Do you wear the pants in your relationship?

[Aliyah99]

Whoever got the $$$$ is in charge.

[snozzberry]

[quote="SomeGuy"]nobody ever tell us but it was women who always wear the pants. However, some of them have some deceny to understand where buck stops when the going gets tough and how to address their men when the other people are around.

In other words, they don't show their dominancy in their relationship in front of others.

Someguy[/quote]

That is somewhat true. Most people can tell you that behind closed doors in the home its usually the mom running things.

[shidow1]

[quote="Aliyah99"]Whoever got the $$$$ is in charge. [/quote]
true...

[kadafi007]

Yesterday I had a chatt with my friend who is married, he told me.
My wife has taken complete control of my life,Everything I do is looked upon with suspicion.

I've lost nearly all my friends except for those who are married and have submitted a detailed profile of their lifestyle to her, in order to obtain approval to hang out with me, I was just like dude MAN UP but hey his wife is kinda hot he is afraid of losing her the guy is getting weak and insecure.

[SomeGuy]

kadafi,

remember you are only friend!. You have to know your limit!. This guy needs hotbed, hot meal and family. And he is not getting from you!. Why then he will listen to you?. It is not in his interest to listen whatever you have to say!.

You need to back off and chill.


someguy

[shidow1]

Money rules...

[kadafi007]

Some guy ,

My friend is like a big brother I know him since child hood years. And I get on very well with his wife to she is a nice lady, and her Husband is good

guy and they have a great marriage however a unhealthy one A relationship should be based on Love trust and mutual understanding I always remind my friend focus on your priorities which is your familiy and your wife spend quality time with her and gain her trust, which he does he is responsible fella but she is just abusing him mentally and financially , he told me

I haven't seen my pay check in years. Heck! I don't even know how much I earn any more. She deposits every single dime I bring home into a "mystery" bank account, I have no say in any anything it's always her way



I told him straight up your my friend and iam gonna tell you the truth Some men will do anything for their women. Unfortunately, women will see this as a sign of weakness. And then before a man knows it, his woman will be wearing the pants in the relationship, This is why I highly recommend you wear the pants before your wife does. Otherwise, before you know it, you'll be wearing a skirt around the house while dusting the furniture, we both laughed hard but the poor guy is confused and ''thinks the marriage life is a prison''.

[precious_dyme]

War stop blaming the women!!

[kadafi007]

Iam not blaming the woman at all. I was just referring to specific female, and lets be honest some woman do take advantage of a guy his financial status I believe they are called gold diggers.

[HELWAA]

Men has to be controlled esp somali men.

[kadafi007]

[quote="HELWAA"]Men has to be controlled esp somali men.[/quote]

Incase your wondering what the guy his ethnicity is, he is none other then a Somali.

[precious_dyme]

[quote="HELWAA"]Men has to be controlled esp somali men.[/quote]

I agree wit u Somali men kibirka ba kabatay

[Muslimah*]

yep i do if i want sumthin i just make a face lolz nar bt i think im the dominant one in my marriage tho!

[shidow1]

If a woman is controling your life.....you might as well pack and live a single life...lol

[kadafi007]