Somali Girls Attitude towards Guys

[BlackVelvet]

Emotionally stunted you are. You are not supposed to be afraid of creepy crawlies, you go down stairs to see if a buglar just made that funny sound in the night, you throw around punches like you couldn't care less if your nose got broken but you can't let yourself like or love a woman because you might get hurt?

[Lord Diplock]

Emotionally stunted you are. You are not supposed to be afraid of creepy crawlies, you go down stairs to see if a buglar just made that funny sound in the night, you throw around punches like you couldn't care less if your nose got broken but you can't let yourself like or love a woman because you might get hurt?

BV: What are you on about walaal? you lost me.

The essense of my thread was to bring to your attention my experience with Somali girls over the yrs.

[HalfDzed]

Emotionally stunted you are. You are not supposed to be afraid of creepy crawlies, you go down stairs to see if a buglar just made that funny sound in the night, you throw around punches like you couldn't care less if your nose got broken but you can't let yourself like or love a woman because you might get hurt?

Shit has nothing to do with being emotionally scared, everything to do with women's psyche in general. This applies to any woman, whether she's a classmate, work-mate, love interest, even a neighbor. Dude tries being nice and makes the mistake of letting his guard down, then all hell breaks loose. I don't think women can help it, they only act on instinct & their sub-concious. My issue is when they try to pin all blame on men and walk around like they're little angels.

Want to know why men are unwilling to commit? Why men don't even bother with polite affections & chivalry anymore? The answer lies closer than you think.

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[BlackVelvet]

Shit has nothing to do with being emotionally scared, everything to do with women's psyche in general. This applies to any woman, whether she's a classmate, work-mate, love interest, even a neighbor. Dude tries being nice and makes the mistake of letting his guard down, then all hell breaks loose. I don't think women can help it, they only act on instinct & their sub-concious. My issue is when they try to pin all blame on men and walk around like they're little angels.

Want to know why men are unwilling to commit? Why men don't even bother with polite affections & chivalry anymore? The answer lies closer than you think.

Diplock I was talking to this guy here.

HlfDzd this conversation feels like deja vu, you have woman hating days and I shouldn't judge because I have man hating days. Live and let live walaalkiis

[Lord Diplock]

Shit has nothing to do with being emotionally scared, everything to do with women's psyche in general. This applies to any woman, whether she's a classmate, work-mate, love interest, even a neighbor. Dude tries being nice and makes the mistake of letting his guard down, then all hell breaks loose. I don't think women can help it, they only act on instinct & their sub-concious. My issue is when they try to pin all blame on men and walk around like they're little angels.

Want to know why men are unwilling to commit? Why men don't even bother with polite affections & chivalry anymore? The answer lies closer than you think.

Diplock I was talking to this guy here.

HlfDzd this conversation feels like deja vu, you have woman hating days and I shouldn't judge because I have man hating days. Live and let live walaalkiis

We cannot have women and men hating days, we need each other walaal.
I hate men who diss women with passion, we all have our failings at the end of the day.

[zulaika]

From experience, I noticed the least effort you put in to a Somali chick, the more she wants you.

The minute you try to show her some respect or attention, she turns in to the biggest bitch you know, sadly.

aint that a b!tch.

what's the saying?.. something begets something... yeah, be good and i'm sure she'll reciprocate....just make sure you choose your "target" wisely.

[HalfDzed]

Why is it that women can get away with the use of the word "bitch" and men can't?

[HELWAA]

If you're nice to some women they will treat you like a piece of shit.

When you meet someone you want build a life with take a good look of her family and friends.Qof kasta wa mesha oo ku soo korey iyo qofka oo la saaxibka yahy.I dont care how nice she is, the apple dont fall far from tree.

[BlackVelvet]

The problem, I think, is someone rubbed all of us the wrong way at one point in time and now we are so much better at recognising the bad in people.

Oh, the days when life was all sunny and bright with fields of daisies all the time. Now those kind of days come and go and make me think I'm bipolar.

[HalfDzed]

If you're nice to some women they will treat you like a piece of shit.

That was my point.

A lot of women end up with losers & un-fit men because of reasons unknown to us, but I can bet you, they mostly deserve each other.

Nothing in life is ever black & white.

[HELWAA]

^^Indeed, I have seen my share of ungratefull xalimoos who treated good men like dirt.It happend to many close relatives to me.Aakhirki waxay ku wada danbeeyen losers.Nabsigii ba ku dhacay

[HalfDzed]

Helwaa,

It goes both ways, I've seen men literally running from good women and getting abused by other women. My cousin was once married to this really good woman; religious, took care of his mother, gave him 5 beautiful children, etc. I was around 12 or so when I met her and I really liked her, then he moved to Dubai for work, this was in Somalia. He abandoned them. Never even looked back. Then he went to Canada, re-married, divorced his first wife and completely cut them out of his life. Like they never existed to him. The new wife ultimately got him in to some trouble with Canadian authorities and he had to flee to Yemen.

If you can't be responsible, there's no point in destroying someone's life and bring children in to a miserable existence. It happens too often.

There's just no excuse for being a bitch or an asshole. Treat everyone with decency and justly, its not that difficult.

[HELWAA]

One thing i never understood is why most somali men never look back when thy leave the wife...dont they know the kids is there responsibility..yacni aduunkan iyaga keeney aakhirana wa la waydiineya.

[HalfDzed]

I think it easily stems from the fact that mothers and fathers don't have the same attachement to their children. Women have a natural biological connection to their children, whereas men don't. Most men see children as an annoyance and mostly as something they're stuck with. All men have the potential of being dead-beat dads & irresponsible, the difference is the ones who choose responsibility & stick it out no matter what, these are what you might call 'good fathers'.