waayeel101 wrote:SiennaEarth wrote:What you guys should worry about is getting fooled and marrying ex whores instead of worrying about garobs. You'd be surprised with the amount of girls I know that ran through towns and pretended to be virgins and got married.
this.
i rather take garoob in xalal way of course but never zaniya. the very first thing you should know about your wife to be is her preview relationships.
mida kale xaged ka kenten nebiga u duceyey garoobta! wa khurafat waxasi. nebigu wuxu amanay bikr.
sumu, it's Aysha bint Abu Bakr not Zaynab.
A woman's past history is hers saxib as long as she is good in the eyes of her creator at the present and she changed her ways for the better. If Allah forgives the sins of muslims who sincerely repent, and he loves them for doing that, who are we to condemn them for those same forgiven sins they have committed in the past?
Looking at a woman's past who changed her ways for the better to deny her a good future is punishment that doesn't fit the crime. Besides, the man who is supposed to be getting married to the woman, soo suuliga intuu galo saxaro kama wareego? I don't see why any man would see himself above a woman regardless of her past if she changed her ways.
A man chooses a woman not for the status of her love cavity and whether she is tight or untouched but for more important qualities that can and will affect how life turns out to be for him and for his kids. Personality and intellect are more important than her duleel, and even if she is religious but ill-tempered and stubborn who doesn't understand how to manage worldly issues, she is just a headache and her religion won't fix issues for her family. There is a lot at stake when it comes to choosing a woman, and the least important in the equation is whether she is bikro or not.
I am inan yar oo yaraan ku guursaday 
