Dillema of Somali Dating

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Re: Dillema of Somali Dating

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FAH1223 wrote:just isolate yourself from women, dont look their way, dont talk to them, dont even acknowlledge them

just wait till you wanna get married and have it arranged :lol:

Advice of a virgin male. :lol:


Anyway why you guys complaining ever heard of game if not then just pm me ill give you a few pointers.
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Faraaxwivmurqo ...... what will you do? if a brother turns up at your doorstep asking
if he could go out with your sister.reactions..if you know what am saying
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Oh then i'd simply invite the gentleman in and proceed to kick his ass. But what kinda question is that ?
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:lol: :lol: :lol: call it a an open questions..if you know what am saying
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Ok then call this a close question 'what would you do if a gay turns up at your house and asks for your brother'?
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simple.....we dont them gay thang in our ends may be its common in your yard.....if you know what am saying :D
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No I really don't get what your saying. :|
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faraxBilaMuruq.. i seen ur game in Fardusa's topic :lol: :lol:
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military-mind wrote:faraxBilaMuruq.. i seen ur game in Fardusa's topic :lol: :lol:
Its faraaxwivmurqo don't mess up the name nursery- mind. :lol:
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^:lol: but my girlfried is Arab i swear :lol: :lol:
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really? where is she from?
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Dating is xaram..stop spreading fitna :down:
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i am confuse here ur complaining becuase the girls are covering up and they dont want to date you, good for them everytime a girl reject these temptation allah will reward us. Girls dont let these guys have it easy.

The new generation seems to be better at deen than the once that were around 2 year ago.
may allah cover our fault and forgive our sins.
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Re: Dillema of Somali Dating

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:lol: @ Somali dating. Wtf.

More like Islamically getting to know each other.
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Re: Dillema of Somali Dating

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Realest_007 wrote:Nowadays it has become problematic to date for Somali young people.

You cannot talk to a girl and get to know her in public, eventhough nothing harams happens between the two of you.

For girls this problem is huge, a good girl has to worry about her image/reputation as good girl and thus cannot date, talk or walk with guys that are not her family or guys her family knowes.

Some say, a guy needs to go to the parents and ask for their persmission, but as soon as he does this people will assume he wants to marry her. So if the answer is No...the road ends...if the answer of the parents is Yes, people will assume the marriage will follow soon enough lol....while your intention is just to get to know her before deciding on such a big question.

What can one do in this dilemma? Especially the ladies are in this big dillema.
Asalamu alikum

Dating is haraam in Islam, and so thats the way it should be for Somali muslims too.

If you want to get too know a girl the only way you could do it is through her family. In all cases you should have the intention to get married, this does not mean you will marry her, as you might have differences and not get married.

I advise both females and Males not to marry someone they don't know AT ALL, you must have at least some connection...even if its indirect. For example he goes to your University and so you have heard stuff about him, or she attends the same masjid as you, so you know stuff about her. There's always knowing her/him through some place, through family, work etc. In all cases you both should not be chummy...chummy and close! You should know each other [from far] or through others...there should be a connection, but no relationship between you two.

If you then want to get to know her more, contact her family by calling and speaking to her mother or father, and saying your interested in their daughter. If she agrees, then speak to her and find out if you both suit. The getting to know process should not take too long. There will always be differences in a relationship. There's no MR PERFECT females....there's no MISS PERFECT males, and that is life (C'est la vie).

And wallahu 'alim

this is my just two cents.

Wasalam to all
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