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Re: when parents overstep their mark...... what do you do...ARR
Posted: Sat Sep 01, 2007 3:08 pm
by Lil_maRlilander
IS DISS UR TOPIC...... B!TCH .........NO IT AINT SO GO SUKK UR MUM......
ILL SAY WAT I FUKING LIKE........... Y HIDE BEHIND A FUKING SCREEN........ CHATTIN SHIT...................
*SLIM*...THUG
Re: when parents overstep their mark...... what do you do...ARR
Posted: Sat Sep 01, 2007 3:09 pm
by Dusty
[quote="East.Co"]lol ...but walahi its not a baac to be living at home wen ur older as long as ur doing somfin wiv ur life as in workin or education...if ur a bum or still in the game of the roadz....dats waaaaaaaaaaaaasted apti...[/quote]
blud it aint about u doing some thing or u aint doin fck all..
from time you become a man you shouldnt be eating your mums food you should be out there experiencing hard life, not coming home and finding that the bariiis is ready for you
(Another day, another dollar, my mother will holla
She said "go and see the world for myself, and my brother should folla')
Re: when parents overstep their mark...... what do you do...ARR
Posted: Sat Sep 01, 2007 6:55 pm
by Mentally-ill-MAN
[quote="Dusty"][quote="East.Co"]lol ...but walahi its not a baac to be living at home wen ur older as long as ur doing somfin wiv ur life as in workin or education...if ur a bum or still in the game of the roadz....dats waaaaaaaaaaaaasted apti...[/quote]
blud it aint about u doing some thing or u aint doin fck all..
from time you become a man you shouldnt be eating your mums food you should be out there experiencing hard life, not coming home and finding that the bariiis is ready for you
(Another day, another dollar, my mother will holla
She said "go and see the world for myself, and my brother should folla')[/quote]
they call dem ciyaal mama
Re: when parents overstep their mark...... what do you do...ARR
Posted: Sun Sep 02, 2007 7:06 pm
by Wild@Heart
UR FRIEND SHOULD STOP DOIN THINGS THAT WILL PISS HIS DAD OFF
Re: when parents overstep their mark...... what do you do...ARR
Posted: Sun Sep 02, 2007 7:27 pm
by Somaliweyn Commando
wtf is this, your PARENTS basically own u and can beat u till their hearts content
I was beaten with anything close to hand, kab, wire, stick, slapped...just laaughed it off later

I truley understand it was for my own good and due to my parents disipline im in university now
I love my family

Re: when parents overstep their mark...... what do you do...ARR
Posted: Mon Sep 03, 2007 9:27 am
by A_I
som of u guys post realy usless replies walahi
fuk sake talk about dumb ass ppl
anywho som of u gave som words of wisdom. much app
but all i wanted 2say 2 somali comando... beaten a child doesnt make him get 2 university. that depends on the person.
understand that parents r humens 2 n can make mistakes.
Re: when parents overstep their mark...... what do you do...ARR
Posted: Mon Sep 03, 2007 10:24 am
by thequeenfromtheeast
Personally I think there is a line between discipline and abuse. True your parents have a certain right over you but been abused is not one of them and also that doesn't mean your parents can do whatever they like to u. You can raise civilised, educated, religious and compassionate kids without the need for violence.
Getting slapped and hit once in a while when you've done something is discipline but getting hit everyday and not feeling safe in your home is not on in my opion. Children are a blessing and deserve to be cared for and loved.
Your friend should either move out or talk to his parents about how he really feels (i doubt this will change anything since your friends situation sounds bad). If not like someone said he should not upset his dad.
All the best
Re: when parents overstep their mark...... what do you do...ARR
Posted: Mon Sep 03, 2007 5:51 pm
by Lil_Cutie..
For as long as your friend does not answer back, hit back or even say 'uff' he is working great rewards his way, InshaAllah..
I'd advice your friend to make duc'aa,never underestimate the power of Duc'aa, and so should you A_I, for his sake. Make duc'aa that Allah makes things easy for him and his father in which ever way possible. Tell him to talk to his father or do other things for him which will increase his deeds.
Your friend should do whatever he can not to upset his father and remain kinship, I know it must be hard but Allah will make it easy for him and with every difficulty Allah is testing us..
The only time it may 'overstep the mark' is if his parents come inbetween him and Allah, so if his parents try to prevent him from praying or worshiping Allah for example. Thats the only time you should disobey your parents, other than that, at all times. No one comes before Allah the All mighty

and the next beloved is our parents (and if the Russullah {saw} was alive he would come next to Allah and before the parents)!

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Re: when parents overstep their mark...... what do you do...ARR
Posted: Mon Sep 03, 2007 6:19 pm
by Mizzy_Xclusive
Move Out
And You Dont Need To Get Beats To Be Good
Da Last Time My Mum Beat Me I Was Like 9
And Im Good

Re: when parents overstep their mark...... what do you do...ARR
Posted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 4:04 am
by Mz_InDz
Nah I reckon ders no point in talking 2 da dad... clearly da father has issues... y da heck u gonna smash a shoe on kids face 4 not turning off da light???
U knw wut da funny fink is – da father prolly doesn't even pay 4 da electricity n claims benefits.
Is da father Muslim by da way?
Re: when parents overstep their mark...... what do you do...ARR
Posted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 6:12 am
by miss_sweets
Parents are your parents you can't change that OBVIOUSLY, but parents have no boundaries no matter what, some abuse their power just like your friends parents..but in all honest theirs nothing he can do, unless he leaves home...
Re: when parents overstep their mark...... what do you do...ARR
Posted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 8:36 am
by xamari_gash
CALL DA COPS