How do you deal with rejection?

[garowegal]

Rejection is extremely painful. At one point i went to a somali mall and i saw this fantastic looking farah.I purposely pulled a cat walk and he didn't even move an eye muscle. How dare him, i thought! I was traumatized.Anyway, he later looked at me after several attention seeking moves, smiled sexily- but it was too late. I was not interested then,all i wanted was for him to look at me instantly, and be amazed like everyone else.

[Murax]

Define "Was with". Sometimes this can get murky and people will think that something is a relationship when its not.


If its not marriage or planning to get married nobody owes anything to the other.

[suga_n_spice]

tell ur dear friend. that experiences r our best teachers. inshallah over time she'll get over it, but if he's not callin her because of what i think she may have done. tell her to b strong and have self-respect for the next 1 that comes around.

who am i kiddin tell her to move along to the next farax 8)
im sure there r more then 1. even the 1 that she blew off is worth talkin to

[The-Screw]

maybe you should tell your friend not to play with people's feelings. this is probably her fault, she might have said or done something that led him to believe that it could work out between the 2 of them but continued to play games with him, i respect him for walking away. fock her. b!tches come and go.

[suga_n_spice]

screw, is it me or r u gettin emotionally attached to ur feelings these dayz??
war xishood waa ku sidee?? mod baad tahay for ALLAH's sake

[The-Screw]

lol so what? just b/c i'm a mod doesn't mean i can't have feelings and act like a normal person. fall back yariiseey.

[gedo_gurl]

Lol Ive been rejected once when I was a teenager, and it didnt feel bad at all...After a couple of dates, I called him and asked him what he was up to that evening, and he blew me off and never called again. A few months later I met up with a friend and her cousin, and through conversation I found out that he was engaged to my friends cousin. She probably got suspicious, and Im so happy now that I wasnt seen out with him because that would have ruined my reputation and my frienships with other women.

[suga_n_spice]

lol so what? just b/c i'm a mod doesn't mean i can't have feelings and act like a normal person. fall back yariiseey.

wow. this is totally not the dull screw im used. u seem bitter. ma gabar baa ku daadisay??
then again, i did say u were emotionless, but i did not say go to that extent

[Qatar_isaaq_chick]

A friend of mine is devestated the guy she was 'with' never called her again.
NO im not referring to myself..

What do you do in a situation like this .. or tell them?

She shouldnt be devestated .. aniga i wouldnt giv a damn ..
and would difernitaly not call him thats jst bac ..

[The-Screw]

no one broke my heart, i'm just making a comment. ma been baa sheegay, b!tch come and go.

[FAH1223]

Lol Ive been rejected once when I was a teenager, and it didnt feel bad at all...After a couple of dates, I called him and asked him what he was up to that evening, and he blew me off and never called again. A few months later I met up with a friend and her cousin, and through conversation I found out that he was engaged to my friends cousin. She probably got suspicious, and Im so happy now that I wasnt seen out with him because that would have ruined my reputation and my frienships with other women.

He lied

[gedo_gurl]

Lol What?

Yeah, he lied for about a month and half of dates, but it was cool cos he was way older so it didnt hurt even before I knew, and then when I found out I figured it was a blessing that he blew me off.

[eternauta]

A friend of mine is devestated the guy she was 'with' never called her again.
NO im not referring to myself..

What do you do in a situation like this .. or tell them?

Advise your friend to stop once for all dating. Tell her it's one of the top sins. Tell her not to imitate gaalo culture.

he's not worth her time. tell her to forget about him and move on. if he was man enough he would call her by now and tell her whats wrong. guys like these shouldnt be allowed to date. they are worthless peice of sh.it. hope your friend is ok though. tell her not to get too worked up about it.

Offering a secular advice is very unfortunate.

[yungnfresh]

top 5 reasons males stop calling females:

5) General weirdness

4) Threatened by male member of her family

3) Refused repeated demands for sex

2) Met another girl

1) She farted noticeably


99% chance one of the above is the reason he bounced

[The-Screw]

4) Threatened by male member of her family



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