Domestic Violence
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- AbdiWahab252
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Re: Domestic Violence
Pbear,
Sounds like a plan. There was this group that had something similar: a safe house fully furnished to be used for hosting mistresses, parties or a resting place for IDPs.
Sounds like a plan. There was this group that had something similar: a safe house fully furnished to be used for hosting mistresses, parties or a resting place for IDPs.
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Re: Domestic Violence
Paddington Bear wrote:Every married man should have a friend like you. I know such a friend who named his tiny flat The Hostel. I once went to visit him and found a young man in his twenties and an old man almost in his seventies staying there. Both men had marriage trouble and (temporarily) left their wives. I could only imagine the night time conversations these guys had.AbdiWahab252 wrote:Paddington,
Untrue. There are the boiling water/oil spills. Or the lacerations using the kitchen knife etc.
I don't see why you would spend the night in a house with a crazy Xalimo. Its time to move out or go couch surfing
I have a friend like that as well. He lives in his small 1 bedroom flat, and every other week he has a guy or two sleeping on his couch due to marriage troubles. It's like he's expecting it now. Every other weekend when I go to his place to watch football, some oday in his 40's or some young guy in his mid-20's are with him due to having troubles with their wives lol.
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Re: Domestic Violence
I bet the sex life is great, that is why he is going back.AbdiWahab252 wrote:Whats with the rash of these cases among Somali couples ? I am puzzled why a man would go back to a woman who pulls out a kitchen knife and cuts him with it. Shiid, if I was forced to jump out the 2nd floor bathroom window with nothing but my macawiis for a parachute, I'd be damned to go back.
Guys and gals, if it comes down to exchanging physical blows, dialing the police, pulling out knives or boiling water, its best to part ways peacefully.
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Re: Domestic Violence
AbdiWahab252 wrote:Whats with the rash of these cases among Somali couples ? I am puzzled why a man would go back to a woman who pulls out a kitchen knife and cuts him with it. Shiid, if I was forced to jump out the 2nd floor bathroom window with nothing but my macawiis for a parachute, I'd be damned to go back.
Guys and gals, if it comes down to exchanging physical blows, dialing the police, pulling out knives or boiling water, its best to part ways peacefully.
Well she's obviously doing something to make him return, the question is what is she doing?
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Re: Domestic Violence
Ismahan123 wrote:I bet the sex life is great, that is why he is going back.AbdiWahab252 wrote:Whats with the rash of these cases among Somali couples ? I am puzzled why a man would go back to a woman who pulls out a kitchen knife and cuts him with it. Shiid, if I was forced to jump out the 2nd floor bathroom window with nothing but my macawiis for a parachute, I'd be damned to go back.
Guys and gals, if it comes down to exchanging physical blows, dialing the police, pulling out knives or boiling water, its best to part ways peacefully.
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Re: Domestic Violence
Samatr wrote:AbdiWahab252 wrote:Whats with the rash of these cases among Somali couples ? I am puzzled why a man would go back to a woman who pulls out a kitchen knife and cuts him with it. Shiid, if I was forced to jump out the 2nd floor bathroom window with nothing but my macawiis for a parachute, I'd be damned to go back.
Guys and gals, if it comes down to exchanging physical blows, dialing the police, pulling out knives or boiling water, its best to part ways peacefully.
Well she's obviously doing something to make him return, the question is what is she doing?
Samatr,
I haven't got the foggiest idea. Some of these guys are very stupid or maybe its the effect of becoming domesticated
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Re: Domestic Violence
Ismahaan had a point, but still that's no excuse waa la miirsadaa when a knife is put your body. 
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Re: Domestic Violence
Samatr,
Or worse, he becomes someone's girlfriend in County because she called 9-1-1
Or worse, he becomes someone's girlfriend in County because she called 9-1-1
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Re: Domestic Violence
Perhaps the knife is part of their sex life, makes the whole thing even more exciting... 
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Re: Domestic Violence
Abdi
Dude still there is no excuse, next time she might actually finish him off.
Ismahaan
I guess she stabs him if he finishes ahead of schedule.
Dude still there is no excuse, next time she might actually finish him off.
Ismahaan
I guess she stabs him if he finishes ahead of schedule.
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Re: Domestic Violence
Ismahan123 wrote:Perhaps the knife is part of their sex life, makes the whole thing even more exciting...
Ismahan,
How can your ina adeer Abdiwahab ensure that his future wife doesn't practice such things ?
I can understand choking, whipping but once the kitchen knife is pulled out, believe it that I will jump out the window with my Macawiis Parachute.
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Re: Domestic Violence
Hey think about it, it keeps him on his toes and serves as a great motivator when he is not upto great performance. This serves him as a reminder, kinda like those refreshment courses you gotta do when you work in your career every few years or so. 
It is not a bad deal dear.
It is not a bad deal dear.
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