Guys how do you let a girl down gently?

[The-Screw]

for me it's the most effective way, it comes so naturally and effortless that sometimes i find myself losing touch with those closest to me.

[abdalla11]

you can start by not communicating with her.

Most girls like men who are silent

[HalfDzed]

Just ignore her ass and she'll eventually get the idea, hopefully she's not a slow one! The more you keep contact, the more of a mess you'll find yourself in - cease & desist contact. And if she's someone you see in person, pretend that you never met her before in your life. It'll sting like a bitch, but she'll thank you someday for it. Its all about tough love, homes. Besides, if situations were reversed, she would've done the same shit to you, while you're here contemplating how to break it gently to her. Nothing personal, its about self-preservation at the end of the day.

[Cirwaaq]

Have you ever noticed the reaction women give when the topic is about men with multiple wifes?

ask her how she feels about the subject, if she is cool with then you would be silly letting her go.

[shidow1]

Just plain truth....tell her you are breaking up....If that is not working....cheat on her and let her see you with the other girl..... with you.....If this does not work....ask for restraining order...

[udun]

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41 year olds can throw their best advice free of charge.

[shidow1]

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41 year olds can throw their best advice free of charge.

Saxib what happened u making my age public... actually I look mutch younger.... what is your advice for this poor man....mareehan I might add....

[udun]

Shidow1, You exposed it the other day when they were talking about marriage. My advice to RuralMan is don't let her down, marry her. This is a Somali woman and RuralMan is a Somali brother, so we should be encouraging Somalis to get married asap. Imagine RuralMan turs that lady down and she runs away from Somali men and marries outside of the Somali race

Bro RuralMan, if the lady is good Muslima, my advice to you is to marry her. You may find joy and happiness with her insha-Allah.