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Re: Guys who actually talk to girls come in.

Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 5:11 pm
by Kaafiye
Idman702 wrote:Hey boys. Hope you are all doing well..


I wanted to ask you a question.

I've always wanted to ask my guy friends but I tend to forget. So when you guys see females either at the parking lot, around the Somali mall/restaurant or anywhere while she is walking. When you talk to her for the first time, and ask her number does it always work for you? I mean do they give you their numbers? It always makes me laugh when random guys see me at a place and ask for my number. I don't even know their name, or what they do. I just decline and make up some kind of excuse.



Girls do you give your number at random guys who ask for your number? If so why?
What I would advise a guy to do is to first acquaint himself with the girl. If he likes her personality and can get along with her, THEN he can ask for her number.

And walking up to a girl and asking for her number, that's something we used to do when we were 15 :lol: . It isn't really seen as appropriate anymore, especially amongst Somali females.

If a Somali guy approaches a Somali girl that he likes and asks for her number, she would flatly reject him 9 times out of 10.... even if she likes the guy . I've seen it happen many times before. There's a certain way you talk to women, and coming up to them and asking for their number isn't something I'd recommend

Re: Guys who actually talk to girls come in.

Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 5:18 pm
by AbdiWahab252
SheikHyperow,

I am a odeey who has experience. I kid you not but it's tough out there especially in Galbeed.

Re: Guys who actually talk to girls come in.

Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 5:22 pm
by Hyperactive
AW, adeer, come here, if you are current single, i will get you smart, young (younger than you lol) educated and hafith quran.

accually, her mother told me to get her good man, that i would give to my own sister.

Re: Guys who actually talk to girls come in.

Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 5:42 pm
by AbdiWahab252
Hyper, Adeer, does she work as a nurse? Is she from Jigjiga? I met three sisters there when you avoided meeting me. One was a nurse, another at QF, and Qatar Airways. I miss Doha, it is a great city especially if you are a single man who likes his privacy.

Re: Guys who actually talk to girls come in.

Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 6:21 pm
by COOL-MAN
Abdiwahab,

Say wallahi Hyper refused to meet you in doha?
Sh Hyperow, waa laisku haystaa waxa khaadiga kaa dhigey hadii aad nin marti magaalada aad joogtid soo booqdey oo waliba isaga dalbadey in uu ku arko ama kula kulmo diidey :lol:

Xaal qaado awow 252 :mrgreen:

Re: Guys who actually talk to girls come in.

Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 6:26 pm
by Hyperactive
AW, you never pmed me to meet you. odey, when i told you, will take you to masjid, baad doomatay.

she is not nurse, she she arabic teacher in girls high school with master degree.

coolman, AW is lying. wan so daweyn laha o mid sheekhad ban ko dari laha. he told me after he left.

kan sharaftu ika qaadaya bo raba. imagine, he didnt even visit my father and uncle!! odeygu isaga eebeysan.

Re: Guys who actually talk to girls come in.

Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 6:30 pm
by COOL-MAN
Hyperactive wrote:AW, you never pmed me to meet you. odey, when i told you, will take you to masjid, baad doomatay.

she is not nurse, she she arabic teacher in girls high school with master degree.

coolman, AW is lying. wan so daweyn laha o mid sheekhad ban ko dari laha. he told me after he left.

kan sharaftu ika qaadaya bo raba. imagine, he didnt even visit my father and uncle!! odeygu isaga eebeysan.
:dead: :pac:

Hyperow xaal qaado

Re: Guys who actually talk to girls come in.

Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 6:35 pm
by Hyperactive
wallah coolman, i knew he was playing with me;

hyper coming to doha, hyper do you know mall/shopping center ...bla bla.

i told him, war , come , i will take you masjid and meet my dad and uncle. he could easily say ; i want see us. aabo masajidkiisa logu geyn laha.

AW, loma bihi karo.

Re: Guys who actually talk to girls come in.

Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 6:49 pm
by COOL-MAN
Hyperactive wrote:wallah coolman, i knew he was playing with me;

hyper coming to doha, hyper do you know mall/shopping center ...bla bla.

i told him, war , come , i will take you masjid and meet my dad and uncle. he could easily say ; i want see us. aabo masajidkiisa logu geyn laha.

AW, loma bihi karo.
Sorry shikhow. I believe you. Awow waa shaxaari weynaade. Odeyga was probably waiting for u to say I will take you to the hottest spots in Doha :lol:

Re: Guys who actually talk to girls come in.

Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 7:08 pm
by Sophisticate
AbdiWahab252 wrote:Sophisticate,

I will let you in on a secret. Women mature faster than men. A guy your age is a couple years is less mature than you. You probably are more emotionally mature and know more about the world than his adolescent ass. He won't command the same level of respect or might I saw awe you may have for a fellow who is years older than you. A marriage with a man your age will have unnatural power-respect dynamics.

A Farax your age needs a woman whom he can get the same adoration/respect/awe and that will come from a younger woman. So there you are, 30 years old. The bachelor pool of men your age are casting nets to fish out some younger Xalimos who will shower him with the adoration and look younger to bit. They are less knowledable about the shukaansi game and so are less bitter than a 30 year old. She still sees the positive in men and hasn't been screwed over several times.

But my dear there is hope. Just as you become disorientated by the loud sirens of "GUURSO! GUURSO!" and are about to faint, there is an AW252 ready to scoop you up. Bidaar or calool, he is everything you want: mature, got his shid together, and most importantly, he views you as a young Filly something you will never get from the Farax your age.

Then comes the 'spin' that you will tell your friends who settled years ago: 1. He is mature. 2. He is knowledgeable in everything including relationships. 3. Yes, looks may not be everything but how many handsome assholes have we dated, looks ain't everything.

So my dearest Sophi, be nice and appreciative to the Older Seasoned Farax. It is either him or Ali Salahudiin Walker from the Masjid.



Au contraire,

Your chronological age isn't necessarily the same as your psychological age. You've been around long enough. I'm sure you've come across men that are more stoic and self-reliant than their peers and their elders. It would not be wise of you to make the mistake of assuming fine lines and a protruding belly are signs of sagacity.

Since we're on the subject of age. You can still be close to 30 and have next to no relationship experience or history. Under these circumstances can one be disgruntled and jaded? I think not. Unless of course, not dating has made one bitter. AW252, the more you continue with your unceasing stereotypes, the more you'll come to realize that I break every one. :win:

Although men prefer younger women, nothing suggests that they would deny their peers or someone a few years younger than them. This holds true for men in their 20s that normally marry someone their age or marginally younger. The age-gap difference only increases slightly past the early 30s. This age-gap becomes more pronounced as men approach their 40s and 50s. Your age cohort has experienced a deflated ego that mirrors the size of their atrophied arms, so it's only natural for them to overcompensate by pursing women old enough to be their daughters. After all, they help to keep that peter pan syndrome alive.

I wanted to clarify another mistaken notion of yours. Somali women are blessed with looking considerably younger than their age, myself included. Alhamduilah I have no need to worry about that. Also, I never had a conventional Somali upbringing. My parents are educated and marriage was not their primary goal for me in life, particularly to (1) a senior overcome with delirium (like yourself) or (2)to a vagabond ajnabi at a masjid. I'm Gadabursi, it should be a no brainer what my parents had in mind for me. :lol:

I'll leave you with this. I'm deathly allergic to substantially older men. How can I, a second-generation Somali-American-Canadian (yes I'm a dual citizen) deal with them, a fob that I can barely relate with. It's only natural that my cap on a suitable age gap is 5 years, which is someone no more than 34. This is of course contingent on their age of arrival in the west.

P.S - Thanks Idman. He should give up and try pursuing women closer to his age. :lol:

Re: Guys who actually talk to girls come in.

Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 7:10 pm
by Idman702
Sophie knocked him out.


Game over.


:clap:

Re: Guys who actually talk to girls come in.

Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 7:25 pm
by Sophisticate
Idman702 wrote:Sophie knocked him out.


Game over.


:clap:
Thanks sis. I was hoping he'd come up with something a little less stereotypical. :dead:

Re: Guys who actually talk to girls come in.

Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 8:15 pm
by Idman702
Sophie: he's making draft replies as of right now. :lol:

AW me and Sophie are nice we won't laugh at your face if you surrender duuqa. We will giggle behind your back though. :oops:

Re: Guys who actually talk to girls come in.

Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 8:48 pm
by SolidCamel
Sophisticate wrote: I'm Gadabursi, it should be a no brainer what my parents had in mind for me. :lol:
Image

:win:

Re: Guys who actually talk to girls come in.

Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2015 9:54 pm
by Kaafiye
Idman702 wrote:
SaciidAyanleh wrote:Idman is basic and no fun.

Basic? Wait people still use the word basic in 2015?

Atleast I'm not a closeted gay man who talks shit like a scorned prostitute who never get paid for her services. :pac:
What kind of a man refers to a girl as "basic", especially in this day and age. :lol:

What a faggot :lol: I'm convinced SaciidAyanleh is khaniis.

:pac: