being friends with bad people who are good to u

[Murax]

The thing is either the person changes You or You change the person. If You have wild friends if You're not having an effect on them they're having an effect on You and You may not even know it.

[surrender]

It seems that way pink bunny and the worse part of it. that inclused celebs. like beyonce, etc etc. anyone we liked, on judgment day we are going to be raised wid them.

[ms.nalia]

mis.nalia,

huuno, i don't keep gaalo friends first of all...i'm talking about muslim friends here. and even at that, i have limits to how non-religious they are...Lord knows i'm not perfect myself in terms of diin, but i have the appetite to wanna improve na'mean?? and the friends i'm talking about are not too extreme in their non-religious ways..like for instance, i will never be friends with a muslim who drinks and is proud of it, nor will i ever be friends with qowmu-luuud folks..never never never.

Personally, I grew up in so many differnt countries and met so many differnt ppl that I dont have a bias bone in me. I've been in Canada for most of my teenage/adult years and grew up in a small town with minimal amount of muslims save limitted somalis. At the end of the day, you have to own up to the choices you make in life, its not your friends choices that make you corrupt, its yours. If you have good faith in urself and good faith in your deen then nothing can shake that b/c its rooted in you. That being said, Im not gonna be friends with a drug dealer for example. But I beleive ppl are bruaght into your life for a reason and they are there to teach you something about who you are. If you have bad friends,then maybe they are there to show you how not to be or maybe they were braught into your life because you have the patience to help them grow to be better muslims. In any case, love your friends because they will love you back. Respect your friends, they will respect you back. Be there for your friends for they will be there for you!

[Basra-]

ms. nalia u r not even a muslim, u are a freaking italian. uff

[Lil_Cutie..]

[quote="PINK_BUNNY"][quote="surrender"]


[b][color=#FF40BF]zulayka i agree with you. for example i have these friends i known since like 10year now. they not good interms of religion. dont think they pray, cover themselves and everything else-religous wise. but
some of them have heart of gold. sweet hearts they are. love them to bits. but i gotta admit sometimes i can help wondering if im good myself or bad because of the "u are the company u keep" which prophet muhhamed (scw) said. and it makes me wonder, what if all my good deeds are wasted because of me be-friending with these people but then the min i see them. i feel they are worth every minute of my time. love them to bits. [/color][/b][/quote]

See ur right the prophet did say that and he didn't keep bad company. Isn't it true on judgment day ur raised wid the ppl u surrounded urself wid on earth? [/quote]


You will be raised up on judgement day with the person/s you loved the most, your idol! .. So heres no point following Jay-Z or whatever..
& Surrender sis!! MashaAllah.. why would you worry that these people are taking your good deeds away? If anything, you will be rewarded for loving these people for the sake of Allah, they make your time worth it? two people who love eachother for the sake of allah on the day of judgement will be shaded by the cloud of Allahs mercy!

& to the other sister, who said hanging out with her mates who drink and stuff doesnt harm her.. saxib, even if they arent muslim, Alchole is toxic and as a muslim yourself it should be someting you oppose, something you DisLike because Allah forbids it! So whether you see your muslim friends drinking it or your non muslim ones it should be the same, Islam and the words of Allah are for all mankind, not just muslims.

[Qatar_isaaq_chick]

got any bad friends..in terms of aqlaaq?

not all of my friends are perfect angels..in fact few are leading a really bad life. i've heard plenty of "u are the company u keep"...but i would definitely part company with that logic because...u can be good and have friends who are not good to themselves..spiritually, socially and financially..but are very very nice to u and want to continue being your friend. in this case, the best thing to do is to lead by example..be the good one, show them and hopefully u can convince them. to change their life.

YHH some of ma friends are bad
but hey nt everyone is perfect angles goody good .

And i believe bringing ur enermies closer than ur friends ..

[BABYGIRL123]

I am like the good one walahi my friends are crazy but not around the family or habraha and the sheikhs, anyways i am their excuse to everything if they are going to a wedding or party we are with babygirl baa la dhihi or its her families wedding or we are doing a paper or homework at the library with baby . i am tired of them using my name i went to minnesota 3 weeks ago for a friends family wedding who insisted i come and told my parents i am visiting habaryar and abtiyaal and my friends excuse was babygirl is going for school reasons to minesota and she insist we come today we went to this somali makhayaad and one of the girls dad came out, he is like wareegaga baa bataay xalaay you came late and she is like dad i am with baby and i was with her last nite plus tomorrow they are having a wedding but they love me and i love them thats what counts.