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Men Who Beat Their Wives!

 
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Re: Men Who Beat Their Wives!

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men should never beat their wives and/or kids. ever.
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Koronto

They usually stay because they think it's their fault or because they think (after having apologized for the millionth time) their husbands will change. Some of them even think that their husbands beating them is a physical manifestation of his love. If that isn't stupidity, I don't know what is.

You say they stay because of their children; they don't want a broken home..But I don't see how having to listen to your parents fight (continously) and seeing your mother all battered and bruised can be in the least bit beneficial. Confused

Don't these women have family members? Why can't they stay with them..And even if they don't live near any of their relatives, there's always a Women's Shelter.

There's always a way out. Staying in such a situation is just stupid.
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[quote="Algebra"][quote="Somali_4Life"]I beat my wife if:
1 she doesnt cook when i come home
2 there is no shaax on table
3 she is tired to have s e x with me.[/quote]

Even the mate that you pay for her to do these things you cannot beat he, you may fire her only.[/quote]

Yes. She is only the maid.


@ the screw,if you dont do it she might go to a man who beats her ass.
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Algebra... is not always as simple as that...

some of these women have been tottally reliant on their men so thay they actuall fear divorce.. so often you'll have the men abusing her and at the same time threatening to divorce. Then again having 6 children , not beying able to speak the language of the country you live in ..and knowing almost nothing about how the system around you works.. is scary!
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no one is holding her back.
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[quote="Somali_4Life"][quote="Algebra"][quote="Somali_4Life"]I beat my wife if:
1 she doesnt cook when i come home
2 there is no shaax on table
3 she is tired to have s e x with me.[/quote]

Even the mate that you pay for her to do these things you cannot beat he, you may fire her only.[/quote]

Yes. She is only the maid.


@ the screw,if you dont do it she might go to a man who beats her ass.[/quote]

Under what law you can beat your maid? Do you allow your boss to beat you? because maid is an employee.
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Ashlee

[quote][/quote]You sympathize with her stupidity?


Trust me it sounds like stupidity but when you know the person and it doesnt seem that way. I am not good at advicing so the best thing to do is to let her come to that realization.

For me I will get a gun and shot his legs as soon as he lays a fingure on me Cool
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Re: Men Who Beat Their Wives!

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[quote="Algebra"][quote="Somali_4Life"][quote="Algebra"][quote="Somali_4Life"]I beat my wife if:
1 she doesnt cook when i come home
2 there is no shaax on table
3 she is tired to have s e x with me.[/quote]

Even the mate that you pay for her to do these things you cannot beat he, you may fire her only.[/quote]

Yes. She is only the maid.


@ the screw,if you dont do it she might go to a man who beats her ass.[/quote]

Under what law you can beat your maid? Do you allow your boss to beat you? because maid is an employee.[/quote]

I agreed with you sxb. Read my post: Yes(i cant beat her). She is only the maid.
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Re: Men Who Beat Their Wives!

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[quote="Leila2007"]Ashlee

[quote][/quote]You sympathize with her stupidity?


Trust me it sounds like stupidity but when you know the person and it doesnt seem that way. I am not good at advicing so the best thing to do is to let her come to that realization.

For me I will get a gun and shot his legs as soon as he lays a fingure on me Cool[/quote]

Honestly, all the abusive relationships I know of are of abusive wives man-handling their husbands. Some have even ended in divorce. Laughing

It's wrong, I shouldn't be laughing, but I can't help it. Laughing
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[quote="Somali_4Life"]


@ the screw,if you dont do it she might go to a man who beats her ass.[/quote]


stupid farax...waryaa u was told to beat it up miyaa?..bacdan inantii feer iyo laad ku bilawdey miyaa? that's why she went to another farax miyaa? Laughing Laughing
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Re: Men Who Beat Their Wives!

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Ashlee,

Its not always that black & white, this issue has been researched & analyzed for decades and there still many unanswered questions as to why abused women remain with their abusers.

In our culture, a woman would rather endure humiliation, mental & physical abuse then seek divorce, because of the stigma attached to being divorced. In addition, most breadwinners are the men and the only source of income for the wife comes from her abuser, by leaving she is afraid of not having that provision.
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Re: Men Who Beat Their Wives!

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[quote="zulaika"][quote="Somali_4Life"]


@ the screw,if you dont do it she might go to a man who beats her ass.[/quote]


stupid farax...waryaa u was told to beat it up miyaa?[/quote]

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Re: Men Who Beat Their Wives!

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[quote="Somali_4Life"][quote="Algebra"][quote="Somali_4Life"][quote="Algebra"][quote="Somali_4Life"]I beat my wife if:
1 she doesnt cook when i come home
2 there is no shaax on table
3 she is tired to have s e x with me.[/quote]

Even the mate that you pay for her to do these things you cannot beat he, you may fire her only.[/quote]

Yes. She is only the maid.


@ the screw,if you dont do it she might go to a man who beats her ass.[/quote]

Under what law you can beat your maid? Do you allow your boss to beat you? because maid is an employee.[/quote]

I agreed with you sxb. Read my post: Yes(i cant beat her). She is only the maid.[/quote]

You are the man, go brag around for beating a maid. Laughing
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Re: Men Who Beat Their Wives!

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Ashlee

Honestly, all the abusive relationships I know of are of abusive wives man-handling their husbands. Some have even ended in divorce.

It's wrong, I shouldn't be laughing, but I can't help it.

I would rather be the abuser than the abused Laughing Laughing

No I think it is wrong from both sides. People can always settle their differences without hitting each other. It is wrong
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Any man who lays a finger on my female relatives gets a visit from her male cousins for a through beatdown.
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