Is flirting haraam?

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Re: Is flirting haraam?

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Firefly wrote:
HutuKing01 wrote:Flirting,dating,zina,smoking are all haraam still people do it. We inherited this behavior from Adam pbuh who was told not to eat from the tree but decided to disobey.
Istaqfurillah walaal! There's no such thing as inheritance/original sin in Islam - we all have free will and so we can choose to sin or not..

Inheriting the behavior,not the sin. God created adam with the ability to sin, we are his children so you can speak of inheritance.
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Re: Is flirting haraam?

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HutuKing01 wrote:Flirting,dating,zina,smoking are all haraam still people do it. We inherited this behavior from Adam pbuh who was told not to eat from the tree but decided to disobey.

adam AS was responsible for his actions just like you are responsible for yours. There is no inheritance malarkey in here. Allah created us to have free will. To obey or to disobey. We did'nt inherit our free will from a man.

We got it from Allah
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Re: Is flirting haraam?

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HutuKing01 wrote:
Firefly wrote:
HutuKing01 wrote:Flirting,dating,zina,smoking are all haraam still people do it. We inherited this behavior from Adam pbuh who was told not to eat from the tree but decided to disobey.
Istaqfurillah walaal! There's no such thing as inheritance/original sin in Islam - we all have free will and so we can choose to sin or not..

Inheriting the behavior,not the sin. God created adam with the ability to sin, we are his children so you can speak of inheritance.
Okay, walaal. Can you show me proof, insha-Allah?
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Re: Is flirting haraam?

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Elan Morin Tedronai wrote:
HutuKing01 wrote:Flirting,dating,zina,smoking are all haraam still people do it. We inherited this behavior from Adam pbuh who was told not to eat from the tree but decided to disobey.

adam AS was responsible for his actions just like you are responsible for yours. There is no inheritance malarkey in here. Allah created us to have free will. To obey or to disobey. We did'nt inherit our free will from a man.

We got it from Allah
You take the word inheritance really serious. Its as if prophet pbuh said scholars inherit from us. And Sulayman inherited from Dawud .
It has nothing to do with original sin.
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Re: Is flirting haraam?

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sorry,i was just tying to give you a helping hand. :rose:
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Re: Is flirting haraam?

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Firefly:
Okay, walaal. Can you show me proof, insha-Allah?


The evidence is in the hadiths of prophet PBUH: scholars inherited from us(prophets).and in the quranic verses: Sulayman inherited from dawud.
Its completely different than original sin because christians believe that a non-baptized child wont make it to heaven if the baby dies in infancy .
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Re: Is flirting haraam?

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HutuKing01 wrote:
Firefly wrote:
HutuKing01 wrote:Flirting,dating,zina,smoking are all haraam still people do it. We inherited this behavior from Adam pbuh who was told not to eat from the tree but decided to disobey.
Istaqfurillah walaal! There's no such thing as inheritance/original sin in Islam - we all have free will and so we can choose to sin or not..

Inheriting the behavior,not the sin. God created adam with the ability to sin, we are his children so you can speak of inheritance.
allah created Adam the ability to chose to the good or bad in everything.
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Re: Is flirting haraam?

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Well there are 2 types of flirting

here goes..

1) Warya Take of ur cloth and show me what you got
2) What a beautiful beard you have mashallah


which one do you mean surrender.. :|
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Re: Is flirting haraam?

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HELWAA wrote:Well there are 2 types of flirting

here goes..

1) Warya Take of ur cloth and show me what you got
2) What a beautiful beard you have mashallah


which one do you mean surrender.. :|

looooool. the second one!
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Re: Is flirting haraam?

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HutuKing01 wrote:Firefly:
Okay, walaal. Can you show me proof, insha-Allah?


The evidence is in the hadiths of prophet PBUH: scholars inherited from us(prophets).and in the quranic verses: Sulayman inherited from dawud.
Its completely different than original sin because christians believe that a non-baptized child wont make it to heaven if the baby dies in infancy .
What did they inherit? Behaviour or knowledge?
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Re: Is flirting haraam?

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surrender wrote:
HELWAA wrote:Well there are 2 types of flirting

here goes..

1) Warya Take of ur cloth and show me what you got
2) What a beautiful beard you have mashallah


which one do you mean surrender.. :|

looooool. the second one!
when you're alone with a man it always start with the second and ends with the first thats why it's not allowed cus the shaydaan is always there.......fahanto :lol:
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Re: Is flirting haraam?

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HELWAA wrote:when you're alone with a man it always start with the second and ends with the first thats why it's not allowed cus the shaydaan is always there.......fahanto :lol:

lol taa waan ogahay! simple flirting baan iri! :mrgreen:
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Re: Is flirting haraam?

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surrender wrote:
HELWAA wrote:when you're alone with a man it always start with the second and ends with the first thats why it's not allowed cus the shaydaan is always there.......fahanto :lol:

lol taa waan ogahay! simple flirting baan iri! :mrgreen:

what is yo defination of flirting,.
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Re: Is flirting haraam?

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Surrender i think Cawar and Abdiwahab are experts on this subject you better ask them but in my opinion there is no simpel flirting huuno, either you stay in ur moms home and wait for ur prince or take the risk knowing even thou it's xaraam you have to get urself a man before you discover ur first ciro. :mrgreen:
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Re: Is flirting haraam?

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KUUSH wrote:what is yo defination of flirting,.

hmmm. flirting has different meaning to different people and has many levels. Let me try and explain the one I’m talking about in this thread.

a common form of social interaction whereby one person indirectly indicates a romantic interest towards the other person. It consists of conversation, body language, and is one-sided. It involves speaking and acting in a way that suggests greater intimacy than is generally.


HELWAA wrote:Surrender i think Cawar and Abdiwahab are experts on this subject you better ask them but in my opinion there is no simpel flirting huuno, either you stay in ur moms home and wait for ur prince or take the risk knowing even thou it's xaraam you have to get urself a man before you discover ur first ciro. :mrgreen:
looool waa hard choice maystiri?
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