Sophisticate wrote:
You seem rather pragmatic. Kudos to you. I will concede, younger men are better looking than their older counterparts. However, older women-younger men pairings rarely work. The women normally become insecure from the prospect of fading looks, competing with newborns and shorter fertility windows. This is how I see it. Close in age folks work out better, since they both accept the others' short-comings and have become more desperate with time. The desire to create children soon pulls them into the same orbit. While younger folks still believe they have more time, that lots of hair will be shed latter on, or perhaps not and all, testosterone levels are at their peak and the illusion of an ascension in life is still alive and well. Comparatively, their youthful vigor makes them more optimistic than the jaded old fogies.

Trust you to make marriage and life seem to unhuman and boring.
Stop being so Sheldon-like. (TBBT)
Life is meant to be lived, not analyized...
I am pragmatic and I'm clearly for polgany. I want a load of children, as much as I can support, even if I have to let some grow up back home. So a older woman and the fertility window is a non-issue. I will not divorce a woman if she cannot have any more kids, but I will marry again if I want.
Don't chase all younger men away walal, I'm sure guys like me are more than enough
