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Re: Most Relationships are Mistakes
Posted: Tue Sep 14, 2010 8:19 pm
by HalfDzed
Pffft. Lies. The motherland probably has the potential to be to psycho-therapists what the Galapagos islands were to naturalists at one point.
My therapist is on my speed dial and there's no shame in it, shorty.
As long as it ain't schizophrenia, its all good.
Good call on your part regarding the last bit.
Re: Most Relationships are Mistakes
Posted: Tue Sep 14, 2010 9:38 pm
by marcassmith
There are no such things as mistake. Only experiences.
Re: Most Relationships are Mistakes
Posted: Wed Sep 15, 2010 9:41 am
by HELWAA
BV
You need a man in ur life...so what if it end in divorce..wax kasta waa qadar.
Re: Most Relationships are Mistakes
Posted: Wed Sep 15, 2010 10:04 am
by zulaika
BlackVelvet wrote:Who really ends up with the person they're meant to be with anyway? The idea that you can live in harmony with someone for a lifetime is frighteninly optimistic...Successful relationships happen when the two people concerned both stubbornly refuse to admit they made a mistake. Yet this doesn't prevent women from actively searching for their next mistake.
Not me. I know better. Kiss a frog and he doesn't morph into a guy in a Gap ad. He stays a frog. Or becomes something slimier. I think that going senile in the company of cats is more desirable than living life with a rat.
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Heaven; Selling your soul in the name of LOVE has never been easier...
so i take it you'll never have a relationship with a man?
sure some relationships are mistakes....but that don't mean all are...to regard all as such is rather futile, specially when one indicts without actually experiencing it........... huuno, you cannot live life with a constant preemptive approach. it is not just with relationships, but with every other aspect of life that require a balanced take of prudence and leap of faith.
Re: Most Relationships are Mistakes
Posted: Wed Sep 15, 2010 10:17 am
by shiniile9
Engagement = parole.
Marriage= detention.
Ciid wanaagsan S/nutters.
Re: Most Relationships are Mistakes
Posted: Wed Sep 15, 2010 11:51 am
by BlackVelvet
HELWAA wrote:BV
You need a man in ur life...so what if it end in divorce..wax kasta waa qadar.
Helwa isn't that unhealthy; getting married with one eye on the door?
I don't need a man. I already have everything I need alxamdulillah.
Re: Most Relationships are Mistakes
Posted: Wed Sep 15, 2010 11:58 am
by BlackVelvet
zulaika wrote:BlackVelvet wrote:Who really ends up with the person they're meant to be with anyway? The idea that you can live in harmony with someone for a lifetime is frighteninly optimistic...Successful relationships happen when the two people concerned both stubbornly refuse to admit they made a mistake. Yet this doesn't prevent women from actively searching for their next mistake.
Not me. I know better. Kiss a frog and he doesn't morph into a guy in a Gap ad. He stays a frog. Or becomes something slimier. I think that going senile in the company of cats is more desirable than living life with a rat.
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Heaven; Selling your soul in the name of LOVE has never been easier...
so i take it you'll never have a relationship with a man?
sure some relationships are mistakes....but that don't mean all are...to regard all as such is rather futile, specially when one indicts without actually experiencing it........... huuno, you cannot live life with a constant preemptive approach. it is not just with relationships, but with every other aspect of life that require a balanced take of prudence and leap of faith.
I will grow old with a litter of cats
Istaqfurullah. Well she did say, most and not all. This is not my view point but some random book that caught my eye because of the irony in the title.
In my opinion leaps of faith are for people who can't be bothered to calculate the risks or look for an alternative, I am not a leapy person. Like they said, only fools rush in
Re: Most Relationships are Mistakes
Posted: Wed Sep 15, 2010 12:01 pm
by HELWAA
BV
Not every marriage end in divorce walaal and even if it happens it wil be great exprience.Remember we are wiser thanx to our mistakes.Nolosha ha ka baqan walaal hadii kale waliga meelna gaari meysid.
May Allah bless you with wadaad
Re: Most Relationships are Mistakes
Posted: Wed Sep 15, 2010 12:02 pm
by ms.naliaa
BV.....were you not in love like a week ago?????
When did you turn into a angry black woman??
Re: Most Relationships are Mistakes
Posted: Wed Sep 15, 2010 12:04 pm
by waryaa
according to many studies, there's no perfect relationship. Human species are hard-wired to be hard on each other. A recent study on thousands of women show that a woman cannot have security and great sex drive toward her husband at the same time. Other studies show financial difficulties make love-life miserable for both partners. u end up on a bumpy journey either way.
Re: Most Relationships are Mistakes
Posted: Wed Sep 15, 2010 12:11 pm
by BlackVelvet
Thank you Helwa, lakin wadad scares me, I picture nin gar weeeeeeyn qabo who always has a disapproving look on his face like my macalin duksi
Divorced, married, single, only God knows where we'll be in 10/20 years, wax kheyr qabo lee inshallah
Re: Most Relationships are Mistakes
Posted: Wed Sep 15, 2010 12:16 pm
by BlackVelvet
ms.naliaa wrote:
BV.....were you not in love like a week ago?????
When did you turn into a angry black woman??
I am not angry just a tad bit disappointed, it's nothing like the movies waa kharaab
Lets just say that I am more of a realist than I thought. So much for idealistic lovey doveyness, it's not for everyone
Re: Most Relationships are Mistakes
Posted: Wed Sep 15, 2010 12:32 pm
by SultanOrder
BV one thing I've learned from girls is that love comes to them naturally, even for the wrong people, so trust me once you find the right guy and you get over the infatuation part of new relationships and actually make it work, you'll love him.
Personally I'm a guy, I believe in love and will marry someone I love, but I also trust in Allah that he will give me someone I deserve, so if I believe that if I'm righteous allah will take care of me, so I don't worry. Also, I can be 40 and still find a girl at any age easier than a girl at that age. Insha'allah let us all have that view.
Re: Most Relationships are Mistakes
Posted: Wed Sep 15, 2010 12:56 pm
by Murax
BV,
Theres no such thing as mistakes. Theres things You do, and things You don't do.
Re: Most Relationships are Mistakes
Posted: Wed Sep 15, 2010 1:02 pm
by qoraxeey
my mom & dads relationship was a mistake
but I'm glad it happend anywayz
