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Re: Somali weddings are boring in comparison
Posted: Sat May 01, 2010 9:17 am
by qoraxeey
Tuba wrote:qoraxeey wrote:SHAASH / GAAMBO SAR
Isn't that the thing they have 7 days after the wedding to celebrate the girl getting deflowered?
yeah i think so
they sing .. like may God give you kids iyo hope your husband never leaves you
Re: Somali weddings are boring in comparison
Posted: Sat May 01, 2010 9:19 am
by BlackVelvet
qoraxeey wrote:Tuba wrote:qoraxeey wrote:SHAASH / GAAMBO SAR
Isn't that the thing they have 7 days after the wedding to celebrate the girl getting deflowered?
yeah i think so
they sing .. like may God give you kids iyo
hope your husband never leaves you
WTF
never heard that before, I guess it seems like a good time to sing it because there are no refunds
Re: Somali weddings are boring in comparison
Posted: Sat May 01, 2010 9:22 am
by Hyperactive
it's boring to you because you saw it over and over and you know what you expect.
for persian it's something you didnt experiment or seen it.
Re: Somali weddings are boring in comparison
Posted: Sat May 01, 2010 9:26 am
by Jamac_Yare
qoraxeey wrote:
your welcomed
qaado maxa noo qariya ????
lets go out for qado you done enough for today babes
Re: Somali weddings are boring in comparison
Posted: Sat May 01, 2010 9:27 am
by HELWAA
Wow..what a beautiful wedding.That bride is mashallah.Inantu toobka ay sidata qurux badana..
Re: Somali weddings are boring in comparison
Posted: Sat May 01, 2010 9:27 am
by surrender
so they did all that just for the Nikaax whats gona happen in the wedding? repeat everything? 
from the video is look like a gaal wedding, the kissing, the mixing of men and women, girl showing her body like that. all that is not allowed in our religion. that is why we are called Muslims. waa cajiib we all want to have as much fun as the galos, dress like them, immitate them but want to go to heaven!!! <-------- party pooper i know but do you ever wonder why we are different? because we are heading for different ends!!
her dress looks nnice if only it was women only. but is nikaah so it cant be women only.
anyways i can never understand why would a girl be in her own nikaax, waa ceeb, i personally would die of ceeb that day. 
let the men do all the nikaah business, obviously you going to have someone to represent you that day. but to be physically there...whats the point? you gona be at your own wedding and that thing they do after seven days. forgot its name. 
Re: Somali weddings are boring in comparison
Posted: Sat May 01, 2010 9:28 am
by surrender
HELWAA wrote:Wow..what a beautiful wedding.That bride is mashallah.Inantu toobka ay sidata qurux badana..
is not the wedding babe! is the nikaax, they did all that just for the nikaax.
Re: Somali weddings are boring in comparison
Posted: Sat May 01, 2010 9:28 am
by Tuba
BlackVelvet wrote:qoraxeey wrote:
yeah i think so
they sing .. like may God give you kids iyo
hope your husband never leaves you
WTF
never heard that before, I guess it seems like a good time to sing it because there are no refunds
Lol true say. I can't imagine naagooyin sing that, sounds really evangelical
I like how they stack the shaash on their bride's head though, looks cool
Re: Somali weddings are boring in comparison
Posted: Sat May 01, 2010 9:29 am
by Koronto60
I recently heard my mom saying shaash saar isn't allowed anymore 'cause it comes from pagan culture.
Anyone ever hear about Geedi Shaamboow? Apparently the shaash saar tradition came from that era.
Don't really know for sure though.
Re: Somali weddings are boring in comparison
Posted: Sat May 01, 2010 9:35 am
by BlackVelvet
People people people
nikaax is your wedding, the reception is the party afterwards you can see it in this video for the last few minutes. I don't know why Somalis divide it up as if the nikaax is the traditional bit and the party is the actual wedding
Marriage islamically is when the nikaax is done, legally it is when you sign the papers, wearing a white dress and eating cake is just wearing a white dress and eating cake. Do that infront of the sheikh or before you sign the papers but the party has no significance in a legal context.
Re: Somali weddings are boring in comparison
Posted: Sat May 01, 2010 9:37 am
by HELWAA
surrender wrote:HELWAA wrote:Wow..what a beautiful wedding.That bride is mashallah.Inantu toobka ay sidata qurux badana..
is not the wedding babe! is the nikaax, they did all that just for the nikaax.
thats her wedding walaal.
Re: Somali weddings are boring in comparison
Posted: Sat May 01, 2010 9:38 am
by surrender
i always thought Nikaah was your meher?
Re: Somali weddings are boring in comparison
Posted: Sat May 01, 2010 9:43 am
by BlackVelvet
Mehr is what you ask of your groom and its agreed before and mentioned during the nikaax (ps I dont see why a room of odayaal need to know this information)
Re: Somali weddings are boring in comparison
Posted: Sat May 01, 2010 9:44 am
by DisplacedDiraac
BlackVelvet wrote:I can't imagine a somali couple feeding each other honey or kissing like that
They shouldn't.. Not in public anyway.
Re: Somali weddings are boring in comparison
Posted: Sat May 01, 2010 9:48 am
by Firewall
This is a very poor comparison in my opinion because this couple looks extremely wealthy!
I wouldn't be surprised if if their clothes/rings/accessories cost more than 100k