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Re: My sister wants to marry a Hawiye..my family is in huge
You don't know unless you get your brothers or father tested. You might be more Arab than all of us.


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Re: My sister wants to marry a Hawiye..my family is in huge
It would have depend on what the "reasonable is"...Something along the line of what the OP described is far from 'reasonable' no?sophisticate wrote:I listen to my parents. They don't approve, I don't approve since they are reasonable. But the sixir thing come on.
I think djiboutisomali just wants reer galbeed chicks to himself.
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Re: My sister wants to marry a Hawiye..my family is in huge
Khalid7 wrote:I don't understand why Isaaqs are so racist to Hawiye, yeah we may look more "mixed race" than them....

Nice sentiments except for that line. I wish your sister the best
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Re: My sister wants to marry a Hawiye..my family is in huge
lol keep tab on who she dates in the future to make sure that doesn't happen. BTW i was wondering what took you long to comment on this thread?MrPrestige wrote:What did you expect for them to celebrate Lol? There is a certain stigma attached with Hawiye. I wouldn't let my sister marry Hawiye either, it is too
far and too foreign.
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Re: My sister wants to marry a Hawiye..my family is in huge
Date kulaha you are nuts, do you think they are hablaha Snet ee noolosha ka dhacay Lol. We are a conservative family.
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Re: My sister wants to marry a Hawiye..my family is in huge
Every somali girl wants that big black hawiye ceeb and you cant stop it, there, i said what was on everyone's mind
Re: My sister wants to marry a Hawiye..my family is in huge
thehappyone wrote:Every somali girl wants that big black hawiye ceeb and you cant stop it, there, i said what was on everyone's mind
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Re: My sister wants to marry a Hawiye..my family is in huge
The family hasn't failed me and they provide enough leeway. As I illustrated in my former posts - tribal grounds for rejection would not stick. They prefer sound mind, no drama, and similar values. That normally helps. And please be Somali of the cushitic stock, no fake arabs please.- Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE
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Re: My sister wants to marry a Hawiye..my family is in huge
Wow...I thought only darood had negative stereotypes about Hawaii..but issaqis ..they don't even boarder each other.. wtf
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Re: My sister wants to marry a Hawiye..my family is in huge
^ says more about you if believe the views of an extremist SNet member, who is anti-Isaaq himself, as representative of all Isaaq 
I agree with Lilly & Sophie and the other few SNetters that said, being married is itself a struggle without adding parental habaar & displeasure. You should seek their blessing and as little conflict as possible. That said, qabiil really & truly shouldn't come into it especially if the guy is practicing his diin and is accomplished like Khalid's sister's potential hubby. No Anderson, Nakamura, Khan or Tyrone should have a right to the sisters over their Somali brehs, simple as. It's disgusting to end up in the situation Lillahiya talked about, wal ciyaadu billah

I agree with Lilly & Sophie and the other few SNetters that said, being married is itself a struggle without adding parental habaar & displeasure. You should seek their blessing and as little conflict as possible. That said, qabiil really & truly shouldn't come into it especially if the guy is practicing his diin and is accomplished like Khalid's sister's potential hubby. No Anderson, Nakamura, Khan or Tyrone should have a right to the sisters over their Somali brehs, simple as. It's disgusting to end up in the situation Lillahiya talked about, wal ciyaadu billah
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Re: My sister wants to marry a Hawiye..my family is in huge
Magacan Kaalid7 ninka sitoow kumaad ahaydba miyaan lays odhanayn, mise waa dad uurtu u buuxdo oo wa layskala dabaalan wuxuu mesha ku walaaqayo Cajiib.
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Re: My sister wants to marry a Hawiye..my family is in huge
I marry only with non-somalis.
Never with isaaq siilweyne, hawiye futomadoobe and definetely not darood uraaye.
Never with isaaq siilweyne, hawiye futomadoobe and definetely not darood uraaye.
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Re: My sister wants to marry a Hawiye..my family is in huge
Conservative but fucked by everyone even german grandpa hahahahaMrPrestige wrote:Date kulaha you are nuts, do you think they are hablaha Snet ee noolosha ka dhacay Lol. We are a conservative family.
Will visit Fuckingstreet one of these days
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Re: My sister wants to marry a Hawiye..my family is in huge
Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE wrote:Wow...I thought only darood had negative stereotypes about Hawaii..but issaqis ..they don't even boarder each other.. wtf
Those who dont want hawiye are actually the ones crying for their g1us. They are thinking: hawiye are goodfighters so that makes them goodfuckers aswell
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Re: My sister wants to marry a Hawiye..my family is in huge
Midda adiga wax kaa daydaaba habaaran. Markaad gabdhaha somaliyee caayayso , miyaynan hoyadaa somali ahayn oo ayna kula dhalan Doqon waaxid.AhlulbaytSoldier wrote:I marry only with non-somalis.
Never with isaaq siilweyne, hawiye futomadoobe and definetely not darood uraaye.
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