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Somali-Star wrote:its best to marry as close as possible within your blood. but of course not too close as you don't want to have retarded kid(s). lol. for example, a distant cousin of yours.

i'm lucky in that i happen to have a few drop-dead, gorgeous looking distant cousins.

Nacala ku yal, ma inadeerka Kolombo, gabar quruxoon uu qalqaliisi, beer jileecsana Cagdheer Nag ba Haji xumeeyse

Somali-Star,

Drop dead gorgeous cousins? smh.

Find a woman with good akhlaaq and religious morals, that is better for you.


AW,

I never saw the need to marry from my own. My parents are from different qabiils and I think its better that way. Too much of the same thing can get boring after a while. Besides, if things don't work-out between you & her, it can draw a major wedge between the family. I've seen cousin marriages that have ended up destroying family relations. Why bring such ugliness to your home?

But if you click with someone and she happens to be from your clan, then that's a different story. But seeking out your own kin, that's very backward. I'm not in to the whole "tol" thing. Never attended any "tol" meeting, never donated any money to "tol" issues, not my style. I don't need to belong to feel good about myself, less headache that way.

Kolombo

I refuse to believe a woman would marry a low life for his qabiil....mony? yes..love? yes but not qabiil walle.Sadly many women think they can change a man thats why they stick with losers year after year hoping they get their act together and change for the sake of their families.

Hyper

I doubt in this day and age pple care about age, time have changed...better to be single then mariyng a low life who will make ur life miserble.

Kolombo,

Is it because opposite characters always attract Mes this a Xikmah from Allaah in which always people of different values are paired? Haddaad u fiirsato Ilaahay dadkiisa wuu isku miisaamaa si ay isu dheeli tiraan...Ninka fudud naag deggan buu ku beegaa and visa versa..

Otherwise dee laba waalan isma qaadaan

BTW don't shy away from OG women..If you do that, you are qabiiliiste

Kolombo,

which girl aa si xun kuu gashay abti? U seem to be very much against marriage and relationships these days lol.

But anyways marry a good girl, if that good girl is tolka even the more better

HELWAA wrote:

hyperactive wrote:kolombo, ader armey nagto deenta run ka aheyn awalba ay nin radis aheyd?

becasue qof an tukanin iska da in lagu sade, wah in lagu darsado maba aha.
becasue saladu wa basics of muslimnimo.

hadu te Allah daya3ay , ma ayadu i7san o sameyni?

or maybe she thinks iney weynatay and couldnt find another man.
some women think garoobnimo is better than not married at all.

xaraam caleyk yaa walad.Waxa ya kugu sheekayey?

This is the work of AbdiWahab and Co.

siren wrote:

HELWAA wrote:

hyperactive wrote:kolombo, ader armey nagto deenta run ka aheyn awalba ay nin radis aheyd?

becasue qof an tukanin iska da in lagu sade, wah in lagu darsado maba aha.
becasue saladu wa basics of muslimnimo.

hadu te Allah daya3ay , ma ayadu i7san o sameyni?

or maybe she thinks iney weynatay and couldnt find another man.
some women think garoobnimo is better than not married at all.

xaraam caleyk yaa walad.Waxa ya kugu sheekayey?

This is the work of AbdiWahab and Co.

Siren,

What is ?

Kolombo wrote: AW,

I never saw the need to marry from my own. My parents are from different qabiils and I think its better that way. Too much of the same thing can get boring after a while. Besides, if things don't work-out between you & her, it can draw a major wedge between the family. I've seen cousin marriages that have ended up destroying family relations. Why bring such ugliness to your home?

But if you click with someone and she happens to be from your clan, then that's a different story. But seeking out your own kin, that's very backward. I'm not in to the whole "tol" thing. Never attended any "tol" meeting, never donated any money to "tol" issues, not my style. I don't need to belong to feel good about myself, less headache that way.

Kolombo,

I don't mean marrying your first/2nd cousin at all but a woman from the same qabiil.

My friend used to go out with this woman. She was wonderful and had everything he desired in a woman. Unfortunately, she hailed from an ultraqabili family who deeply disliked his qabiil. Once in a while, she would slip up and ask him certain qabiil questions which were offensive. Her mother was a horror known for making poems, statements that were deeply offensive to his tribe. Her fam got between the two (they disliked him solely cause of qabiil).

So at a junction, he could have gone for it and had a family with her or to pursue other opportunities. In the end, the last thing he want to do is think about what her family would say to his children. Would they implant their evil ideas in the offspring ? Or would his children end up becoming a bunch who abhorred their abtiyaal ?

In the end, she ended up marrying this madow guy. He married a woman from his clan and life went on.

My father is Ogaden, Mother is Ogaden. I expect who i end up marrying to be that.

Clan marriages
inter clan marriages

wtf why not marry whoever has a personality that you could live with

Macaaney_1991 wrote:wtf why not marry whoever has a personality that you could live with

yeah but if the clan dont matches

e-d-i-t-e-d

What`s their qabiil if you don`t mind telling us Kolombo