Refusing to meet her family..what does it mean?

[The_Patriot]

Ok the reason why im confused's that it happend for the 3rd time. everytime i suggest dropping of by at her home, she makes excuses saying she doesn't want her family or other people to know iney ila socoto cause they will talk. her family knows my family.

i mean, i digg her, she diggs me but affraid to let her family know. WTF?

what do U think I should do to confront her?

dude not every family is djiboutian the only time you need to go their family is with the old men trying to strike a deal about the meher apart from that you will be a ciyala suq that needs proper karbash with a hockey stick.
Dude If you came to my family with her then you would have to have called 911 in advance.

[surrender]

CoolPoisons just confront her walal. and see what she says. unless aysan wax qarsanayn, she has no right to refuse you to meet her family.

[DisplacedDiraac]

Why would you want to meet her family?
To have a cup of tea with them? If so.. good for her, she should refuse and use you for your money untill she finds a worthy man

[Mystic_Angel]

Cp, walalo, it means she is waiting for the right time. Don't jump on conclusions specially while she is thinking things through. Have some patience and be the better person, trust me fudeyd Mel laguma gado.

[Murax]

Coolpoison,

Abdiwahab252 baad nugu noqotay, whats up with all these threads

[kambuli]

Cool,

Few things:

1. As Surrender suggested, confront her and make sure she tells you why she is hiding her family/you.

2. Are you serious and ready for marriage? Because only when you are ready is the time to meet the family.

3. If she was dating another man and she just dumped him so easily, be prepared to be dumped too...You never know walaal.

4. How does she feel about you? Is she better educated than you? Are you elligible for her as per the standard of her family? You know you can always find out what kind of family they are...Do some googling within the Somali community

5. If you are not serious, just leave her alone, it is not wise to play around with our girls...Think about it, she is just like your sister, you don't anyone playing with your sister...

At last best wishes for you if you are serious..

[Berke]

i thought you were married dude?!

[CoolPoisons]

surrender, ive been thinking of doing that laakin i dont want to push her??

mystic_angel, when's the right time? 2 weeks? months? years? 1 thing i dont like's waisting time. waiting for this girl till she makes up her mind.

kambuli,

Ive never been more serious and ready for marriage than i am now. gabadha aad ayaan ka heley, weve great chemistry. same interest. were both very educated. her family would accept me.

i dont know inay ka hartay yarka kale ee la socotey, maybe she find out she doesnt have chemistry with him. because in the begining she rejected me, then we still talked and waan weydiyey again and she said, i can only talk to 1 person. we still talked more, had great conversations for hours, were on the same level and when i asked for the third time, she changed her opinion and gave me a chance but she said to be patient.

[SummerRain]

You are not going about this courting the right way. Ninki wanaagdoonaya albabka hore ayu ka so gaala, hence why from early on you should have asked the permission of her parents to get to know her. Meeting outside and talking for hours when it is secretive makes the whole thing seem like a waste of time.

[S-D-M]

QOOQU waa cudur alle naga koriyey

[Talo alle udaa]

Most people who come to this forum, come for amusement and play. Matters that are serious to you, Mr. Coolpoison should be taken up with people you hold in high esteem in your life, real people you know. People tend to exagerate things online only because it seems so easy, but telling a real live person your situation might make matters more clear. Those are my advice to you.


Mida kale innanta hadii ay walaal kale qalbiga ku heysay in aad u kaadisid baa ficnaan lahaa, wa sida wanaagsan.
Hadii eey iskeed ooga tanaasusheyna waa kheyr.

Illaahey xaalkaaga hakuu sahlo.

[sexy-kitten]

I've been following this story from day 3... I can tell you with confidence that you're not "the one"... Keep it moving, on to the next one!

LOL@ advo, officer rickyyyyyyy!!! Don't stop there nooh "Funny you claimin the same bitch that I'm penetratin" are you implying something here?

[NewHargeisaGirl]

Why would u wanna share your private life with strangers? No wonder why she is refusing you to meet her family...BIG MOUTH