and has no car or anything. Same with his wife. And shes pregnant. They bum off their parents and older siblings... in a town where rent is $1800/monthly for a 1 bedroom
I am,
Abdi "Marriage/having kids should be taken very seriously" Johnson
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Abdijohnson is a example of the new generation that got their head on straight. Thats a good plan. However wouldn't you at 35, and a 15 year gap between your wife be awkward ?
STARKAST wrote:Abdijohnson is a example of the new generation that got their head on straight. Thats a good plan. However wouldn't you at 35, and a 15 year gap between your wife be awkward ?
Star
I think u r a disgusting Djiboutian. What do u think?
I will seek a wife around 25-28 from here with acceptable income coming in. She must work park time when she's breastfeeding and full time when she is not. Not some housewife from some village taking ESL at the Y who eats my leftovers
If you do not have the bare minimum of one year of living costs saved and no job/unsteady job, you have no business marrying and having kids
AJ: your comment is the only response that makes sense. . Only insecure, controlling man will marry a smelly chick from a village. How do they even understand each other. .
I grew up with a different attitude on children. My parents never wanted more than 3 kids. They firmly believed in quality of child rearing over quantity of children. Perhaps they did not follow cultural precepts or higher education might have been an influencing factor. In any case, I have spoken to people from larger families and they appear to be disgruntled about being given a heavy load of co-parenting their siblings, this might further propel them to marry early to escape, or delay marriage and have far fewer children than their parents.
Lillaahiya wrote:InshaAllah I have all my kids before 35
Waa hadi lagu qoray, bal ka waran hadaad nin guursatid at 35 oo xiliga caruur dhalis aad biloodid.Aduunkan wax kasta wa iska qoraal.Inshallah khayr baan ku rajeynaya.
Wa qoraal laakin let a girl dream I have 11 years till 35 inshaAllah You know they say failing to plan is planning to fail Gotta set goals and work towards them.
Caruurtu waa raxmad waa farxad, balse tacab dulqaad ayeeey u bahantahay. Caruur waa iftiin iyo indho faruris rabbina cidwalba wuu awodaaa in uu siiyo balse qaar inaga mid ah uma orna runtii indho u furis markaan leeyahay waa dhinac walba nolasha, iyo walidnimada qofka ilaaah ubad siiyo wuxuu iganaya walidkii dhibta iyo farxada ay kaheleem qofkaas, runtii markaad ilmo dhasho oo ay dhabta ama xabadka ama adoo huda ku dheelaaan ama agtada jeeftaan ma maleen karrid raxma farxada aad dareemayso, ama kula ciyaraaan, ilahoow ilmo la aan hana dhingun ayaa lagu dycaystaa ee lama ducaysto inta caqliga u saaxiibaka kama ducaystaan awlaad waayo waa iftiinka adamaha nolashiisha, aduunka wax walba dhibaa loomaraaa dheefna waa laga helaaa ama waayaa, ilahay inta aan haysan hasiiyo inta haysatana ha u xifdiyo hana uga dhigo baari, aduunka wax walba manta waa la helaa lakiin awlaaad la iska ma helo jirkaaga uga soo goay sidabiuici ah, lol hadal. Hadala qaaar ayagaa kuu horseeda wax waa
! Rabiiyoow walidmo wax la diidoahan ee wax khaieaysan nasiii
Lilaaiya, naag ila jaar ah oo 50 jirta ba wadanki intay tagtay bay nin so guursatey...this is her second husband.She left her ex husband 5 month ago.
Guurki maalayacni bay dadki ka dhigen..a way to get back at eachother.It's easy to get married but making it to last is the hardest part, and keep the family together no matter what problem the couple may face.
Plans are good but keep in mind Allah has his own plans for you too.So at age 30 if you're still at hooyos house ha calool xumaan uun.