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Beenaale yar baad tahay Lexmark , waxaan cay ahayn ciyaalkinan daroodka ee xaraanta lagu soo koriyay u ma hayo . sorry !
Haddad igu jeclaatan iyo haddad igu nacaysaan idin aayay jirtaa taasi , anigu laakin waxaan tihin halkan baan ku arkay .
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are these reverts mostly African-American men?
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This is amazing wallahi dadkan xalimada un ilaliya ayan layabanahay I think foolxumadu wa
Cudur. Otherwise why
Would any body care
If xalimo make out with blue monkeys or pink monkeys, it doesn't make sense the problem is get ur own xalimo. Otherwise don't just generalize sxb.
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marcassmith wrote:look guys please cut the personal insults! i am really interested to know why this phenomenon is occuring in our community?

how come asians and arabs dont marry outside their own! why are somalis intent on marrying non somalis?

I think its largely due to the fact that there is a lot of self-hating somali people out there!

I consider 'their own' any muslim. Would you allow your sister to marry a practicing revert or an average farax that is lapse in matters of deen.


Also in another thread did you not claim that one of your parents was from mali and the other somali. Either your a hypocrite or a liar, probably both.
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Assalamu Alaikum

I think Somali ladies marry "white boys" for many reasons. I am always being asked if I know of a white brother.

I think all the reasons you guys have given are true.
Some ladies think that a white man will treat her better than a Somali, will help around the house and be affectionate. Others might be looking for a a revert because they want to marry someone that chose the religion. Others just might be attracted to white people.

I have a Somali friend that married a revert and I can tell you she has had sooooooo many problems with her family. Her dad actually disowned her. It took him years to even see his grandkids.

You all know that I am a "white girl" and that my husband is Somali. We have had our share of issues because the Somali culture is totally different than the Canadian culture. You have different upbringings and then there is the language barrier.
I use to hate it when my husband was with his mom (May Allah put her in paradise). I don't speak Somali and she didn't speak English. So when we were together he would only speak Somali and I felt totally cut off from the conversation. I couldn't share in whatever they were talking about. I knew that at times they were talking about me but I couldn't understand.
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wtf
somali women dont need revert how many habro i heard talk about their daughters boyfriend

and say "wuu muslimay oo idiris /muuse / bla bla " baan u bixiney ask cabdulwahaab he knows what i am talking about ahahah
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Do these women consider how long have this revert been practicing Islam?. I dont think I will trust a newly reverted/converted person, even that I'm not a big fan of interracial marriages.
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anigu naagahaan somalida waan la yaaba silkooda ma waxa ku jiira wax ragga gaalada muslimiye the fuk maxay iyaduu gaalka ugu gaalobii weyday bal waxay nugu sheekeynayso naag reer walba way wasakhayn uu gaal bay keenii waxay odhan wuu ii muslimay bal iyadu maxay igu gaaloobii weyday . miise iyada hoosteeda waxa ku jira wax ragga gaalada muslmiya
Nini naag uma muslimee . qooqiisa ayuu wax walba ku daya :lol:
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Amina/Tammy wrote:Assalamu Alaikum

I think Somali ladies marry "white boys" for many reasons. I am always being asked if I know of a white brother.

I think all the reasons you guys have given are true.
Some ladies think that a white man will treat her better than a Somali, will help around the house and be affectionate. Others might be looking for a a revert because they want to marry someone that chose the religion. Others just might be attracted to white people.

I have a Somali friend that married a revert and I can tell you she has had sooooooo many problems with her family. Her dad actually disowned her. It took him years to even see his grandkids.

You all know that I am a "white girl" and that my husband is Somali. We have had our share of issues because the Somali culture is totally different than the Canadian culture. You have different upbringings and then there is the language barrier.
I use to hate it when my husband was with his mom (May Allah put her in paradise). I don't speak Somali and she didn't speak English. So when we were together he would only speak Somali and I felt totally cut off from the conversation. I couldn't share in whatever they were talking about. I knew that at times they were talking about me but I couldn't understand.
Wa Alaikum Salam, sister Amina/Tammy. Sister, I have enjoyed browsing your blog. Keep the good work, and may Allah bless you. :up:
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COPY AND PASTE ALERT

YOU WILL FIND THE SAME ARTICLE ON SOMALIAONLINE --MARC SMITH YOU ARE BUSTED!!! SURRENDER!! AND THIS TOPIC MUST BE DELETED SINCE IT'S PLAGIARIZED
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Mr. Gello - The proud Somali Man posted August 27, 2008 05:51 PM

Somali Women and Revert Marriage Phenomenon


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I agree with what X.playa wrote before on similar topics, but I'm just going to reiterate because he is 100% right.

I think Somalis have a major social problems, somalis always complain about their girls marrying non-Somalis but there is no where Somali xijab girls can meet a like minded somali male of her peers.

Every other community has social single community clubs where even the parents go with their children to socialize with their own age from the opposite sex.

We have 90% of somali males not been able to meet a decent somali girl other then gaalo club or a dirty Ruwaayad. We have all the young ripe Somali girls locked behind doors and well fed with all those calories from rich diet of bariis and basto unburned.

The old Shukaansi of Somalia where the girl some how after months of secrecy during her evening trips to the market fetching sugar and gas for lambs and bringing a guy to her dad is over.

Instead of huge malls and masajid that costs 100,000 (I'm not saying don't expand masjids or do business, but social issues have to take precident) Somalis need to deal with reality, this menace of so many singles..should be dealt with.

We also are living the West. So I don't know why anyone would be concerned with mixing between races....it is bound to happen. People have choices. Somalis do not help themselves even in coming to the West. The killing, the laziness, the arrogance and what not has followed us here. So you have young girls (and boys) that just don't want to be associated with that.
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FAH IS XPLAYA UNBANNED YET
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The_Emperior5 wrote:FAH IS XPLAYA UNBANNED YET
Yes.
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Kramer wrote:COPY AND PASTE ALERT

YOU WILL FIND THE SAME ARTICLE ON SOMALIAONLINE --MARC SMITH YOU ARE BUSTED!!! SURRENDER!! AND THIS TOPIC MUST BE DELETED SINCE IT'S PLAGIARIZED
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Mr. Gello - The proud Somali Man posted August 27, 2008 05:51 PM

Somali Women and Revert Marriage Phenomenon


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From that link:
Pucca wrote:reverts are hot like that :wink:
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FAH1223 wrote:
The_Emperior5 wrote:FAH IS XPLAYA UNBANNED YET
Yes.

COOL THE MUJAHEED WILL BE BACK I GIVE HIM A CALL TOMOROW :up:
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